Thank you for posting under your own nick-name. I had a few post hidden because they were under anon and an unverified user, just hope it was not you. If you had to make a point I would have preferred if you had sent invites from here to the original post rather than pasting them here, so people would have been able to read the whole previous thread and followed what lead to me to write what I wrote.

[quote SoulRising]Why don’t you try being a husband instead of a creep?[/quote]

I was trying to be, that is the reason I am asking for suggestions here, I have already have had 10 previous ones and I have done the best that I could with celebrating.

[quote annlovestars]To me it seems he feels that communication with his wife is not going well.[/quote]

Thanks. Please read my response to rstarzboxer, maybe it verifies what you have written.

[quote rstarzboxer]Well seeuseeme after reading more on you, I can see we were all blind sided by your so called love for your wife. [/quote]

Had I just wanted to blind-side I would have posted either one as anon and you or for that matter anybody else would not have known any better.

[quote rstarzboxer]You ARE just a creep, ugh….I feel sorry for your wife and hope she sends you packing.[/quote]

I can’t help with your or anybody’s opinions. Please read something that I had written before and after the post in question that needed to have been pointed out to, too.
http://help.com/post/154943-i-just-ca…
http://help.com/post/154943-i-just-ca…

Nothing much I can say except answer.[/quote]

I read the whole post and what can I say? I don’t feel one bit sorry for you nor do I have pitty on you. I don’t feel sorry for you. This wasn’t that long ago and all the sudden you are trying to be a good husband? I don’t believe you. The sad thing in all of this, an actually a little funny, is that your “girlfriend” didn’t want you. She wanted you to leave her alone, you just didn’t get the hint. She never wanted you!!!! You just couldn’t take the hint.

Thank you for posting under your own nick-name. I had a few post hidden because they were under anon and an unverified user, just hope it was not you. If you had to make a point I would have preferred if you had sent invites from here to the original post rather than pasting them here, so people would have been able to read the whole previous thread and followed what lead to me to write what I wrote.

[quote SoulRising]Why don’t you try being a husband instead of a creep?[/quote]

I was trying to be, that is the reason I am asking for suggestions here, I have already have had 10 previous ones and I have done the best that I could with celebrating.

[quote annlovestars]To me it seems he feels that communication with his wife is not going well.[/quote]

Thanks. Please read my response to rstarzboxer, maybe it verifies what you have written.

[quote rstarzboxer]Well seeuseeme after reading more on you, I can see we were all blind sided by your so called love for your wife. [/quote]

Had I just wanted to blind-side I would have posted either one as anon and you or for that matter anybody else would not have known any better.

[quote rstarzboxer]You ARE just a creep, ugh….I feel sorry for your wife and hope she sends you packing.[/quote]

I can’t help with your or anybody’s opinions. Please read something that I had written before and after the post in question that needed to have been pointed out to, too.
http://help.com/post/154943-i-just-ca…
http://help.com/post/154943-i-just-ca…

Nothing much I can say except answer.[/quote]

I believe it is your wife who needs the help: love, sincerity, and respect of a good honest man. Your justification for misguided deeds does nothing for her or you.

Thank you for posting under your own nick-name. I had a few post hidden because they were under anon and an unverified user, just hope it was not you. If you had to make a point I would have preferred if you had sent invites from here to the original post rather than pasting them here, so people would have been able to read the whole previous thread and followed what lead to me to write what I wrote.

[quote SoulRising]Why don’t you try being a husband instead of a creep?[/quote]

I was trying to be, that is the reason I am asking for suggestions here, I have already have had 10 previous ones and I have done the best that I could with celebrating.

[quote annlovestars]To me it seems he feels that communication with his wife is not going well.[/quote]

Thanks. Please read my response to rstarzboxer, maybe it verifies what you have written.

[quote rstarzboxer]Well seeuseeme after reading more on you, I can see we were all blind sided by your so called love for your wife. [/quote]

Had I just wanted to blind-side I would have posted either one as anon and you or for that matter anybody else would not have known any better.

[quote rstarzboxer]You ARE just a creep, ugh….I feel sorry for your wife and hope she sends you packing.[/quote]

I can’t help with your or anybody’s opinions. Please read something that I had written before and after the post in question that needed to have been pointed out to, too.
http://help.com/post/154943-i-just-ca…
http://help.com/post/154943-i-just-ca…

Nothing much I can say except answer.

You ARE just a creep, ugh….I feel sorry for your wife and hope she sends you packing.

I dont know how he meant this post to be.
To me it seems he feels that communication with his wife is not going well.
Is it ok if I invite him, so he can respond and clarify it more to us ?

Or maybe make a shout ?

He has another post 4 days ago that I helped him with, It is called “I just called her up and I am still jittery”. He enlisted me to help him obsess over a 20 year old he sees at work (read his post) (this is his own quote)

Why don’t you try being a husband instead of a creep?[/quote]

What the hell is this??? I don’t get where it came from. Please explain

Why don’t you try being a husband instead of a creep?

Hell no, sorry even I am not creative, but if it OK with her I would like to take her to some place like mas1s suggested.

Did you mean it that way?

Help me with: Suggestion for 11th Marriage Anniversary gift for my wife?[/quote]

Did you write this seeuseeme? i looked in your profile history and it is there.

Help me with: Suggestion for 11th Marriage Anniversary gift for my wife?

Here is a link to a cute montage of a baby….do something like this but about you and your wife….

:)

Neither did my wife’s husband, namely me. Why don’t you send the link to the thread to him, he will get some good ideas esp from a great lady called rstarzboxer so he know what he needs to do :)

You could also get her a past-present-future ring and come up with some sappy saying…

Gosh, why can’t my husband come up with ANY of this??????

rstarzboxer you hubby is not alone he has me as company, I too am dumb that I cannot think about it myself and have posted here :)

that1salvagegu, ‘but do guys really do that stuff?’ what stuff?

I would LOVE this. If only my hubby would be this clever.

You buy strawberries and champagne (or non-alcoholic sparkling wine if you dont drink) a beautiful red rose, pack some foods that can be nibbled - finger dishes 9remember napkins). A beautiful big rug, maybe also a battery radio for background music and then pack it all into the boot of the car (oh yes and a scented candle in case it gets dark).

Now think of the most romantic quite, beutiful place that you can find near you and whisk her off to lie oon the rug and eat little luxuries and talk about the beautiful 11 years you have shared. That might be the time to give her a little keepsake, like a beuatiful little carved angel or a locket with pictures of the children you have made.

Oh that sounds fine to me.

For example A girl i knew who loved music i bought a guitar and I named a star after one that liked astronomy. Does she have any big interests or things she likes to do. If not i would go with some tastefull jewlery or specail trip or night out like previously suggested.