[Help] I'm pathetic Updates to this post /post/105892-im-pathetic Tue, 16 Mar 2010 21:10:19 +0100 Reply from dnalla2 /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-5230775 I orginally agreed with everything you said in the first paragraph..
But you lost me when you said he is 20 years older… unless it’s some sort of epic fairytale love where the prince acidently took an irreversible potion that makes him 20 yrs older…still you should know when to give up..though your blog wasn’t what I was looking for when i googled “im pathetic”…lol…bye bye

]]> dnalla2 Sat, 05 Sep 2009 02:57:17 +0100 Reply from N /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-5179303 He’s married. Be smart, give it up.

]]> N Fri, 07 Aug 2009 21:11:43 +0100 Reply from kyle.d.mors /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-5149585 Quit chasing. Be the pursued. Do the opposite of what your instinct says to do.

]]> kyle.d.mors Fri, 24 Jul 2009 02:05:55 +0100 Reply from *kten* /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3196341 Any progress with the man?

]]> *kten* Mon, 29 Oct 2007 00:31:21 +0100 Reply from brittanyloves3 /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193307 yeah.
How did you meet this guy.
Your not pathetic. Get that thought out of your mind.
live your life. :)
dont let it be lived..

]]> brittanyloves3 Sat, 27 Oct 2007 05:41:44 +0100 Reply from *kten* /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193163 Okay, no problem. Goodnight. :)

]]> *kten* Sat, 27 Oct 2007 04:08:54 +0100 Reply from sigrun /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193150 I think I’ll go to bed now actually. Thanks *kten* for all of your comments :)

]]> sigrun Sat, 27 Oct 2007 04:04:25 +0100 Reply from sigrun /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193146 Yer totally right about the bottle of wine…

Yes he has actually. A few times

]]> sigrun Sat, 27 Oct 2007 04:03:05 +0100 Reply from *kten* /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193140 Sounds a bit like you’re going to a dry well for water. The fact that he’s so emotionally unavailable may be a bit of the appeal. That’s not to say it won’t “work out” between you two, or whatever.

Has he ever contacted you on his own, without your initiating it?

]]> *kten* Sat, 27 Oct 2007 04:01:24 +0100 Reply from *kten* /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193138 [quote sigrun]thanks for taking the time to talk to me BTW. Yer sweet :)[/quote]

No problem, hon.

[quote sigrun]TXT him a minute a go BTW that he was “being boring”…I will probably regret that tomorrow. Just for telling him the truth! haha! Ah…well…[/quote]

That’s what I meant about the bottle of wine not making it any better. ;)

]]> *kten* Sat, 27 Oct 2007 04:00:15 +0100 Reply from sigrun /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193128 TXT him a minute a go BTW that he was “being boring”…I will probably regret that tomorrow. Just for telling him the truth! haha! Ah…well…

]]> sigrun Sat, 27 Oct 2007 03:52:16 +0100 Reply from sigrun /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193121 thanks for taking the time to talk to me BTW. Yer sweet :)

]]> sigrun Sat, 27 Oct 2007 03:48:58 +0100 Reply from sigrun /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193116 I know he is…that’s the problem…Do I still keep on seeing him, because he makes me feel so good on these rare occasions…you know? I fear commitment aswell but this is the first time I’ve ever met a man that fears it more than I do.

]]> sigrun Sat, 27 Oct 2007 03:48:25 +0100 Reply from *kten* /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193114 He sounds a bit fearful of commitment, which is what you’re looking for, correct?

]]> *kten* Sat, 27 Oct 2007 03:46:26 +0100 Reply from sigrun /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193109 no he’s not now in a relationship.

He doesn’t want to talk about his previous relationships. All I get is: “I wouldn’t wish it upon any man to be with her. I mean really” This is the mother of his children he’s talking about. — I still have read a bit between the lines and it seems like she liked to be in control…he doesn’t like being controled. I’m pretty sure this is the basis of his frustration towards women.

]]> sigrun Sat, 27 Oct 2007 03:44:35 +0100 Reply from *kten* /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193107 Don’t beat yourself up about it. Drinking an entire bottle of red isn’t going to help you feel better or make the situation better….

Is he still in a relationship? Have you discussed his past relationships/marriages at all?

]]> *kten* Sat, 27 Oct 2007 03:40:45 +0100 Reply from sigrun /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193105 I usually keep it together but tonight I really feel like ****

]]> sigrun Sat, 27 Oct 2007 03:38:43 +0100 Reply from sigrun /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193104 oh…god…i feel like ****

]]> sigrun Sat, 27 Oct 2007 03:38:08 +0100 Reply from sigrun /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193099 The feeling is there…I can’t control it so it contols me I guess…But this makes it so exciting..total lack of control. Cause usually I don’t allow myself to lose contol…to enjoy..

He works with a friend of mine. Sat down with us in a cafe one day when we were sitting the two of us. Instantly there was chemistry between us.

]]> sigrun Sat, 27 Oct 2007 03:33:12 +0100 Reply from *kten* /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193093 A.) You’re NOT pathetic.

B.) I’m curious how you met him, if you don’t mind me asking….??

]]> *kten* Sat, 27 Oct 2007 03:29:15 +0100 Reply from kd /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193079 Peer into your mind. Ask yourself is this feeling real. Is it permanent or temporary. Will it bring you everlasting happiness …or… will it fade away once it satisfied and be replaced by another desire.

Meditate on the feeling … are you in control of the feeling or is the feeling in control of you.

Who is the master and who is the slave?

]]> kd Sat, 27 Oct 2007 03:16:31 +0100 Reply from kd /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193068 Peer into your mind. Ask yourself is this feeling real. Is it permanent or temporary. Will it bring you everlasting happiness …or… will it fade away once it satisfied and be replaced by another desire.

Meditate on the feeling … are you in control of the feeling or is the feeling in control of you.

Who is the master and who is the slave?

]]> kd Sat, 27 Oct 2007 03:12:49 +0100 Reply from 231 /post/105892-im-pathetic#reply-3193050 stupid nigga

]]> 231 Sat, 27 Oct 2007 03:07:40 +0100