[Help] well I am seeing a girl and I have told her that I

Reply from your gaurdian angel

your gaurdian angel — Tue, 06 May 2008 20:48:56 +0100

I think that what your doing to this girl is unfair, you might like her but your just using her to get over your last girlfriend, you need to be straight with her and tell her the truth it will just get harder if you wait.

Reply from crazyG

crazyG — Tue, 06 May 2008 20:05:34 +0100

I think that all what you need to do with her is to be honest with her even with the simplest question she asks. Why do you need to lie? You are not ready for commitment and you know she’ll ask for one. So just say the truth about everything from now on and everything will be easier for both of you. Why make that girl like you more and more and then leave her in the end? Just find someone you will really like.

Reply from chie

chie — Tue, 06 May 2008 15:56:19 +0100

I think it is probably not fair to keep seeing her, plus she is starting to ask questions that I have to actually lie about unless I tell her. I asked her all about her past relationships and she has told me lots of stuff and she also said she’d rather be casual because she doesn’t want to get hurt. But I said no way I won’t share with other guys so I know she thinks I am serious about a relationship. I’m not that serious but I am not going to give her permission to see other guys. She hasn’t asked me for a commitment yet but I can tell she will soon, and its partly my fault.

Reply from amber_159

amber_159 — Tue, 06 May 2008 15:52:37 +0100

uh you shouldnt of started daten her if your just useing her to get over ur ex gurlfriend!!! butt i would just tell her if you dont want a relationship with her, and if you do want5 one with this chic then keep it on the low

Reply from chie

chie — Tue, 06 May 2008 15:30:07 +0100

Hey, I do like her, but I am worried that I won’t be able to really get involved because I can’t get my head straight. How long should I wait before I try to have another relationship? I am not saying it isn’t real, but I keep thinking about my ex and whenever I look her up on facebook and see she is with another guy (her ex before me in fact) I just feel so depressed I cry about it and it doesn’t seem fair to my current gf. But when I see my current gf I keep telling her that I am into her. I don’t think I am doing anything wrong, its not lying it is omitting to tell her everything, I don’t see that as being wrong.

Reply from Richard cor de lyon

Richard cor de lyon — Tue, 06 May 2008 15:27:18 +0100

How superficial, and selfish. You KNOW you are on the rebound… ackkkk I’m speechless. To answer your question - in my opinion, YES you are a bad guy… OMG I hope this is a joke post. I better go before I write something that will get me banned from the site!