life help: i honeslty like sometimes feel like life is just so hard but then i see so many people here who are in pain also. - Help.com

I watched the video, rather interesting, I actually liked it. Thanks for posting the link.

sometimes you have to makeyourself work to make things better

Hi xsilence1 i’m not sure how bad your relationship with your parents but use to have problems with my dad too. My dad thinks that i’m an idiot because i never get good results in exams or excel in sports. He has this dissapointed look in his face that makes me feel so so frustrated. But then i realized that he is my dad and i know he worked really hard to feed the family. Their words might be hurtful but sometimes you need to understand why are they doing this… because believe it or not, they truly want you to be good. Did you do something in the past that made them behave like this? Try to show your love to them and try to love them or else you can’t realy hear what they are trying to say. Talk nicely to them, help your mom with house chores or help your dad wash his car…. this little things might be helpful….. good luck :)

Mmmm that sucks nic.

I like your way of thinking.

Things definately will get better, something will change = )

Same here… my dad always thinks that he is right too. But you know what? It took me years and years to convince him that i’m a decent human being. After that, he start to have small talk with me. I’m not saying that i have a warm father and son thing going on here but its something good. I hope u will get there too. And when that happens u will realise that ur dad is not really that bad. Of course he won’t admit that he is wrong but believe u me, deep deep down he knew he screwed up. As for your mom, why don’t u ask her why she don’t wan’t to listen to u? Tell her exactly how u feel…. in a good way of course. Anyway i’m no psychiatrist… i’m just giving my 2 cents worth.

You sound just like me about a month ago. I had to realize that I need to take toxic people out of my life or if I live with them take them down off of the podium I put them on make them of less importance and then become successful. That is the best thing to do and the way you do that is seek and hunt down happiness, because it is impossible to please everyone you will be trying all your days if that’s what you wanted. You should get TD Jakes Book Reposition Yourself. I feel it would really help you.

When it was all my 4 sisters myself my mom and my dad in one house we all had things going on and one of my sisters would go off in a room by herself and turn off the lights and listen to different songs with the door closed. She would maybe sing along with the songs and maybe drink tea or rock back and fourth with a blanket around her. This seemed weird to me and her playing the same song over and over drove me mad, but I realized she was finding what gave her peace. Silent alone away from everyone else, and the thing I liked about her is she made you want to be around her. And when she was around you she rewarded you with her sense of humor. This is what you need to develop because I was the one running around the house trying to make everyone like me by doing this and that for everyone. The only ones who appreciated that was my parents, but you need to become that peaceful person then take action don’t wait for anything Reposition yourself in your mind and with your actions. EXAMPLE: in your mind (I am not the under dog I am the successor, the one who excels in everything I put my hands to do) then ACT LIKE IT! make decisions as though this is what you are. YOUR NEW DEFINITION

but in another way , dun u think think u learned to treasure it much more since its so hard to come by. and anyway always remember this too.. through maybe in a few days , weeks, months time u might find it but think again we are only think about getting it but lol wat will u do when u get it and nothing will work out as wat u planned .. tat makes life special and different but most importantly . be happy with wat u have and treasure it as much as u can and leave no regrets

Sorry, I REEEAAALLLLY don’t like those songs…I don’t listen to music when I’m depressed or sad anyways though…

MEE TOOO NEDJUE!!! I hate sorrowful songs, I never listen to music when I am sad because I won’t be able to listen to that song again or I will get sad. But I digress, really find your own bliss that’s all I’m sayin.

lol i like emo songs make me even more emo~~ lol i wanna be the Emo King~~ lol