Updates to this post /post/157224-i-was-arguing-with-my-daughter821 Thu, 21 Aug 2008 13:09:51 +0100 /post/157224-i-was-arguing-with-my-daughter821#reply-3709915 I think that in the first place you should not have had a child with him because he did not love you…..didnt you see see the signs??? anyway i think you should just move on i know you will be devastated,crushed and hurt by what he said but i dont think it would be a good idea to let your child meet this man as her father.She deserves better!!!!!!!!!!!!1

]]> **Lady B** Tue, 06 May 2008 19:26:58 +0100 /post/157224-i-was-arguing-with-my-daughter821#reply-3697670 that guy is an idiot. he obviously doesnt care about u or ur kid. just push him out of ur life. u obviously dont deserve a loser like that

]]> blink_pin Sat, 03 May 2008 05:28:56 +0100 /post/157224-i-was-arguing-with-my-daughter821#reply-3697638 It may not be a good idea to tell him he is selfish. He is not likely to accept this message from an ex-partner. Children can be a painful reminder of the hurt we experienced in our failed relationships. It sounds like he is hurting a lot to need to break the bond with his daughter.

]]> Kalos Sat, 03 May 2008 05:17:21 +0100 /post/157224-i-was-arguing-with-my-daughter821#reply-3697612 Men have a different approach to parenting, and not all of them connect with their children from birth on. But I think he will still live to regret saying what he did. Protect her from him. He has shown you he is capable of cruelty. Don’t forget that.

]]> Anonymous Sat, 03 May 2008 05:05:20 +0100 /post/157224-i-was-arguing-with-my-daughter821#reply-3697610 It’s a sad thing, but since she’s only 18 months, you can still raise her to be happy and emotionally healthy. Let her know that you love her everyday, and as for her father, I’m not sure I can help you with that. Just know that if you find another guy, take it slow and make sure your daughter means something to him.

]]> snce_projec Sat, 03 May 2008 05:04:47 +0100 /post/157224-i-was-arguing-with-my-daughter821#reply-3697605 My daugther is 18 months. She doesn’t understand but I know that she will feel unloved. He said that I should find someone else to be her father and he doesn’t care. I just don’t understand how he can say something like that even if he is upset.

]]> adesir2 Sat, 03 May 2008 05:02:33 +0100 /post/157224-i-was-arguing-with-my-daughter821#reply-3697580 Did she hear him say this? If so, he’s emotionally abusing her & needs to be removed. Either way, I would find a way to quietly remove him from her life. She doesn’t need that.

]]> Dragon_Lady Sat, 03 May 2008 04:54:09 +0100 /post/157224-i-was-arguing-with-my-daughter821#reply-3697578 I’m sorry you are hurting. Man, there is nothing worse than when someone hurts your baby, and he took advantage of that. Please, just don’t tell your daughter to win any points, that’s a sting you never recover from.
I would distance myself from someone like that. And I also wouldn’t be to apt to expose my child to such a horrid person either.

]]> nainachick Sat, 03 May 2008 04:52:58 +0100 /post/157224-i-was-arguing-with-my-daughter821#reply-3697521 What he’s said only proves your theory of his selfishness. He may not care about your daughter, but he still has to pay child support, so milk him for all he’s worth while she’s still a minor and find a guy to replace him as a father figure (:

]]> Anonymous Sat, 03 May 2008 04:31:29 +0100 /post/157224-i-was-arguing-with-my-daughter821#reply-3697510 Sometimes people say things when they are angry they don’t mean. I could see how that’s hurtful, that was a very hurtful thing to say. Hopefully he didn’t mean it.

]]> Pae -שגשצ- Sat, 03 May 2008 04:27:30 +0100