[Help] What has been the biggest problem that you have overcome? Updates to this post /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t Tue, 01 Dec 2009 16:04:59 +0100 Reply from asdadsad /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-5373409 The biggest problem that I had is having 3 balls. THe other is in my forehead. I had it removed by a witch doctor.

]]> asdadsad Sat, 28 Nov 2009 02:27:47 +0100 Reply from elhailove /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-5317201 Wow! thanx for sharing…

]]> elhailove Fri, 30 Oct 2009 19:50:53 +0100 Reply from nkcatald /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-5023981 I need somebody to talk to please help me

]]> nkcatald Thu, 21 May 2009 01:25:03 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-4911664 The biggest thing I had to overcome was getting what they say sexually asaulted by my brother when I was 6. Socail Workers and police convinced me they already kenw about it (they had no freaken idea!!!) I love my brother even if it was wrong and it creeped the **** out of me I forgave him. Social workers and police hate him and think he is a criminal. HE WAS 12 AT THE TIME. now he is 19 and im not allowed to se him. cuz he might do it again!(bs)why cant people get over things like that? i did. i thought of it as just a nightmare. except i cant really eat hot dogs anymore lol just the bun.

]]> Anonymous Tue, 31 Mar 2009 01:03:54 +0100 Reply from roxanebutterfl /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3797673 the biggest thing i’ve had to overcome was finding out i had cancer and a 4month miscariage in the same year. i lost it for awhile. i spent a lot of time with God and prayer.i cried a lot too. got involed at my job, and helping at a homeless shelter.

]]> roxanebutterfl Sat, 31 May 2008 18:36:53 +0100 Reply from circleches /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3775787 Myself.

]]> circleches Sun, 25 May 2008 04:56:41 +0100 Reply from Da-11 /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3737299 Dyslexia

]]> Da-11 Wed, 14 May 2008 17:15:52 +0100 Reply from kor5308 /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3728469 My problem’s been posted. Any advice is appreciated.

]]> kor5308 Mon, 12 May 2008 05:53:30 +0100 Reply from deirvi /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3702538 Decide whether or not to have an abortion.

]]> deirvi Sun, 04 May 2008 21:29:39 +0100 Reply from goldfish201 /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3677903 Clinical depression and bipolar disorder.
Self mutilation. I still bear the scars, and one of them is so deep that it will likely never heal. It’s embarrassing. Every time i see it I am reminded of what happened to me, and my pathetic downward spiral.
I was almost raped by someone I trusted. I managed to get out of the situation but it made me feel guilty, dirty, and worthless…especially because I had had a boyfriend at the time, and I never told him.

I got over it.
And I am proud.

I still cry sometimes for the innocence I lost too soon.
But I know that what happened was for the best.

]]> goldfish201 Sun, 27 Apr 2008 23:41:54 +0100 Reply from marybmullin /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3667552 oh im great now. its all in the past and we gotta look forward to the future :) did u overcome these problems by urself??

]]> marybmullin Fri, 25 Apr 2008 03:22:31 +0100 Reply from nainachick /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3665471 that’s amazing, Mary. So many would use what you have gone through as an excuse to self destruct. I did for a while, having gone through a few things similar. How are you doing now?

]]> nainachick Thu, 24 Apr 2008 15:13:39 +0100 Reply from marybmullin /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3663877 when i was 15 i was raped and abused by my first boyfriend who was 19, i was beaten by my dad on several occasions, when my dad left my mum was really depressed so i had to drop out of school to look after my little brother. my grandmother had breast cancer (but she`s doing really good now) and i used to self harm. but i overcame all that. i took a look at one problem at a time and got over them. because im strong. just like everybody else here :)

]]> marybmullin Thu, 24 Apr 2008 02:33:08 +0100 Reply from daniellanavarro5 /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3654340 it’s hard to get over your problems i have a lot of problems

]]> daniellanavarro5 Mon, 21 Apr 2008 17:27:31 +0100 Reply from NotoriousKYA /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3651227 nah it was the straw that broke the camels back for him but he didnt actually lose his faith.. but he did stop preaching 3 years later.

