[Help] So when a guy says...

Reply from furnelso

furnelso — Fri, 02 May 2008 23:19:26 +0100

it’s a negro

Reply from NotoriousKYA

NotoriousKYA — Fri, 02 May 2008 18:55:03 +0100

He seems to be not so sure about you… which leads me to think that maybe you should find out on your own. Play with him a bit (mind games: wait for him to call, talk to him about other guys or make him jealous, or even drop some suggestive hints of your owN) get him all ralled up… if he makes a move then your golden but if not then make a move if your comfortable..(be like hey, do you want to go out with me sometime, maybe to a movie. and if he asks if its a date be like HECK YES! guys eat up confidence like steak and potatos! THEY LOVE IT) maybe he’s waiting for you to make the move because he’s afraid to . But once those two options are up i guess your left with a friend.. which isnt all too bad either.. i prefer friendships with people i like over relationships ANY DAY! relationships put way too much pressure on people to like each other… friends dont have to like each other but they do anyway? lol.. its funny… how love works. But anyway… Don’t waste your time if he dosen’t want a relationship.. and don’t feel bad! Theres plenty of time to make him fall in love with you and meanwhile you could be still on the market and stumble upon another stud of your dreams along the way!!! Lol. Not winning over one guy dosent mean your not attractive or a likeable person.. it just means that he’s a scardy cat kid still who dosent know what he wants and is waiting for a supermodel to sweep him off his feet (which isnt gonna happen) and you have to wait till he realises that. Men are so childish sometimes… gotta love em.

Reply from Rahat Lokum

Rahat Lokum — Fri, 02 May 2008 09:34:35 +0100

I guess that’s just what he wanted, he didn’t say yes or no so that you could have doubts but hope too.
I think you should find a better person for yourself, someone who’ll treat you right and care about your feelings.

Reply from ~lilies~

~lilies~ — Fri, 02 May 2008 09:33:26 +0100

Maybe it is much better if you lessen the attention you are giving him. A guy whose feelings are intense about you would like to let you know clearly about things. And not letting you read between the lines.

Reply from Ai_Sai

Ai_Sai — Fri, 02 May 2008 09:31:27 +0100

ever*

Reply from Ai_Sai

Ai_Sai — Fri, 02 May 2008 09:30:27 +0100

And also he said once that I could do a lot better [than him].

Or was that the first flat-out rejection he every gave me?

Reply from Ai_Sai

Ai_Sai — Fri, 02 May 2008 09:29:01 +0100

I don’t know…Maybe I’m in denial, but I don’t think he’d play me like that…

He’s not what many girls would consider a traditional hearthrob…
(Though he’s possibly everything I’ve ever wanted…)

Reply from Rahat Lokum

Rahat Lokum — Fri, 02 May 2008 09:17:38 +0100

Straight? It’s as straight as definitely maybe or almost pregnant. He avoids giving straight answer which probably means he wants to keep you just in case, as a back-up. It’s not honest to do like that.

The post was retagged by Ai_Sai

Ai_Sai — Fri, 02 May 2008 09:15:04 +0100

The tags previously were: friends, school, girl, jealousy, IDEA, Courtship, Sign, honesty, place, Like That, guys, crush, Alternate meaning?

Reply from Ai_Sai

Ai_Sai — Fri, 02 May 2008 09:11:02 +0100

Um…Last time I asked if he didn’t like me he said, “That may or may not be the case.”

Is that a straight answer to you?

Reply from Rahat Lokum

Rahat Lokum — Fri, 02 May 2008 09:07:46 +0100

But he knows how you feel and he does nothing. What is there to wait.
I think different ways are just illusions but well something can happen and he’ll realise that what he needs is you, after all it can’t be predicted but still chance seems small cause he’s been inactive for so long.

Reply from Ai_Sai

Ai_Sai — Fri, 02 May 2008 09:05:09 +0100

And when I say indirect I mean, everything that adresses his feelings towards me can be interpreted 2 different ways.

(Oh! And I’ve known him since 2nd grade :P )

Reply from Ai_Sai

Ai_Sai — Fri, 02 May 2008 09:03:02 +0100

He’s not popular

And he has said what he thinks about me but never directly- I’ve been talking to him for about 5 months so it’s not like I just met the guy…

Reply from Emilie T

Emilie T — Fri, 02 May 2008 09:00:55 +0100

he is popular isn’t he!!!!

Reply from Rahat Lokum

Rahat Lokum — Fri, 02 May 2008 08:59:31 +0100

Did you say “I want you and no one else can have you” to a guy who didn’t say anynothing about what he thinks about you? Looks like no chance.