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Why do i get sick every time i get sad?

i get physically sick it makes it so much harder to get up and get stuff done i just don’t get it i don’t even have a reason to be sad and yet i’ll get this tinge of lonlyness and the sickness will come back. Yet the strange this is that i only ever get this feeling when i’m single i have never gotten it when i’m in a relationship i just find it weird and was wondering if anyone else ever got like this too.

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issybelle offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

that makes sense.
i can’t tell because i’m always sick.
but yes, the mind plays an amazing role on physical health.

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bethward offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Auburn, WA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Being sad can make you sick, like in “guys and dolls” a girl sings about how when her man does this she develops a sneeze and when he does this she develops a cough…. I know that that is fiction, but the point is that you are not the first. When you are sad your body doesn’t work as hard to stay healthy. Also when you are sad since you already don’t feel good you notice that you feel bad that much more. If you are really happy you can get sick and work right through it because you feel so good, when you are sad the opposite is true.

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www.cas4 offline Unverified User #
Little Rock, AR, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (32 minutes after post)

hey i understand gitting sick when ur sad and lonly i know the feeling trust me i just want to give u some advice stay positive things can only git better if u want them to so just look for the best in everything around you and in everything you do and things will git better

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (33 minutes after post)

IDK i’ve heard that happen to alot of people, when Im really sad I feel Tired and no energy.

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*kyle* offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Salt Lake City, UT, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (50 minutes after post)

Yeah it works its just annoying i guess i get happy when i’m out doing things but its just hard to keep busy at times

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lilgirl1 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
US | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 days, 10 hours after post)

i know wat you mean….but like, when im single i just find something to do…like the mall and then i buy a new outfit and lose weight…anyuthing to keep my mind off of it…..i mean even though im in a realationship…i still get sad at times..but thats only b/c i have to put up alot of crap with my sister…and yeah it sucks prob worse than a breakup even though i DONT wanna break up..i like him a whole lot!!!!

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groovygurl4 offline Unverified User #
Hamilton, ON, CA | 2 years, 1 month ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

You are not alone. I have not had a boyfrend in a while, and I recently started university, and moved away from my family. The only thing I can think of is how i wish i had a boyfriend to keep my mind off of missing my family and feeling so alone. the only thing is i literlly do not have time for a boyfriend because of heavy workload. i dont even have time to go out to bars and meet people, and this just make me more lonely. you are definatley not alone on this one.

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princess_hadhood offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (6 months, 4 weeks after post)

heyy dn’tt do tht to urself life have extensive ramps
and the clevers who asscend them and not dessend
i used to be like u but TRUST ME if u didn’t give a **** to it
then u’ll live greatlyy nd tht wht should be done theese days
muaaaah

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