]]> NotoriousKYA Sun, 20 Apr 2008 21:21:01 +0100 Reply from -deadinthehead- /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3650327 stage fright

]]> -deadinthehead- Sun, 20 Apr 2008 17:13:58 +0100 Reply from nainachick /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3647388 That must have been a terrible ordeal to come through. But honestly, is that’s all it took for your dad to lose his faith and stop preaching, then it was hanging by a thread in the first place.
guilt is a strange emotion. So much of it is misplaced. I hope you can get rid of yours over this one day. You may have flipped a switch, but other people making bad decisions is really not your fault.

]]> nainachick Sat, 19 Apr 2008 17:55:48 +0100 Reply from NotoriousKYA /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3646459 I accidentially burnt down the church building that my father pastored. Our church’s first real church building after 15 years of meeting in a store front. Thats when my dad lost his faith and today, because of it, my parents are separated (and getting a divorce), my dad no longer preaches because he was fired after apparently “attempting suicide” and my mom leaving him. Its taken me a long time to get over the guilt for all of this being my fault but today i think i might be half way there… sometimes i wish i hadnt flipped that switch that started the electrical fire but looking back i think… Hey, thats life. You flip the wrong switch and everything you hold dear gets taken away… but its not my fault.. I was just in the wrong place at the wrong time.. or perhaps the right place at the right time… I wouldnt be the person I am today if it hadn’t been for that terrible night. (The teens were having a lock-in at the church and i woke up to one of the younger kids screaming the church is on fire I came out and saw flames at the back of the sanctuary.) But I like who I am today, I just have to learn to overcome the feeling of guilt for being a tool of the universe in a very unfortunate situation… I cant change it and it was perhaps just fate that someone left me alone in the kitchen to turn on the light. I couldnt find the switch and one didnt work so i assumed the breaker blew… I went to the breaker and tried to flip a switch that i thought might work and it sparked.. 2 hours later the place was in flames. I’m such a ditz. But HEY! It was an old building and they told me that that would have happened sooner or later because of faulty and out of date electrical wiring or something….

]]> NotoriousKYA Sat, 19 Apr 2008 06:35:06 +0100 Reply from nainachick /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3641379 wow, lady, you’ve come through alot. What I’m finding is the more I get through, the more I can draw on that strength to get through what I’m in now.
I also have to be careful not to trivialize what others are going through (i.e. my kids) just because it seems like small fries to me. Someone’s pain about a high school break up is every bit as real and painful to them as my stuff has been to me.

]]> nainachick Thu, 17 Apr 2008 17:08:31 +0100 Reply from OnwardIGo /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3639625 I dropped out of 6th grad due to depression…I had an alcoholic, abusive father which contributed to it. I’ve been on every medication imaginable, and have had several hospitalizations. One med caused a heart condition I have to this day…one caused a significant weight gain(which I’ve lost, thats an accomplisment)….I’ve been dirt poor..I’ve been rich…My first major boyfriend died in a car accident…I’ve had to pull strength out of nowhere to make changes and get out of situations…I’ve quit smoking for good…I’ve come a long ways from where I started…sometimes I need to remind myself of that..

]]> OnwardIGo Thu, 17 Apr 2008 02:40:53 +0100 Reply from nainachick /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3637730 I’m sorry that you lost your mother so young. How did you ever get through it?

]]> nainachick Wed, 16 Apr 2008 17:57:14 +0100 Reply from unhappy gal /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3637588 my mam died when i was 17. that was a big thing for me!!

]]> unhappy gal Wed, 16 Apr 2008 17:26:48 +0100 Reply from nainachick /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3630124 [quote Gamerkc]I’m still overcoming my biggest problem, but I know I’ll pull through.[/quote]

What is your problem? It’s nice to hear someone so hopeful about it.

]]> nainachick Mon, 14 Apr 2008 17:21:58 +0100 Reply from gamerkc /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3630038 I’m still overcoming my biggest problem, but I know I’ll pull through.

