[Help] I need help! Updates to this post /post/157373-i-need-help Sat, 11 Oct 2008 07:48:17 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/157373-i-need-help#reply-3699310 Oh yea did I mention that he broke his ankle playing basketball a sport both of us enjoy! And we both cant play anymore cuz about a few months ago I broke my ankle and then I hurt my knee…and He only had a few games left and his biggest goal was to finish the season before going off to college! Last year the exact same thing happened and he couldn’t finish then because of it…

]]> Anonymous Sat, 03 May 2008 20:59:27 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/157373-i-need-help#reply-3699306 [quote pseudoniem]deYeah, it sounds like he is really down because of his injury, a little frustrated about all the things he cannot do. Your asking him how he’s doing just reminds him of his frustration. Next time you may want to try to be a distraction for him, like suggest some thinngs to do together he enjoys instead of asking him to talk about his feelings / onjury. When you feel bad, you lash out to everyone who makes you remeber that, even if they did nothing wrong. You’ll have to be patient with him for a while.[/quote]

Okay…Thanks! ^_^

]]> Anonymous Sat, 03 May 2008 20:58:08 +0100 Reply from pseudoniem /post/157373-i-need-help#reply-3699302 deYeah, it sounds like he is really down because of his injury, a little frustrated about all the things he cannot do. Your asking him how he’s doing just reminds him of his frustration. Next time you may want to try to be a distraction for him, like suggest some thinngs to do together he enjoys instead of asking him to talk about his feelings / onjury. When you feel bad, you lash out to everyone who makes you remeber that, even if they did nothing wrong. You’ll have to be patient with him for a while.

]]> pseudoniem Sat, 03 May 2008 20:57:10 +0100 Reply from Alpharis /post/157373-i-need-help#reply-3699285 Good luck

]]> Alpharis Sat, 03 May 2008 20:53:21 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/157373-i-need-help#reply-3699278 [quote Alpharis]Relax…most men don’t think that..leave him some time to rest..and he has to feel like he misses you…wait a while..he may call on his own. if he doesn’t you call. But DON’T BE OBSESSIVE!!![/quote]

Okay Okay…LMAO! I wont be

]]> Anonymous Sat, 03 May 2008 20:52:03 +0100 Reply from Alpharis /post/157373-i-need-help#reply-3699273 Relax…most men don’t think that..leave him some time to rest..and he has to feel like he misses you…wait a while..he may call on his own. if he doesn’t you call. But DON’T BE OBSESSIVE!!!

]]> Alpharis Sat, 03 May 2008 20:50:25 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/157373-i-need-help#reply-3699270 [quote tea ali]He sounds depressed…maybe about not being able to get around as usual. And then the three hour time difference…Can you go and visit him?[/quote]

Well I could If I wanted too but I dont have the cash right now…

[quote Alpharis]Ok…obviously he is stressed because he is injured and he is worried about his life in general. Plus the fact that you live 3 hours time change doesn’t help matters…he may be getting bored by your continuos attention..he may feel hampered..i don’t think he is angry with you…just let him rest 4 a while[/quote]

Okay I will give it a try…But I dont want him to think I dont like him anymore Or I found someone else…

]]> Anonymous Sat, 03 May 2008 20:48:48 +0100 Reply from Alpharis /post/157373-i-need-help#reply-3699265 Ok…obviously he is stressed because he is injured and he is worried about his life in general. Plus the fact that you live 3 hours time change doesn’t help matters…he may be getting bored by your continuos attention..he may feel hampered..i don’t think he is angry with you…just let him rest 4 a while

]]> Alpharis Sat, 03 May 2008 20:47:03 +0100 Reply from tea ali /post/157373-i-need-help#reply-3699261 He sounds depressed…maybe about not being able to get around as usual. And then the three hour time difference…Can you go and visit him?

]]> tea ali Sat, 03 May 2008 20:45:22 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/157373-i-need-help#reply-3699260 [quote ytrewq]May I ask how old you are?[/quote]

19…Why does everyone ask the same question? Lmao

]]> Anonymous Sat, 03 May 2008 20:44:19 +0100 Reply from ytrewq /post/157373-i-need-help#reply-3699257 May I ask how old you are?

]]> ytrewq Sat, 03 May 2008 20:43:35 +0100