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1. If you´ve got the guts, go to him, take him by the hand and say that you´ve got something important to tell him, lead him away and then when he asks what´s so important tell him “I lied, I jsut wanted to hang out with you”, lol.

If you don´t dare, I guess you have to come up with something you have in mutual and talk about that and in the end ask him if he´d like to attend to something. For example, if you both like movies, you talk about movies and then you say something about a movie you heard alot about and ask him if he´d like to see that sometime.

2. Be observant and ask around. But I´d rather ignore that and just encounter and talk, like she (or in you case, he) is a friend of mine and then take ot from there.

And another wise man, beeing me, lol, says “It´s not always what you say, but more about your posture and how you say it.”

Great, let me know how you managed buddy 8] You could mix it up and start it out by doing that thing about taking him by the hand and lead him away, it´ll sure put him off balance, and then if you already know you´ve got something in common;

“…nahh, I lied, I just wanted to hang out with you. So, I´ve noticed that you´re really into movies, you´ve ever seen that movie with James Dean, Rebel without a cause? We should try it sometimes. Anywho, I´ve got to go now, but give me your number and we might catch it sometimes.”

Just so you´ve got something more to it and a good ending to it as well 8]

Haha I was going to reply and give some advice but having read what is already here I have to just agree and wish you best of luck!

Yeah, you should dress out as a panda and encounter.

so, how did it work out for you?

nice 8]