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Still love her :( I cant let her go…

. cant accept its over

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 minute after post)

Oh honey. Hugs. It’s hard to let someone you love go. I know first hand. But time will heal all wounds. Just take one day at a time, keep yuorself busy and sitracted and each day it will get a little bit easier.

Hugs!!

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 minute after post)

It might not be over for good. What the situation ?

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ewoud offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Amsterdam, 07, NL | 2 years, 2 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Dan TL wrote:
It might not be over for good. What the situation ?

Well, lets say she said it to me quite clear :p But I still have (secretly) hope that it might come back in the future. She doesnt hate me now or something, so perhaps…xD

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ewoud offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Amsterdam, 07, NL | 2 years, 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

anothernikki wrote:
Oh honey. Hugs. It’s hard to let someone you love go. I know first hand. But time will heal all wounds. Just take one day at a time, keep yuorself busy and sitracted and each day it will get a little bit easier.

Hugs!!

Thx :) quick reply! :o Im feeling better already :D

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Well You never know what could happen in this world but to save your self some pain go with what nikki said, and if somthing good happens it’ll catch you by surprise.

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Hello users,Im Sandy offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
CA | 2 years, 2 months ago (16 minutes after post)

I knoe it’s hard at first but like Niki said, time will heal all wounds.
I know it’s hard but just have faith and tell your self yourself your a great person that other person would be lucky to have. Anyways there are billions and billions of people on this earth, theres got to be at least one other person out there for you.
good luck and god bless,
sandy.

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Hello users,Im Sandy offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
CA | 2 years, 2 months ago (16 minutes after post)

to have you**

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ewoud offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Amsterdam, 07, NL | 2 years, 2 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Dan TL wrote:
Well You never know what could happen in this world but to save your self some pain go with what nikki said, and if somthing good happens it’ll catch you by surprise.

Good one. You’re right`, I must go on, pfew. thx :)

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the forgotten offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Solon, OH, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (47 minutes after post)

oh… im sry, i know what you mean… trust me about that.

but if its over, then either ur more of a man then she can handle, or god dosen’t want it to be, because he has someone eles in mind for you

keep ur head up high

ttyl becca

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ewoud offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Amsterdam, 07, NL | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

the forgotten wrote:
oh… im sry, i know what you mean… trust me about that.

but if its over, then either ur more of a man then she can handle, or god dosen’t want it to be, because he has someone eles in mind for you

keep ur head up high

ttyl becca

Thx for your words :-) Maybe they make me sleep better! goodnight and thanks again!

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Hyperactiv3 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

how old are you and how long you been with each other?

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inter-wenc offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
US | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

The phrase ‘Plently more fish in the sea’ is actually truer than it seems.

Just remember- although it hurts, there could be something better around the corner; And by focusing on what you’ve lost, something even better might pass you by.

It’s hard when we centre our world around one person- we psycologically build up a picture of our future with them, and when that’s taken away it can feel like the hold world has crashed.
You just need to ajust your perception of the future- think positivly and be open to good things- and imagine yourself happy.

Good luck on recovering, brother.
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PerpetuallyInLove offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (4 hours, 48 minutes after post)

Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all…

You enjoyed the time you had together and eventually one of two things will happen

A-You will get Back together
B-You won’t

In the case of A, yay for you! In the case of B, as commonly said, life will go on. You will find someone else. if you’ve had a girlfriend before, you are great guy and are bound to find someone else who will love you :D

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2 years, 2 months ago (5 hours, 22 minutes after post)

i dont agree with you outsidethecag. if people want to be together it works out.

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (7 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Glad I could help a little. Best wishes!

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gunzalesfa offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 3 months after post)

she pulls me in than lets go she has been having an on and off affair with another woman at work for 3 or 4 years i move out and in again its good for months but they still talk and see eachother at work i cant seem to let go just when i get close to letting go shes back i cant take the regection any more what do i do we have a 10 year old it breaks my heart she says if she was gonna be with the other woman she would be already im lost confused HELP!

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