[Help] i am scared... Updates to this post /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to Sat, 06 Sep 2008 20:20:31 +0100 Reply from chev.jame /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684517 Your dad is in a hospital in Saudi Arabia and this guy wants to “get physical” with you, with total disregard for what you’re going through. Not condemning you . . . you just need to lose this guy, because he is the epitome of selfishness. I want to tell all of you women out there who are suffering abusive treatment from boyfriends . . . you can do better! You do NOT have to SETTLE for a jerk! Some of you think that if you ditch a jerk, you’ll never have a boyfriend or man in your life ever again. The truth is, if you stay with a jerk, you will never have a man, because a jerk is not a man–he’s a spoiled boy who’s never matured into manhood. Good grief, ladies–LOSE those guys! Now, you need to get in touch with your dad and give him your love and support. Don’t tell him about your boyfriend or what happened. That one thing does NOT define you or set the course for the rest of your life.

]]> chev.jame Tue, 29 Apr 2008 14:41:42 +0100 Reply from cattail /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684360 It sort of sounds like you needed comfort from him, and he took advantage of the situation… ??

]]> cattail Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:54:06 +0100 Reply from Mas1st /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684341 Was last night the first time with your b/f

]]> Mas1st Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:42:01 +0100 Reply from wo /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684338 i dont live my pearent

]]> wo Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:40:59 +0100 Reply from wo /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684322 soz if that made u upset

]]> wo Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:31:43 +0100 Reply from cattail /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684321 No, I don’t think you’re expecting too much from him… he should be there for you when you need comfort…

]]> cattail Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:31:41 +0100 Reply from wo /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684317 ow do u now ur pearents

]]> wo Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:29:34 +0100 Reply from sarah_1a /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684315 every1 gets to live with teir families…
why not me?

]]> sarah_1a Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:28:14 +0100 Reply from wo /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684310 hi my name is andrea wt is the prob

]]> wo Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:26:57 +0100 Reply from sarah_1a /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684299 he is on his way back home..from uni
in bus

]]> sarah_1a Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:21:17 +0100 Reply from sarah_1a /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684294 its my prob
its not his…i cant expect him to cosole n comfort me
my m unrealistic
m just scared coz of my dad…
n becomig too depedant on him

]]> sarah_1a Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:20:29 +0100 Reply from sarah_1a /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684290 may be i am expecting too much from…
m depending too much from him ?

]]> sarah_1a Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:18:29 +0100 Reply from cattail /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684289 It’s true, sometimes when we’re upset we just need some closeness to try to feel better… I can understand. It’s OK… what’s done is done and it’s understandable you needed someone last night. It’s just too bad it didn’t really make you feel better in the end, because now you feel bad about how he’s acting too. Maybe it’s made you realize that he is not a very good boyfriend after all …

Well, give him time and hopefully he’ll respond to you soon. What’s he doing right now??

]]> cattail Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:18:15 +0100 Reply from sarah_1a /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684282 but he shud nt dissapear today
he know i need him
n after meeting him n getting intimate with him
i need him more
he shud atleast reply to my sms
thats all i expect

]]> sarah_1a Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:17:06 +0100 Reply from sarah_1a /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684279 i dunt know…but h e just did…
he didnt force it…
i did too
but i feel horrible the way he acting now,,,
y cant i undo last nite
:’(

]]> sarah_1a Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:15:39 +0100 Reply from cattail /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684276 I’m sorry it sounds like he was at least there with you, but not really there on an emotional level for you. Well, some people just don’t know how to help very well either… maybe he feels awkward and doesn’t know quite how to make you feel better. Maybe he’s never been through anything like this.

]]> cattail Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:15:21 +0100 Reply from sansceriph /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684275 tonight try to see if you can find a friend instead of your boyfriend. or come here. your boyfriend should not be trying to “get physical” with you when you’re upset like this.

