[Help] Telling my mum about my boyfriend :| I have recently got a new boyfriend.

Reply from mollygrund

mollygrund — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 23:04:40 +0100

just go home one day and say mum i got a boyfriend he asked me out today,
thats what i said and my mum said ok and i was only 11
lol

Reply from sarahbluegir

sarahbluegir — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 20:37:47 +0100

hmmmm..we almost have the same situation….except the reason my mum doesnt want me to be with my boyfriend is because of a family fued and scared of me loosing a good future due to falling pregnant early(which I would never dream of yet)
Me and my boyfriend are both 17.
I lied to my mum’s face and even to some of my close friends, which i regret now so much. I lied about where I was going, and who I was with and I kept saying “no, i don’t have a boyfriend”. This carried on for 3 months.
I love him so much, but to know that my mum is disappointed in me because she felt like I (her own daughter) couldn’t even trust her enough to say the truth.
After she found out, not by me, but by some family friend who saw me and my bf out together, she felt so decieved and disappointed, not only because he was the son of the people she hated the most, but mainly because I couldn’t and didn’t have the guts to even tell her the truth.
I decided to break up with him, after all the lecturing and fights and cries(which don’t do anything but give you a swollen face but nevertheless, feels good to just let it out) but I love him and he loves me too, so much.
He told me he would wait forever just to be with me, but for now we are just friends, and my mum is happy with that.
This situation is very hard because I love him so much whilst knowing friends is all we can be till im older.
If I had one wish I wouldn’t wish for all the money in the world, or 100 more wishes…but I would wish that I could just turn back time and told my mum the truth three months ago…

Reply from kilimanjaro4lu

kilimanjaro4lu — Wed, 11 Jun 2008 08:42:58 +0100

my mum is too harsh i don’t know what to do with her.i can’t even start telling her anything she will just hit me and make my life miserable which i won’t like.
i feel like staying alone, she doesn’t even let me visit my girlfriends come to talk about my boyfriend. i don’t know how to tell her that am crazy inlove, the only thing she will say is that am living with them so i don’t have to keep any date. but i don’t want when i start living alone before i will keep a date coz as am keeping now it will enable me to keep a serious relationship with him untill we are ready for marriage. how can make my parents understand i love him and am not ready for marriage now coz they say i should bring him so we can get married.

Reply from theresape

theresape — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 19:31:50 +0100

Well, what do you say to her when you are going out with him? After she hears, “I’m going to the movies with Robbie” a few times, she’s bound to get the message.

Reply from markwinter2

markwinter2 — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 19:21:42 +0100

Like draw ‘I love name of bf> i want to be with you 4eva’ somehwere she would see it, that will most likely make her ask

Reply from SweetLips~

SweetLips~ — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 19:21:06 +0100

Just bring him around sometime and act like your together.

Reply from x.robyn.

x.robyn. — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 19:19:56 +0100

Yeah but how could i make her ask??

Reply from markwinter2

markwinter2 — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 19:19:17 +0100

You could make it obvious you’ve got one and let your mum ask you the question whether you’ve got a boyfriend or not?

Reply from x.robyn.

x.robyn. — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 19:19:17 +0100

I know that i just dunno how to say it

Reply from SweetLips~

SweetLips~ — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 19:18:37 +0100

Just come straight out and say it, there is not point in dragging it on.