Go have a laugh, go out n jus do silly stuff or jus go shoppin

I know you don’t think or want this to happen. But what are you gona do if one day your not together anymore? You’re left with nothing but yourself. And thats the way it always is. No matter what happens in your life..the worst that can happen is your left to yourself, so you need to make sure your happy with yourself.

You need to think more casually about this relationship. It doesnt make it any less meaningful or loving, but you will suffocate this guy.

What happens next time you see each other? You wont have anything to tell each other because you talk to him as if your writing a detailed diary and dictating every word to him. You don’t need to dictate your life to him. There is nothing more exciting than seeing each other next time and being able to talk to him about all the things you’ve both done.

Bad things happen, but you’ve always got yourself in the long run, no matter who you lose and gain on the way in life you always have yourself. So don’t ever lose your independance because its the 1 thing you can rely on.

He’s still in exactly the same place as you left him! Whats up? Don’t you trust him? Is he your first love…how come you feel so needy towards him?

Hes not on msn atm.. and i soooo wanna call him :(

Its a small step but you’d be doing something without talking to him for once. Dont your friends get annoyed inviting you out and you being on the phone to him? You need to realise that you being an independant, fun, easy going woman is a lot more attractive than someone who is needy and clingy.

What you need to start doing is do things that are fun. Just because you do things without your boyfriend doesn’t mean your a bad girlfriend or that your relationship is a failure. It just means you have your own lives…something which you will both need to succeed.