[Help] I am pondering suicide because I am about to go through

Reply from Patric1

Patric1 — Fri, 02 May 2008 11:22:35 +0100

A long distance, difficult relationship - doesn’t that sound as though it should be over? People come and go in life, you don’t need to hang on to something that is not working just because you’re afraid to let go. You won’t fall. You will feel the benefit of letting go and the freedom it comes with. Then you will have a new page to write on - a whole new page. So give yourself a bit of a shake up and tell yourself that you will fill your life with wonderful things and be happy. By the sounds of it, you deserve to. Get out if you can and see things, do things and lean on your friends for a while - don’t drive them away with constant slobbering, show them that you are having a new life! Start with coffe and a mini bag of do’nuts down at the mal. Hope your still listening.

Reply from Jakeroxyaso

Jakeroxyaso — Fri, 02 May 2008 07:43:56 +0100

awwwjust try and make him feel a tad bit guilty but even then you might feeel pathetic but if he makes you happy do what you must or when this girl gets into to town you saiid you dont know her much try getting to know her or ask her to not do anything inapropriate and find someone else cause he makes you happy

Reply from Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 02 May 2008 07:42:13 +0100

what can I do or say to try and keep him with me…even though it makes me feel pathetic & desperate…I love him more than anything…we were talking about getting married even

Reply from Jakeroxyaso

Jakeroxyaso — Fri, 02 May 2008 06:56:14 +0100

ahhhh dont commit suicide i have nearly but then i thought what would that make me it would make me pathetic and i know that im not pathetic i know your not pathetic but this boy…. he sounds VERY PATHETIC IF YOUVE TOLD HIM THAT HE AINT HOLDING YOU BACK HE SHOULD SAY SORRY AND FORGET THAT HE EVER THOUGHT OF BREAKING UP WITH YOU …. i too am in a pickle of love you see i am bi and i want tot ell my brothers gay friend i like like him but im too scared hell tell my bro and my bro or mum and dad cant know i am bi cause my parents r against gays but any ways dont let this bother you if he is going to break up with you i suggest you dump him in the harshest way possiblwe then next day ask him out agaibn saying you love him so much and you hope it taught him a lesson in love you cant just bvreak up with tsome one for those reason unless you really dont like them any more but dont commit suicide

Reply from an

an — Fri, 02 May 2008 06:45:39 +0100

If someone tells you these things and cries, that’s all he’s doing. He’s not creating a great life with you or improving things or anything like that. No matter what he says, look at what he is really doing. That’s him. That’s what he’s contributing to your life or not. It’s hard when you’re emotionally involved I know but having gone through a thing or two with people like that, things suddenly got simpler when I really learned to just look at what was really there, not what they said was there or what I wished was there. Look at what he’s really doing and decide if you want a part of that. If you do, then that’s the game you choose to play. If you don’t, move on and find what you really do want and someone who is man enough to be that person.

Reply from Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 02 May 2008 06:39:24 +0100

I have said all of this and all he does is cry with me and say hes sorry…Nothing compares to him…I feel miserable.

Reply from an

an — Fri, 02 May 2008 06:39:09 +0100

The guy sounds like he’s playing games, pulling you back and forth. Try cutting ties with him and see if that helps. I’m sorry to hear about your medical condition; it certainly sounds like that needs some attention if you are still having headaches and I guess that would be something of urgency to look into as that could certainly make life more livable if the pain was relieved. No matter how attractive suicide may be, it’s not going to bring you to a better condition, so please hang around and try to improve things. Even if it’s just a little bit at a time. Things can get better.

Reply from shortybubble

shortybubble — Fri, 02 May 2008 06:36:47 +0100

Can you explain to him that he’s not holding you back, and that you would like to try and have this work out? Becuase you really care about him, and feel a connection that you have never felt with anyone else.
If it doens’t work out, please don’t kill yourself. Suicide isn’t the answer. Try and find something to entertain yourself, but first wallow. Watch a sad movie eat some icecream and wallow.
But hopefully it workd out

Reply from Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 02 May 2008 06:32:26 +0100

I need help…I do not know how to cope..I do not know what to do..itd be so easy to just take a bunch of pain meds and then never wake up…He said he would always love me and that he loved me more than anyone else he ever loved, that I would be the last he ever loved….but now he wants to break us up bc he says its not a realistic relationship and he feels like he is holdoing me bak but he isnt…and all the while he still says he loves me…I just want to wake up and have it all be a dream

Reply from shortybubble

shortybubble — Fri, 02 May 2008 06:29:35 +0100

Don’t commit suicide! We care about you on here!