Updates to this post /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w Wed, 15 Oct 2008 21:26:03 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3722469 a couple of months, but my brother and I are going to be visiting her in about a month or so.

]]> Anonymous Sat, 10 May 2008 12:07:19 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3718016 how long has it been since you have seen your mom last?

]]> dschult Fri, 09 May 2008 00:11:47 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717864 I’m just glad I’m going to visit my mom in a little over a month. =]]]]]]]

]]> Anonymous Thu, 08 May 2008 23:35:38 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717861 thank you. so much.

]]> Anonymous Thu, 08 May 2008 23:35:05 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717854 okay big HUGE hug from me… and a quick peck on the top of your head. You’re going to be okay and you have people here who care.

]]> mom4nutt Thu, 08 May 2008 23:32:37 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717815 i know

]]> Anonymous Thu, 08 May 2008 23:18:48 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717807 You know, you have the right to state (CALMLY) She is my Mother and I love her please stop saying things that are hurtful to me and my brother about her. I respect your right to have a less then teller opinion of her, please respect my right to love her.

]]> mom4nutt Thu, 08 May 2008 23:15:31 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717785 My dad is trying to turn me against my mom. My dad is a jerk. I’ll try to get out more. and i will stop cutting myself. thank you.

]]> Anonymous Thu, 08 May 2008 23:06:47 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717778 you just stated you want to know what you can do with your feelings until the dust settles….. get a new hobby, be okay with the fact that you are sad. Nothing worng with feeling sad, but also, move forward with your life anyway. It is also okay for you to enjoy some of the time with your Dad, take this time to get to know him better. You will not be “cheating ” on your Mom and yo might find out some good things. Be open to the change and except all feeling good or bad as they come and know that THIS TOO SHALL PASS

]]> mom4nutt Thu, 08 May 2008 23:05:14 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717774 Well, what worked for me is this, spend as little time as possible at your dads house, go out with friends , or even just go for walk but get out also keep in mind that you wont live there forever even if your mom cant win in court you can always legaly emancapate yourself when your 15-16(im not sure) never let your dad get to you and dont cut yourslf!!

]]> renante8 Thu, 08 May 2008 23:04:02 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717766 I’m sorry you are going through this and your right it SUCKS. Please stop cutting yourself, the more things you do that are damaging- the more things the judge can say…. see this kid is hurting himself because of Mom and tep dad and shouldn’t be there. It will sound really strange but seriously…. no matter how much you do not want to…. play the game. Stop cutting your self, go to school, do well this last quarter, make new friends, chin up. If the courts see that despite everything you are going through you are an upstanding kid then when you say I want to be back with my mother, you will have more credability and they will be more likely to put you back with her. If you flip out, do dangerous things… they won;t no matter what.

]]> mom4nutt Thu, 08 May 2008 23:02:55 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717743 Yes but the desicion won’t change until the stuff with my step-dad gets settled. I just wanna know what I can do to deal with my feelings until then.

]]> Anonymous Thu, 08 May 2008 22:57:15 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717720 Well first of all you cant cut yourself, I know its hard but that is only going to make things worse in the long run, do you know if your mom can go back to court?

]]> renante8 Thu, 08 May 2008 22:49:35 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717708 I’m 13. MY brother is 15.

]]> Anonymous Thu, 08 May 2008 22:45:23 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717703 Hey my dad went to court and took me and my siblings away from our mom just like yours did but I made it through and I am alot better you cant let yourself get too down because saddness is really hard to overcome at that level, I gotta ask you how old are you?

]]> renante8 Thu, 08 May 2008 22:43:40 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717702 okay well my best friend used to cut herself nad now shes goth and i dont know so just dont do it your only hurting your self more

]]> dschult Thu, 08 May 2008 22:43:15 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717668 I’m depressed. I don’t have any way of realeasing my stress. That’s the only thing I can think of doing

]]> Anonymous Thu, 08 May 2008 22:32:18 +0100 /post/159027-my-brother-and-i-have-been-living-w#reply-3717666 im really sorry… but stop cutting your self!!!

]]> dschult Thu, 08 May 2008 22:30:45 +0100