Love help: I dont know who to pick? - Help.com

Long distance rarely ever works out.

People have a very, seriously difficult time remaining close when they can’t physically be close.

I have been in similar situations not so long ago, and have to agree that physcial proximity is a major factor. What helped me solve my dilemma was having to make an honest determination about the person who was far away: was I in love with them?

Its the question whcih no one can answer except you,
Everyone can give you advice but not answers.
You have to decide whom to pick b’coz no one other
than you will be the Judge. So think Possitvely and
properly to Choose someone.

Regards,
Shree

If you think that the guy with whom you are dating is good for you now and since you are not
ready for long term releationship then you should continue with the current guy.
But its not good to Hurt Someone , who loves you ! But its your decision at the last.
Dont look for partner right now but look for having a true friend.

Regards,
Shree

who is better in bed

hmmm…i have been in a long distant relationship once, and it did not work out!
what i noticed about your comment was that he admitted he loved you- but i did not hear you say we admitted to each other! and it is not fair to drag him along if he thinks he is the only one you have feelings for? the question is - is why did he say he loved you? because he knew you were seeing others and wanted to pull on your heart strings….and if you were not asking for his love- then why does he love you?
i have been married twice and learned a lot from both…mostly though that it does not matter who your partner is- you will always have the same problems, with who ever you choose- but it is about YOU and how you handle yourself in the relationship that will ultimately keep that relationship together! so before you choose ither, you have to really know yourself! if you date a man far away - are you a strong woman/man to be faithful to him and honest.?…but in the same respect if you date the other are you a strong enough person to let go of the other and not drag both people along?
your head will always give you the right answer-but your heart may play the devils advocate and keep you in limbo! ither way one has to be let go of(because they deserve the chance to find someone who is there one and only)

if they really love you, and you really love them, don’t be long distance, move closer, if you can handle this

Long relationships dont always work out but try to campare both of them. who do U like more, who treats u better, and who U have the most fun with

well im in the same position i dont kno which one to pick but i beleive if i went through a stage that i was diein i would pick the one i want the most the one i would die for but thats jus me you have to pick on ur own

never date people at work, trust me its always a bad idea!