[Help] i have been with my GF for 3 1/2 years and we just Updates to this post /post/145702-i-have-been-with-my-gf-for-3-12-ye Sun, 07 Sep 2008 19:47:42 +0100 The post was edited by cowd21 /post/145702-i-have-been-with-my-gf-for-3-12-ye#reply-4912501 cowd21 Fri, 28 Mar 2008 08:16:33 +0100 Reply from Dots /post/145702-i-have-been-with-my-gf-for-3-12-ye#reply-3573743 If it was meant to be, it will happen again.

]]> Dots Thu, 27 Mar 2008 20:48:01 +0100 Reply from cowd21 /post/145702-i-have-been-with-my-gf-for-3-12-ye#reply-3573261 [quote lexie*]wht was ur relationship like w/ her did you just stare at the computer screen and play games w/ her or did you actually ever sit down and share ur lives w/ each other?[/quote]
we wernt glued to it… but we didnt talk much bout oyr relationship…. i feel such a fool and letting go is hard yes… but so soon …. thats what gets me…. i hope things will work out

]]> cowd21 Thu, 27 Mar 2008 17:58:14 +0100 Reply from lexie* /post/145702-i-have-been-with-my-gf-for-3-12-ye#reply-3573224 wht was ur relationship like w/ her did you just stare at the computer screen and play games w/ her or did you actually ever sit down and share ur lives w/ each other?

]]> lexie* Thu, 27 Mar 2008 17:50:24 +0100 Reply from mary77mai /post/145702-i-have-been-with-my-gf-for-3-12-ye#reply-3573215 She is probably with the other guy because she doesn’t want to be alone and breaking up was very painful for her. Then along comes this other guy and instead of dealing with her pain she jumps into another relationship.

I can relate to your pain, I had this happen to me many, many years ago. I broke up with a man I was seeing for almost 3 years and then 4 days later he went on a date with someone he had been working with, I was broken hearted and confused. He ended up dating her. The pain seemed unbearable but what I learned was to take care of myself and my emotions. The most important thing for you to do right now is to allow yourself to feel the pain but now wallow in it. Talk to your friends, but also get out and keep busy. I am not going to lie, it won’t be easy. I would also suggest to not have contact with her right now for a month or so and then see how you feel. This way you aren’t dealing with the source of pain on a regular basis and hearing about her new relationship. I know right now all you want is her back with you, I know that is one of the deepest pains there is. I also know you can get through it.

]]> mary77mai Thu, 27 Mar 2008 17:48:37 +0100 Reply from 忍者™ /post/145702-i-have-been-with-my-gf-for-3-12-ye#reply-3573214 Girls do that what I think you should do is try to find his deepest darkest secret out, and than black mailhim to go back to norway, and never talk to her again. That is certainly what I would do if that was my problem

]]> 忍者™ Thu, 27 Mar 2008 17:48:31 +0100 Reply from lexie* /post/145702-i-have-been-with-my-gf-for-3-12-ye#reply-3573209 mhmh… is there something better about him than you, looks, brains, strength? anything

]]> lexie* Thu, 27 Mar 2008 17:47:16 +0100 Reply from cowd21 /post/145702-i-have-been-with-my-gf-for-3-12-ye#reply-3573195 [quote lexie*]if she truly loves you she will realize tht the guy shes w/ isnt the right one. [/quote]

i really do understand this i quit playing the games the day she walked out, she played em too…. i just want to show her im the guy she fell in love with and wont ever change…. but im afraid she aint ever going to love me again :( sounds stupid maybe i know but she seems happy with the norway guy…. she also pinned me to a bed and kissed me 2 days before he came but then a few days later she regrets it :(

]]> cowd21 Thu, 27 Mar 2008 17:43:18 +0100 Reply from lexie* /post/145702-i-have-been-with-my-gf-for-3-12-ye#reply-3573173 if she truly loves you she will realize tht the guy shes w/ isnt the right one. you should just give her some time. try to sho her u have changed (dont spend so much time playin w/ games) maybe start a FRIENDly relationship and thenit will grow from there. DONT WORRY BE HAPPY!!!! hehe

]]> lexie* Thu, 27 Mar 2008 17:36:21 +0100