[Help] I have a boyfriend problem... Updates to this post /post/159374-i-have-a-boyfriend-problem Tue, 07 Oct 2008 07:48:41 +0100 Reply from neravar4239 /post/159374-i-have-a-boyfriend-problem#reply-3885294 andrea just dont worry about him, if he keeps switching to another call while he talks with you, then either he has somthing to hide, he just doesnt want to talk to you, or he is trying do something behind your back. confront him about it and make sure he listens to you, because he needs to listen to you. make sure that you find out his feelings for you and how he wants to continue the relationship with you.

]]> neravar4239 Tue, 24 Jun 2008 00:10:01 +0100 Reply from CALi-GiRL /post/159374-i-have-a-boyfriend-problem#reply-3866539 You should talk to him &&
Then think about out to see if you should call it
Off…..i just went through this && it was all
A misunderstanding….

]]> CALi-GiRL Thu, 19 Jun 2008 08:48:03 +0100 Reply from demongaaragirl2 /post/159374-i-have-a-boyfriend-problem#reply-3723824 Well friends are very important

]]> demongaaragirl2 Sat, 10 May 2008 21:40:28 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/159374-i-have-a-boyfriend-problem#reply-3722731 so are you ok with being not the primary relationship? Cause I think it’s pretty clear that that’s what you want, and that he may honestly be ok with you not being the primary relationship in his life.

Ok so first of all if this is the case, you should let him know, and give him a chance to decide on which relationships matter the most to him. If he doesn’t respond favorably.. then ok.

But so you guys see each other every 2 to 3 months? That’s like…. the same as the ******* doctor. Does he want to date his GP? Or does he think that he’s a GP and you’re his half our rush girl cause you’re cute and he’s got some tongue depressers.

Sounds like you’ve got tons of data to base your decision on. Good luck.

]]> Anonymous Sat, 10 May 2008 14:43:02 +0100 Reply from ♥~Andrea~♥ /post/159374-i-have-a-boyfriend-problem#reply-3722631 well see… we’ve been talking i guess you would say… and it started like a few weeks back… and i know he needs friends.. heck i do too.. but he spends way way too much time with them… every weekend they get together… let me just put it this way… if he was dating anyone… i would say it was his friends… he gets to see his friends at school.. on the weekend… and possible on weekdays… me however is a totally different story.. we see each other whenever he feels like it.. which is about every 2 to 3 months…

]]> ♥~Andrea~♥ Sat, 10 May 2008 13:57:16 +0100 Reply from countrygirl /post/159374-i-have-a-boyfriend-problem#reply-3721970 If it were me I would not call him or anything. I think that is probably what he may be wanting is an easy good by. If you don’t call or anything and if he does want to see you he will call and ask what’s going on since you haven’t called. If he does be sure and tell him that that phone works both ways. I really think that he is trying to brush you off and trying to get you maybe to where you’ll just leave him alone and vice versa and it be over with. Don’t chase him he’s not worth it.

]]> countrygirl Sat, 10 May 2008 04:25:40 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/159374-i-have-a-boyfriend-problem#reply-3721653 He’s giving you the brush-off, so give him the big send-off! By the way, some people do things like that just to see how it affects other people!

]]> Anonymous Sat, 10 May 2008 03:00:34 +0100 Reply from Abenzrit /post/159374-i-have-a-boyfriend-problem#reply-3721592 I would say you’re not his girl-friend anymore. Simple

]]> Abenzrit Sat, 10 May 2008 02:39:13 +0100 Reply from J 7 /post/159374-i-have-a-boyfriend-problem#reply-3721590 Don’t just call it of, because that could be a surprise to him and hurt his feeling. He may not release he’s not being such a good bf to you and it may be that he’s really relaxed about the situation so is perhaps taking advantage.

Talk t him, tell him you don’t want to be taken for granted.

See how he feels about the relationship too.

Then it may be bestto call it off, but you don’t know what he’s thinking yet.

]]> J 7 Sat, 10 May 2008 02:38:58 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/159374-i-have-a-boyfriend-problem#reply-3721571 tell him what you noticed and how you feel. Then let him decide how he wants to respond. It’s fair for you to give him a chance. Don’t put it off, tell him what you’ve been noticing today. Give him a few days to call and set up a date with you. If he doesn’t, call him back and tell him it’s over. Neglect isn’t fun.

Of course, if you two were basically hanging out exclusively for the past few weeks (before these past 2 weeks that he didnt call) then maybe is just expressing his need for friends. He does need to chill with his dudes of course, and you want him to do that too cause it’s fun for him right. So use your judgement, be honest with him, and give him a chance to respond with his actions.

]]> Anonymous Sat, 10 May 2008 02:30:48 +0100