[Help] So I hate myself...

Reply from neveragain

neveragain — Fri, 26 Oct 2007 19:25:07 +0100

i have many ex’s that i am friends with. some are just “hi-bye” friends and some are very close, know all my secrets…and i also have ex’s that are not friends with me and have disappeared off the face of the earth. i don’t know if they love me, hate me or never even think of me.
if i were in your situation, i would explain to her that i don’t want her to disappear from my life and that i want to get to a place where we could be friends; but right now, it causes me too much pain and disruptive emotions. i would apologize for any hurtful things i said in anger and then explain that we are not quite yet friends but that we certainly aren’t enemies. so that when we see eachother around , if i ignore you, it’s nothing personal, or that we can’t be friends, it is just that it is best to keep distance between us until i feel it is safe to approach you to trust you as a friend… explain to her that you like her but you are jealous and hurt. by getting her empathy and not being threatening, she will respect you more. however, is she turns out to be someone who continually betrays you, or if she is a bad friend, like uses you or abuses you, then get rid of her totally and forever. remember that now that she is no longer with you, it’s all you and all about you. be a little selfish and think only of yourself for a while, until you start feeling better and feeling like you have something to share…

Reply from brittanyloves3

brittanyloves3 — Fri, 26 Oct 2007 13:16:17 +0100

I know how you feel.
Its ok..You say you have feelings for her.? And that they are strong.?
Let her be happy.She will miss you eventually.Just give her time.You know what you want.And she know’s what she wants.Don’t show her that your feeling like that.She’s going to feel powerful.And that she won.I don’t know the exact reason why you blew up on her, cause your the only one who know’s.But I think it’s cause your so hurt inside.You just had to express all the anger you have inside.And you did that to her.Apoligize to her.Tell her that your sorry for saying all the thing’s you said to her.Tell her you didn’t mean anything that you said.Give yourself some time to think about it.Your feeling’s will change for her.If she only think’s of herself then why be with her.? Well, I hope you figure out your own question. You can do it.Just think about it for awhile.

Reply from ☆

Fri, 26 Oct 2007 13:09:11 +0100

i feel you but.don’t let her hurt you more. the more you are showing that you are hurting the more she has the power over you. Be with other friends at school. this girl is happy with someone new and i guess you should accept that. it won’t be that easy but it won’t be long til you are over it. discover the ways to get over her.