You know, I was watching American Idol towards the beginning of the season and I remember one of the contestants saying that he or she had to experience the art of everyone’s position at their job until they were allowed to settle into their own. Kind of finding a way to make everyone understand what everyone else did.

I think it would be nice for men to feel what we feel…just once. But then I guess I have to remember that we were all created differently for a purpose and all that.

But ugh, lol.

The best advice to anyone getting harrassed, by the way, take it calmly and don’t yell back. The more aggrivated you get, the more they think they’re right and the less validation they will give to what you’re saying.

OR bring on the tears. That has melted many a man. And I have used it shamelessly q couple times when I was growing up :)

So completely true. Once you realise that they know and understand little or nothing about the need to express and the need to vent it, won’t affect you any longer!

I knew you’d all understand the jfhdshfkj and jhdfkjdahfkj and afdhs!

MEN!

The thing is, most men are not into listening to that. They forget that women’s venting is just a way to express themselves. Men are frustrated because they think talking and venting is a sign of weakness. For women, it is part of living.

So do not mind those she-get-this-once- a -month attitude. No matter how much we love them, they simply could not get it. haha!

I miss you Sunshine! *sobs.

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Thanks Anhedonia91 - I appreciate you letting me vent. I’m thankful for this site. It probably helps keep me sane!