[Help] My teacher is treating me like his child. Updates to this post /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his Sat, 11 Oct 2008 13:08:33 +0100 Reply from MamaBear {Felicity} /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3727038 Sure :)

]]> MamaBear {Felicity} Mon, 12 May 2008 00:06:32 +0100 Reply from Crying /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3726119 [quote Felicity-{KIMKRISS}]One thing that I tell children is no matter how good someone treats you,gives you things and does things for you,you ONLY owe them a thank you and nothing else.I know your not exactly a child,but it still applies and if you keep this in mind you won’t be vulnerable to any control.It sounds like this guy is genuinely a very nice person.but you need to tap into your own intuition.If theres any doubt or suspicion,Just be careful :)[/quote]

TRUE TRUE =]Thanx

]]> Crying Sun, 11 May 2008 19:31:22 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3723215 [quote Felicity-{KIMKRISS}]One thing that I tell children is no matter how good someone treats you,gives you things and does things for you,you ONLY owe them a thank you and nothing else.I know your not exactly a child,but it still applies and if you keep this in mind you won’t be vulnerable to any control.It sounds like this guy is genuinely a very nice person.but you need to tap into your own intuition.If theres any doubt or suspicion,Just be careful :)[/quote]

True.

]]> Anonymous Sat, 10 May 2008 18:12:21 +0100 Reply from MamaBear {Felicity} /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3722187 One thing that I tell children is no matter how good someone treats you,gives you things and does things for you,you ONLY owe them a thank you and nothing else.I know your not exactly a child,but it still applies and if you keep this in mind you won’t be vulnerable to any control.It sounds like this guy is genuinely a very nice person.but you need to tap into your own intuition.If theres any doubt or suspicion,Just be careful :)

]]> MamaBear {Felicity} Sat, 10 May 2008 07:08:11 +0100 Reply from {VDLC} /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3722103 No it’s just a naturaual response…

i think your fine just make sure not to get too attached

]]> {VDLC} Sat, 10 May 2008 05:45:45 +0100 Reply from volley_ball_bab /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3720836 And if that doesn’t work, then maybe you should tell an adult, because it may become too serious for you to try to handle. But don’t be embarassed to tell an adult because this teacher might get a little too much…

]]> volley_ball_bab Fri, 09 May 2008 22:40:12 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3720827 [quote Crying]Sometimes, cuz it seems like he wanna be “dad” role, which he isnt.. I had biological parents, nothing will ever re-place that..[/quote]

You can tell him that you appreciate his concern but you feel uncomfortable when he acts in a fatherly way toward you. But keep in mind that maybe he doesn’t realize that he’s acting in a fatherly way. Maybe he just thinks he’s supporting you. If you continue to feel uncomfortable, or his ‘fatherly’ behaviour doesn’t change, distance yourself from this teacher.

]]> Anonymous Fri, 09 May 2008 22:36:45 +0100 Reply from volley_ball_bab /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3720816 I think that he might be trying to get a little too close to you…maybe more that a “father.” Are you a female?

]]> volley_ball_bab Fri, 09 May 2008 22:31:49 +0100 Reply from Crying /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3720786 Sometimes, cuz it seems like he wanna be “dad” role, which he isnt.. I had biological parents, nothing will ever re-place that..

]]> Crying Fri, 09 May 2008 22:15:06 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3720783 Nothing wrong with a teacher caring about you and giving you praise. I’m not so sure about the calls and the hugging. You’re 18 years old and in many places that’s considered an adult. But teachers know that there’s a fine line where physical contact and socializing with students is concerned. Although you like his attention, do you feel uncomfortable about it?

]]> Anonymous Fri, 09 May 2008 22:12:42 +0100 Reply from Crying /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3720763 I’m 18, was raised by fosterhomes and my 21 year old brother.

]]> Crying Fri, 09 May 2008 22:00:17 +0100 Reply from emilyb /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3720758 [quote rstarzboxer]Ideally, all teacher should care about their students. Just make sure that it’s appropriate. Please be careful and talk to your mom about it as well.[/quote]

i agree, the chances are he is being appropriate but you also need to know that in life we do have people like this who come along at different stages and help ie youth leaders but you need to know that there is a line, dont get carried awawy yurself and start seeing things that are not there

]]> emilyb Fri, 09 May 2008 21:58:30 +0100 Reply from rstarzboxer /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3720757 If you don’t mind me asking, how old are you and who takes care of you?

]]> rstarzboxer Fri, 09 May 2008 21:58:14 +0100 Reply from Crying /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3720753 I dont really have any of my parents.
He calls me when he notices me sad. He tells me everything is going to be okay. He gives me praise and hugs if I do something correct. He is just there..

]]> Crying Fri, 09 May 2008 21:56:58 +0100 Reply from rstarzboxer /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3720744 Ideally, all teacher should care about their students. Just make sure that it’s appropriate. Please be careful and talk to your mom about it as well.

]]> rstarzboxer Fri, 09 May 2008 21:54:45 +0100 Reply from arsefac /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3720743 ooh! a little messed up (no offence). no harm in thinking it however - i just wouldn’t do anything about it if i were you.

]]> arsefac Fri, 09 May 2008 21:54:32 +0100 Reply from emilyb /post/159289-my-teacher-is-treating-me-like-his#reply-3720742 its perfectly normal to have these sort of feelings, but what does he do that makes you feel like this?

]]> emilyb Fri, 09 May 2008 21:53:55 +0100