]]> sansceriph Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:14:00 +0100 Reply from sarah_1a /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684273 i dunt know…after last night he is rather detached…
didnt even bothered asking abt my dad…
i feel horrible…
i shud hav met him
but i was really alobe…
i realy wanted to b with sum1

]]> sarah_1a Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:12:23 +0100 Reply from cattail /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684267 He sounds rather selfish then, if he’s not there for you, but only there when HE wants something??

]]> cattail Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:11:00 +0100 Reply from friendlyheart /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684266 a journal can really help trust me

]]> friendlyheart Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:10:50 +0100 Reply from sansceriph /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684264 friends are here to listen to you and help you get through this.

]]> sansceriph Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:10:03 +0100 Reply from cattail /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684263 Well, hopefully he’ll have some time to talk with you a little later… hang in there… try to find something to do to keep busy while you wait… chat here, write in a journal… Maybe you can write a letter to your Dad?

Oh, he’s that kind of boyfriend… he got what he needed and then ran out of time???

]]> cattail Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:09:52 +0100 Reply from friendlyheart /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684260 we are all here to help u don’t be afraid, we are all here to talk with u

]]> friendlyheart Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:09:33 +0100 Reply from sarah_1a /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684259 n than its not his problem..its my problem..
he ws there last nite coz he wanted to
n than…like always…
after getting physical…
thay always get sort of indifferent
i just want to talk to hi,
but he is just too bz

]]> sarah_1a Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:08:52 +0100 Reply from sarah_1a /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684257 no…there ’s no 1…
i ma praying
n sumbody i am close to was here last noght
my bf…
but he is not available to me…
i feel like talking to him..
but he is not available…
he is just too bz in his life

]]> sarah_1a Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:07:12 +0100 Reply from cattail /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684256 Oh, I’m so sorry… didn’t realize he was in another country… well hang in there, and hopefully soon there will be some news… he knows you love him and you’re sending good thoughts to him….

]]> cattail Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:06:56 +0100 Reply from friendlyheart /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684253 I understand you ! It’s hard to face a situation like that! I think you should say a prayer i’m sure will make you feel better hug 4 u

]]> friendlyheart Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:05:42 +0100 Reply from cattail /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684250 *hugs* I’m so sorry… he’s in good hands now, and most likely he will pull through this and then you’ll be able to see him… but for now he needs the attention of doctors!! Is there a neighbor you can stay with for a little while, someone to talk to?

]]> cattail Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:05:20 +0100 Reply from sarah_1a /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684248 he is in in saudia rabia…i cant b with him

]]> sarah_1a Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:04:55 +0100 Reply from sarah_1a /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684245 i just wana hide…

]]> sarah_1a Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:04:22 +0100 Reply from friendlyheart /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684244 Calm down sweetheart ! It can happen that your dad will be very soon ok! Why you don’t go to hospital to see him?Say some prayers God will help you surely

]]> friendlyheart Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:04:11 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684243 I’m sorry to hear that. I’m sure the hospital is taking very good care of him, though. Hang in there, we’ll all say a little prayer for you.

]]> Anonymous Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:03:40 +0100 Reply from sarah_1a /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684240 i wana b with him..
i dunt wana lose him
i wud exchange a worl to hav him him just fine

]]> sarah_1a Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:02:39 +0100 Reply from sarah_1a /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684235 yes my mom n my sister is with my dad…
n m stuck here
he had a ht attack

]]> sarah_1a Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:01:54 +0100 Reply from friendlyheart /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684232 I’m here darling! Why are you scared ? May i help u? What did u do?

]]> friendlyheart Tue, 29 Apr 2008 12:59:56 +0100 Reply from sansceriph /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684227 someone’s here. Why is your dad in the hospital? And what did you do? No one will judge you here.

]]> sansceriph Tue, 29 Apr 2008 12:57:59 +0100 Reply from cattail /post/155956-i-am-scaredi-want-to-talk-to#reply-3684222 What did you do? Is the rest of your family with your Dad? What’s happening with him?

]]> cattail Tue, 29 Apr 2008 12:56:21 +0100