[Help] parents Updates to this post /post/156972-parents Mon, 13 Oct 2008 01:07:45 +0100 The post was retagged by pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-5237251 pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 16:59:31 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694689 I hope things get better for you all the best and have fun at work!

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 13:19:24 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694686 ok thank you
im going to get back to my work now
but thanks for all your help

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 13:18:53 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694676 Well my best advice to cheer yourself up is to find something you are really good at and put all your heart and soul into it.

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 13:17:01 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694673 what else can i try

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 13:16:07 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694672 Trust me you aren’t the only one who wants to control your feelings but truth is no one can really do that. you can be happy agian but drugs aren’t the best way to do that. There are many other methods you can use until things get better at home.

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 13:15:26 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694655 yes i no that i just want something to make me happy anything. i just dont get what is wrong with me and why i cant control my feelings

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 13:12:15 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694650 Yes I feel for you there, sometimes you wish you were mentally ill just so you can understand why you feel the way you do, anit-depressants may seem like a good answer but they have so may side effects and can in some rare cases make the taker feel worse.

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 13:10:58 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694642 yes it did, school was bad and did from the day i started but now it has started to get beter even thought ill be finishing in a few weeks. the people who i see have told me that i dont have a mental illness and that was a bit of a relife but also a bit of a disapointment because now i dotn no whats wrong, i also wanted anti-depressants but they wont give me them.

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 13:07:55 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694635 I understand, yes dealing with a loss can add unwanted stress and depression which would only worsen your current situation.

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 13:05:09 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694625 in january he was the person i loved most in the whole world

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 13:02:15 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694619 How long ago did you lose him?

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 13:00:59 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694615 yes manly they is schhol but im leaving soon so that isnt bad. im still in love with someone. i think manly that is the reason also i think i am still dealing with the loss of my grandad i think i dunno

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 13:00:30 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694595 Hmmm..fall in love again? Seriously though is she the only or major stress in your life because if your 16 then you wont have to put up with it long.

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 12:50:37 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694592 i hope that as well, last year i didnt plan to live till i was 16 but then i feel in love and now i need to live for her but i dont want to i struggle with the thing of life.

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 12:49:29 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694591 As long as you don’t do anything stupid like taking your life its ok. I’m sure that one day you will get through this struggle and things will get better it may just take time.

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 12:47:42 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694589 ok thanks she is at holiday at the moment but will serially conciderit it wen she comes home, i usllygo to my nanas to get peace and i spend alot of time they but she is on holiday with my aunti so i will stuggle for the next week

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 12:46:00 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694582 It’s ok, now I still recommend staying with your aunt. If your mum doesn’t like ti she’s gowing to have to talk to you not sit and sulk at home.

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 12:43:20 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694574 thank you

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 12:36:52 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694569 You’re not wasting my time I want to help you get through this.

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 12:35:03 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694566 yes i have tried that before but then she gets even more upset, im sorry im wasting your time. i jut feel like giving up. earlier i was sat watching the traffic and i wondered which cars would kill me if i jumped out in front of them.

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 12:34:24 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694556 Well can you write her a letter? I know it sounds silly but sometimes it can be the best option.

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 12:26:02 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694555 its getting worse, i want to but i cant face talking to her i feel mad everytime i talk to her

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 12:25:27 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694550 Well how serious are you harming? And maybe it’s time you had a serious talk with her or something because her behaviours gotta stop.

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 12:23:24 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694544 no we never really talk properly ever its horrible, i have tried alsorts of ways to stop SH but i have been doing it for 4 years so everythying else i try it just doesnt work

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 12:18:43 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694464 As you shouldn’t, having to act the parent in every fight just isnt fair on you. I understand what you mean by the self harm, maybe though you could replace it with something else that can help you cope such as walking, writing, heck even going to a secluded place and screaming your lungs out what ever makes you feel better. it saddens me to hear that your mum is acting this way because she is meant to look out for you not the other way around. I would say to just go live with your aunt for awhile even if you are worried about your mum because you need to be able to let some stress off your mind abit. Also have you ever told her how what she does effects you?

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 11:04:11 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694457 i have tried to get her to go with me to the cousling as they said that would help vbut it is like she doesnt want to no. i no i have got to stop the self har its just i have been doing i so long now it is the only way i can cope.
my dad jst asked if i could try harder to speak to he and make more of an effort coz he backs me up but then my mum gets in a mood with him and he is stuck in the middle and i no it anit fair just i really donw want to back down this time,

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 10:58:47 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694453 Well first thing we got to do is get you to stop with the self harm, as hard as that may seem it’s only going to make things worse. if your mum is really that childish then maybe its her that ought to have councelling and what exactly has your dad said to you?

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 10:56:33 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694449 i was going to stay with my aunit for a week and she even said yes but my mum is that bad i think it would make it even worse. i self harm have done for a while and i cry alot i hate it i hate everything

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 10:54:06 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694445 Well tell me about your problems and I’ll see what I can do to cheer you up. if the stress really aint worth it do you have friends you can stay with if even just for a week so you can cool off and relax a little?

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 10:52:32 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694440 because the stress anit worth it after taljk8ing to my dad last night i ended up crying myself to sleep i have other problems as ell and allready get cousling

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 10:51:18 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694436 it’s ok I know how you feel my mum acts very immature-alot and it can be stressful but don’t let it get to you because you have so much to live for why let them ruin it.

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 10:50:22 +0100 Reply from pinkemobunny /post/156972-parents#reply-3694430 ok thanks, my dad talked to me last night and told me to try harder coz he is stuck in the middle, and i hate that but i cant cope i hate living at home, i hate living

]]> pinkemobunny Fri, 02 May 2008 10:48:22 +0100 Reply from Tragically_Misled91 /post/156972-parents#reply-3694426 Well I would suggest just putting your foot down and waiting for her to try and fix things because she is the mum and it’s about time she acted like it.

]]> Tragically_Misled91 Fri, 02 May 2008 10:47:15 +0100