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my life has been really complicated the past year,

ive just had alot of things happen,
and i’ve lost alot of my friends,
pretty much all of them and the thing is from my understanding
i didnt do things to make them go away they choose to.
i dunno

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da- offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 2 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Why did they choose to go away?

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rebel101 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
US | 2 years, 2 months ago (24 minutes after post)

well some friends are just that way! theyre what i call ’so’ called friends yet not really a friend at all! know what i’m saying???

hey look up and i am sure you’ll find some better friends … life long friends:)

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man185 offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 years, 2 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

i agree with rebel101… its their loss… not yours…. plus… the people that are tsalking to you now are you’re friends or atleast i am… continue talking it out with people…. i am ready to listen

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MissEmz201 offline Unverified User #
Memphis, TN, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (3 hours, 51 minutes after post)

Sometimes you have to look at it from how thye would…think about did i do anything to annoy or irritate or offend them in anyway? dont always thing that theyre just leaving you to leave you..on another note youre getting older and having different tastes in clothes, styles, music, movies, guys, etc. its hard to stay friends with someone when you have nothing in common, than there’s nothing much to talk about. just get out there and make new friends, dont forget your old ones though, make a note of trying to talk to them.

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molotok offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
Gävle, 03, SE | 2 years, 2 months ago (23 hours, 57 minutes after post)

Hi there,

You don’t sound too confident. And that is not easy to be, when feeling lost. But I think it may help to talk more to us. All people have reasons to feel confidence, dependent on what they focus on. I think you may get some help with that from people on this site.

And after you start to believe more in yourself, the result is always getting friends, too.

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party-girl10 offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 year, 3 months after post)

i understand how your feeling as last year i randomly lost two friends and i still dont know why! but any way i think when people have had a rough time they sort of change if you know what I mean and mabey your friends didnt like it. werll thats just a sugestion but I wouldnt think too much about it becuase thinking but not doing wont get You any where! If you still cant stop thinking about it then ask your friends why they stoped!

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