[Help] what do i have to do to get my dream life? Updates to this post /post/131418-what-do-i-have-to-do-to-get-my-drea Sat, 20 Mar 2010 12:07:58 +0100 Reply from amy /post/131418-what-do-i-have-to-do-to-get-my-drea#reply-3432641 Good said all of you. Dreams may sometimes turn into noghtmares but at least there is allways a new one. Imagine a life without dreams/goals. Mine is to go to Italy (for 6 weeks!!!) Ive had it for 20 years and hopefully it is coming tru in 2010.

]]> amy Fri, 08 Feb 2008 06:39:47 +0100 Reply from UCreateUrReality /post/131418-what-do-i-have-to-do-to-get-my-drea#reply-3431047 Dream it, live it, do it!

]]> UCreateUrReality Thu, 07 Feb 2008 20:02:35 +0100 Reply from Locke /post/131418-what-do-i-have-to-do-to-get-my-drea#reply-3430941 Decide what you want. Career is a big factor, as you’ll spend so much of your waking life engaged in it, but consider things like location, financial status and family as well. Do what you love, or what you think you could love. If you don’t know what you want, build toward it in a general way: take some general classes in college, especially if your lifestyle is likely to require significant education, socialize and travel a little, make some money. Dabble in a few things that interest you.

When you’ve got a better idea where you think you’d like to be a few years down the road, build toward it in small steps, as Foxboro said. Get an entry job in the field, take specialized courses if you’ll need them - and along the way, try to enjoy yourself. As Melt said, even if you do attain a relatively ideal life, you’ll still want something. If that’s all you’re focused on, those things you don’t yet have, you’ll be miserable. So no matter where you are in life, set some time aside and do what makes you happy. It’s an exercise in balance, but you get better at it with time.

]]> Locke Thu, 07 Feb 2008 19:11:13 +0100 Reply from FoxboroGirl /post/131418-what-do-i-have-to-do-to-get-my-drea#reply-3430872 start small (like woth the tiny details such as saving money or something like that)
then slowly get bigger

]]> FoxboroGirl Thu, 07 Feb 2008 18:47:01 +0100 Reply from melt /post/131418-what-do-i-have-to-do-to-get-my-drea#reply-3430825 i read in a book that it isn’t the “something” (dream life) that we’re searching for or working towards, only the searching.

in my experience, by the time i’ve reached my goals, i’ve already set new ones. i guess i’m living the life i dreamed of years ago but i’m nowhere near where i want to be.

best wishes.

]]> melt Thu, 07 Feb 2008 18:27:50 +0100 Reply from amy /post/131418-what-do-i-have-to-do-to-get-my-drea#reply-3430819 DEcide what your dreamlife is. A person with now dreams cannot work at it mow can they? Good luck

]]> amy Thu, 07 Feb 2008 18:24:47 +0100 Reply from IngeniousNotCrazy /post/131418-what-do-i-have-to-do-to-get-my-drea#reply-3430816 Great answer gamma…. LOL.

]]> IngeniousNotCrazy Thu, 07 Feb 2008 18:24:20 +0100 Reply from gammafighter /post/131418-what-do-i-have-to-do-to-get-my-drea#reply-3430814 Dream about the life you have???

]]> gammafighter Thu, 07 Feb 2008 18:23:47 +0100