[Help] help advice Updates to this post /post/157835-help-advice Sun, 07 Sep 2008 19:37:45 +0100 Reply from Michael Leibman /post/157835-help-advice#reply-3704576 Sorry I replied so late and confusedly. Probably you should do whatever Lilies suggested and everything will work out fine :) (or leave this post open and try to get some more responses.)

]]> Michael Leibman Mon, 05 May 2008 06:58:26 +0100 Reply from Michael Leibman /post/157835-help-advice#reply-3704559 [quote Anonymous]obiously(yah)-reply to michael leibman[/quote]

Well… the reason I asked is because he is the one doing weird things that deprive him of your friendship. It sounds unnatural, like a little beyond normal teasing or actual not remembering.

]]> Michael Leibman Mon, 05 May 2008 06:49:24 +0100 Reply from Plox Nork /post/157835-help-advice#reply-3704541 [quote Michael Leibman]People have selective memories. You can tell him some of the good memories you had around him, and he’ll appreciate it and also remember you better again.[/quote]

I thought selective memory is what is caused by trauma or brain damage.. Or maybe there are two meanings for this phrase, like when politicians have “selected memory” about whether they ever used drugs or not?

]]> Plox Nork Mon, 05 May 2008 06:39:33 +0100 Reply from ~lilies~ /post/157835-help-advice#reply-3704540 I hope it works well with you. Take care!

]]> ~lilies~ Mon, 05 May 2008 06:39:32 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/157835-help-advice#reply-3704535 Okey thanks, you guys helped me alot…..

]]> Anonymous Mon, 05 May 2008 06:37:36 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/157835-help-advice#reply-3704530 obiously(yah)-reply to michael leibman

]]> Anonymous Mon, 05 May 2008 06:35:28 +0100 Reply from ~lilies~ /post/157835-help-advice#reply-3704528 :) Okay then yes i totally get that, so when you see him let him know that you do know him and tell him stuff that makes him remember you. But also, make friends with other people. I hope you are not limiting yourself getting to know one person.

]]> ~lilies~ Mon, 05 May 2008 06:33:33 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/157835-help-advice#reply-3704527 problem: he’s now hangnging with a bad crowd-
-cutting class(probably drinking and smoking too cause of
who he’s with)
and its really hard just to talk to him—reply to-michael Leibman

]]> Anonymous Mon, 05 May 2008 06:33:33 +0100 Reply from Michael Leibman /post/157835-help-advice#reply-3704526 Does it hurt your feelings that he seems not to remember you?

]]> Michael Leibman Mon, 05 May 2008 06:33:29 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/157835-help-advice#reply-3704522 yup…i’m trying that right now but…
i see him everyday at school and umm…
its hard to….and changing schools is not an option.-reply to:lilies

]]> Anonymous Mon, 05 May 2008 06:30:52 +0100 Reply from Michael Leibman /post/157835-help-advice#reply-3704521 People have selective memories. You can tell him some of the good memories you had around him, and he’ll appreciate it and also remember you better again.

]]> Michael Leibman Mon, 05 May 2008 06:29:54 +0100 Reply from ~lilies~ /post/157835-help-advice#reply-3704516 Can you make friends with new ones instead?

I mean some people change, he might really remember but for some odd reasons he does not try to admit it.

So lessen worrying about this person and make some new set of people to be with.

]]> ~lilies~ Mon, 05 May 2008 06:26:03 +0100