[Help] There once was this guy... Updates to this post /post/158484-there-once-was-this-guy Sat, 11 Oct 2008 07:54:30 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/158484-there-once-was-this-guy#reply-3711745 Of course you won’t forget him. He was obviously an important aspect of your life. Most people don’t forget their first “love,” especially not their first kiss. But do you truly like this new guy? Would he be hard to forget, too? If so he’s probably someone worth keeping around.

]]> Anonymous Wed, 07 May 2008 07:22:06 +0100 Reply from carnivale /post/158484-there-once-was-this-guy#reply-3711565 First off, you will never forget him, your first kiss and if you are feeling so passonite about him then you’ll never forget him. I will have to agree with VKei. Choose one. You can’t be on top of the fence. You have to choose which side of the fence to be on or you will never get off. Your first love always seems like your only one. It is not. Compare them. See which one has more qualites you like. Long distance realtionships are hard and only for a select few couples. Is the guy that you moved away from really worth being so far apart but still dating? Your right alot of people will be saying “let him go” but is that wise. Which one do you like being around with more. Think about if both guys were sitting next to you on eaither side. Who would you feel more comfortable laying your head on? But one thing you do need to do is no matter what your outcome is try with all your might not to think of the guy you moved away from when your with this other guy. You shouldn’t do that because that will cloud you judgment no matter what the out come. Choose one and don’t be so quick that you choose the wrong choice. I hope that you will choose the right choice.

]]> carnivale Wed, 07 May 2008 05:22:05 +0100 Reply from js78stew /post/158484-there-once-was-this-guy#reply-3711513 I agree. I would definitely tell him how you feel. Why did you move in the first place. maybe consider moving back for him or him moving to where you are.

]]> js78stew Wed, 07 May 2008 04:53:49 +0100 Reply from marionms /post/158484-there-once-was-this-guy#reply-3711509 Yeah I agree, don’t play with their hearts.
Sticking with the the tried and true might be the best idea.

]]> marionms Wed, 07 May 2008 04:52:49 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/158484-there-once-was-this-guy#reply-3711508 Pick one OR the other, find him, let him know how you feel, wait for him, love him, be happy.
Just don’t try to play both sides. That’s not fair to you OR the guys in your life.
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thank you so much, i think thats what i will do.

]]> Anonymous Wed, 07 May 2008 04:52:49 +0100 Reply from VKei /post/158484-there-once-was-this-guy#reply-3711500 Pick one OR the other, find him, let him know how you feel, wait for him, love him, be happy.

Just don’t try to play both sides. That’s not fair to you OR the guys in your life.

]]> VKei Wed, 07 May 2008 04:50:23 +0100