]]> gamerkc Mon, 14 Apr 2008 16:50:19 +0100 Reply from liquidair /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3622866 I finally got out of my parents house even tho i was kicked out…its better than being stuck there trying to kill myself. life is a lot better than it was. its still a lil crappy but a lot better than what it was.

]]> liquidair Sat, 12 Apr 2008 04:20:48 +0100 Reply from Hope /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3610670 wow, that’s horrible.

]]> Hope Tue, 08 Apr 2008 18:40:37 +0100 Reply from Kathleen Færøyvik /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3610660 I went to China with my mum, for one monthe, and when we came back, my dad had gotten paralized while lying in bed. He had been stuck there for more than a week, and there were tiny white worms digging away at his legs. That’s the worst thing I’ve ever seen, and I had to go to therapy to get over it.

]]> Kathleen Færøyvik Tue, 08 Apr 2008 18:38:52 +0100 Reply from Hope /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3610402 thank you, naina.

]]> Hope Tue, 08 Apr 2008 17:28:35 +0100 Reply from ladylove136 /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3608145 I think over coming my ex

]]> ladylove136 Tue, 08 Apr 2008 00:44:34 +0100 Reply from 27ladyg /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3607434 Im not going to go into details. But High School was my biggest hurdle.

]]> 27ladyg Mon, 07 Apr 2008 20:49:47 +0100 Reply from ☆lilies☆ /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3605093 Having all these problems encountered and survived from, i hope things work for all of us. Big hugs!

]]> ☆lilies☆ Mon, 07 Apr 2008 00:13:03 +0100 Reply from nainachick /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3603907 wow, thank you guys SO much for telling all this. You have no idea how much you have helped me AND countless others who may have read your posts.

]]> nainachick Sun, 06 Apr 2008 16:20:38 +0100 Reply from scary doll /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3603432 Finally having the courage to walk away from my family who were emotionally and physically abusive which resultd in a breakdown that put me in a psychiatric hospital.

]]> scary doll Sun, 06 Apr 2008 10:28:02 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3603346 The biggest thing I had to overcome was my mom having Breast cancer and getting one of her breast taking off…i have not fully over come in yet thats why this post is anonymous…I only told 5 people in my whoooolle life… I think thats all im telling besides you guys but you dont know who i am so…lol

]]> Anonymous Sun, 06 Apr 2008 09:10:26 +0100 Reply from Rahat Lokum /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3603294 I think it’s a great post, just want to say thanks for posting.

]]> Rahat Lokum Sun, 06 Apr 2008 08:25:13 +0100 Reply from s.re /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3603273 I got through clinical depression, serious physical illness, an abusive relationship and social anxiety.

I think if you are determined enough, you will be strong enough to overcome anything. It was touch and go with the mental and physical illness… but, I’m still here and although i have another very stressful period of my life coming up, I’m surviving quite nicely really. With depression… I needed help to give me the strength and determination to believe in myself. But once you believe in yourself I truly believe you can get through almost anything.

]]> s.re Sun, 06 Apr 2008 08:13:18 +0100 Reply from ☆lilies☆ /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3603255 I got pregnant but i did not want to marry. So my parents and his (the guy’s) went totally mad. I knew i had to stand on the decision because i knew marriage is not the answer.

So the greatest obstacle in my life was to live on my own for nine months. I secretly contacted my friends and they helped me out such as going to the doctor and stuff. I managed to do everything on my own. I was pregnant, broke and alone.

But i stood with my decision until my son is born. Now he is a happy six years old kid. And i don’t regret my decision as it was the most important thing i made in my life.

]]> ☆lilies☆ Sun, 06 Apr 2008 08:01:00 +0100 Reply from spiratec9 /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3603232 biggest thing I need to overcome is to try not to spend so much time on help.com.
I’m not getting any other work done. I’m going to starve to death.just kidding.

]]> spiratec9 Sun, 06 Apr 2008 07:33:08 +0100 Reply from Cole Becket /post/148523-what-has-been-the-biggest-problem-t#reply-3603222 Chronic shyness,(never leaving home, except for work and school), I’m still a bit shy, but not as bad as I was.

]]> Cole Becket Sun, 06 Apr 2008 07:25:34 +0100