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you should tie them to a tree and threaten to hit them with a truck until they agree to get help. i am being serious too.

yeah i guess that i didn’t think about that part. maybe you could get a family friend or a close friend to you that you can confide in to talk to them for you.

if your family starts to get mad just try to avoid them at the time until they cool down then go and try to talk to them

I’ve helped alot of people over my past 3 years of teh internet, and atm, im in skool, sitting by hottallhooker. I’ll give you some of my more detailed advice sometime later if you still need it. But, currently all i can say, in the most basic way, is, well, if ur sis wants you dead, avoid her the best you can, and when you notice when your mother is mad, then avoid her too.

hottallhooke wrote:
if your family starts to get mad just try to avoid them at the time until they cool down then go and try to talk to them

ya, nice 1 dude, u totally copied my reply :P

what are you talking about my reply went up first.
you copied me you retard

i still think that you should get a close friend to talk to them and if that doesn’t work maybe you need to go and stay with a friend for a while until things get better at your place.

yo wut up hooker and obvious

how old is your sister?

she likes metal dark colthes dark things and grudge music hot topic/spencers right?

hottallhooke wrote:
i still think that you should get a close friend to talk to them and if that doesn’t work maybe you need to go and stay with a friend for a while until things get better at your place.

agreed, find kind and caring friends that you can open up to and express your problems. They can probably soothe your mind and make you not stress so much over your family life at home.

wow well i don’t know this one sounds really bad this one is going to take some thinking. i got it you can go to the Dr. Phill

i noticed you didn’t say nothing about your dad. is he still there

she is prabably just one of those people she is not mental she is just someone who needs to be alone and do waht they want like tell her to go and spend some time w/ her frineds and have a destructicon with heavy metal.

destucticon is wehn you take a whole bunch of junk out to middle of nowhere build a bonfire and smash it then burn it and hang out with friends do some pyro stuff too that is what i do and it works releses anger rage hate all that stuff

oh well this takes me back to my first suggestion of getting help from a friend

send her to the junk yard with about $40 and your stuff will be fine

Deepandmeaningful wrote:
Mmmm this is a difficult one - dysfunctional families don’t really see themselves as such - it is only usually evident to someone living within it that doesn’t fit in. Essentially, families rarely seek help and certainly not at the instigation of a family member. From what you’ve said you’ve made your feelings clear which is healthy for you psychologically - other than that you should attempt to distance yourself psychologically from them - you may need some help doing this and should talk to a trained professional about the situation you find yourself in - if you can do it by yourself that’s good too. I lived in a dysfunctional family and was very much the black sheep myself and so I know where your coming from with this - they never saw the error of their ways because to them I was wrong not them…

Take steps (no matter how long it takes) to build a future for yourself aware from them - aim at becomming financially independent as soon as you can and look forward to a different kind of future for yourself…

You should listen to this, keep looking toward your future, im sure you will make it somewhere good in life if you keep your grades up and work really hard toward your life goal. As for now, stick it out until you can finally leave> Make sure you have friends that will b there 4 u wen u need help mentally or possibly physically.