[Help] this is what we said and this is what i sent her on myspace. Updates to this post /post/157778-this-is-what-we-said-and-this-is-wh Wed, 08 Oct 2008 02:16:41 +0100 Reply from undeveloped /post/157778-this-is-what-we-said-and-this-is-wh#reply-3706460 brighter, she has a best friend, but its a guy. n id rather not tlk to him about it, because i get all jealous. its a long story and theres so many things that make me that way. but there is another girl she tlks to. thank you so much brighterblessing and rahat lokum

]]> undeveloped Mon, 05 May 2008 21:20:00 +0100 Reply from BrighterBlessing /post/157778-this-is-what-we-said-and-this-is-wh#reply-3706155 Communications are so important and so very hard. She might actually be right sweetie - it might not be about you. Something might have happened (past or present) and she might be feeling how lucky she is to have you in her life. It seems she keeps saying, it is not you so I would believe that.

As far as communications go, it is important to just know we all have different styles. There is a really good book called “Please Understand Me” sorry I can’t remember the author but it has questions and you answer and it tells you how each person thinks, processes and communicates so you can improve that part of the relationship. Is there maybe a really close girlfriend she has that she could talk to because there are some things she might need help figuring out and maybe she isn’t communicating well with herself right now. Or suggest she journals or keeps a diary for a while as she figures out what is bothering her. Some times it is an influence outside of ourselves so hang in there. And if you both take the test, it really helps from that book to read about the other peron’s style. Best of luck.

]]> BrighterBlessing Mon, 05 May 2008 19:52:34 +0100 Reply from Rahat Lokum /post/157778-this-is-what-we-said-and-this-is-wh#reply-3705019 Noone’s fault, but the point is not just to exchange sentiments, though it’s needed sometimes too. How can you make it better, well get to know each other better is one of the things you can do, it can’t be that you already know everything about each other’s life and sure there’s still much to talk about and that will help you understand each other better and be closer and how you respond to each other’s situations that’ll also add more security to your relationship if you’ll know that they don’t just say that they care but actually care about particular things. Talk about what you want do to in future, about plans for your life and your relationship. Or just anything to know each other’s views about different things. There’s so many things to discuss. I think it helps.

]]> Rahat Lokum Mon, 05 May 2008 11:39:44 +0100 Reply from undeveloped /post/157778-this-is-what-we-said-and-this-is-wh#reply-3704987 whos fault is it? how can i make it better?

]]> undeveloped Mon, 05 May 2008 11:09:30 +0100 Reply from Rahat Lokum /post/157778-this-is-what-we-said-and-this-is-wh#reply-3704594 Sounds like your relationship is stuck.

]]> Rahat Lokum Mon, 05 May 2008 07:14:32 +0100 Reply from Mas1st /post/157778-this-is-what-we-said-and-this-is-wh#reply-3704129 You hang up - No you hang up - No you

]]> Mas1st Mon, 05 May 2008 04:06:52 +0100 Reply from obamadaisy /post/157778-this-is-what-we-said-and-this-is-wh#reply-3704109 have you ever asked her what she thinks about when she wants to tell you something but doesn’t? What goes through he mind at that exact moment?

]]> obamadaisy Mon, 05 May 2008 03:56:49 +0100 Reply from Mas1st /post/157778-this-is-what-we-said-and-this-is-wh#reply-3703885 Mmmmmmmm and you shared that with us why?

]]> Mas1st Mon, 05 May 2008 02:47:43 +0100 Reply from Breaking The Silence /post/157778-this-is-what-we-said-and-this-is-wh#reply-3703867 sounds alot like puppy love if you ask me. Or, one says “I dont deserve you” and from that you say”yes you do, blah blah blah” this is just basically one of those attention things.

]]> Breaking The Silence Mon, 05 May 2008 02:43:18 +0100 13 users were invited to read this post by undeveloped /post/157778-this-is-what-we-said-and-this-is-wh#reply-5257306 undeveloped Mon, 05 May 2008 02:41:34 +0100