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I am a depressed girl.

I can’t function properly, I am so intropective, self-aware to the point where I can’t think of anything but every thiny thing that I am doing. God I can’t take this, that I feel so disconnected from life, I have this emotional cancer and all I want to do is scream, but there is barely any room to breathe and eveything I do and say feels worthless and wrong. I let my emotions dictate my life, please someone tell me how to stop before I self-destruct?

Please somebody help me!

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Kaimi offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Piscataway, NJ, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Get off the computer, get outside and exercise. Take a night off of homework and go to bed early. Or watch a funny movie. You are the most important thing you have and you need to take care of yourself. If there’s something bothering you, try to figure out what it is and how to solve the problem. You won’t feel better instantly, it will take a while, but force yourself to keep going. Everyone feels terrible once in a while. However, if you feel like what you’re going through is worse than usual, or just won’t go away, or you absolutely can’t take it anymore, you might want to go to a doctor and get some medicine. Just keep in mind that most people, especially teens, get really depressed once in a while. Don’t worry - you’ll feel better soon. Good luck!

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live.enjoylife offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 93 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

if you believe in God, OR if you can tolerate dialogue surrounding God and get the good points/basic - I HIGHLY recommend joyce meyer - she has a web site:
joyce meyer dot org and has all kinds of REALly practical solutions on changing wrong thinking, having peace and joy. i was NOT into faith at all and she’s changed my life, all my friends (even athiests) her rap is REAlly practical - how to get positive, feel positive - overcome dark depression, etc - and shes been in the trenches - was sex’y abused/came from violent past - she’s Really funny too.,,
thats the best i can recommend …..fyi, her programs which you can watch daily now have panels of people and guests on them - dont look at those - keep looking til you find the ones where she just talks or listen to the radio programs where she just talks - she will have your subject/whatever you need help on just have to keep looking - it has COMPLetely changed my life from daily suicidal/miserable/dark/etc to happy, peaceful joyful. hope this helps. also - try to exercise and eat right. its amazing what that can do as well to restore balance. xx shout anytime.

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*kyle* offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Salt Lake City, UT, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

All you need to do is go have a really really fun weekend get all your friends together and throw a party it just seems to lighten up the mood and for the most part everything ends up happy and great!!!

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LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 189 #
Colwyn Bay, 90, GB | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Don’t ask me, I’m finding it hard t figure out why I should stay alive right now…… so bored of life,

Hope you find your answer though

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*kyle* offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Salt Lake City, UT, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

See all both of you need as a good weekend they always make everything better!!! go out and have some fun! and that is to you and lazyDaze

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LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 189 #
Colwyn Bay, 90, GB | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Sorry i shouldn’t have said that, it was wrong.

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*kyle* offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Salt Lake City, UT, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Na people get depressed i do too it happens we all just have to get through it ^_^

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LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 189 #
Colwyn Bay, 90, GB | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Yes well depression is one thing but makeing people around you feelit to is not good, I’m not going to reply here again, this post wasn’t about me and my troubles, its about the poor anon and hers.
Goodluck with it anon

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*kyle* offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Salt Lake City, UT, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

psh it can be about anyone who wants to talk life is just great like that

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Dan TL offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 64 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

Yeah, I suggest you take time off to collect your thoughts. When I’m in situation I walk down the beach at night where I connot be disturbed, and plan my strike on life and I discover somthing each time.

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oneword offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

im depressed too but i work though it so just keep tryin

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Oster: Gettin' It. offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (16 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Details would be useful here. In general, when my mind is packed and emotions high, I get out of the house to some place I an relax. Coffee shop sometimes, maybe a walk, getting together with friends I can just kick beck and laugh with, and getting out in nature and feeling it, listening to it, breathing it in.

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PerpetuallyInLove offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

I have a crazy depression that comes and goes, and i know how you feel. Just think of whatever makes you happiest in the world, then do it. I hope you feel better, I know I do, knowing other people know what its like…

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xsilence1 offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
East Islip, NY, US | 9 months, 1 week ago (5 days, 5 hours after post)

ya know what … you might be suffering now but you arent the only one we are all suffering with you. don’t worry i promise you that soon you will have somehting good in your future that will make up for all the pain and suffering. the song i dedicate to you right now is the song “hold on” or “March on” both by Good charlotte, search up the song and it might give you confidence. but try to realize there are interesting things to do in your life. i found this video on youtube and it relaxes me when im depressed maybe it could help you. if you like the red jumpsuite apparatus

the link is: http://youtube.com/watch?v=L8MwuF3akzg

if you feel like u cant talk to anyone cuz no one will listen to you or just takes things the wrong way u can always talk to me… i know how painful it is to feel so low in life… but also just remember, everyones life serves a purpose we dont know what it is but we always add a verse to that play…

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