[Help] Arn't friends suppose to be there for you..and if you

Reply from MamaBear {Felicity}

MamaBear {Felicity} — Mon, 12 May 2008 04:32:54 +0100

We can’t go through life without being ‘Taken’,cuz when we try we stop living as we should.Im wondering about balance.If you are an easy target to be taken advantage of,if you are naive or trust too much.And is the main problem with her or is it a pattern for you.Either way,trust is important and vital for relationships to work and should not be compromized.Does she do this to other people too?

Reply from Amberlicious595

Amberlicious595 — Mon, 12 May 2008 04:31:04 +0100

“Friends” are supposed to make you feel happy and if you can’t trust them that doesn’t sound like a friend to me. I think you already know what you want to do.

Reply from karaoke7_9

karaoke7_9 — Mon, 12 May 2008 03:16:09 +0100

See its hard for me, i do not forgive very easily, loyalty is the thing that keeps me going, if there is no trust theres no good. We have talked about this and she hasn’t done one thing to make me think she cares…what best frined blows off another…over and over again

Reply from Nutmeg

Nutmeg — Mon, 12 May 2008 03:14:28 +0100

I'’m in a situation just like yours… I guess the best thing is to keep trying to forgive them, and hope you can get somewhere with trust.

Reply from karaoke7_9

karaoke7_9 — Mon, 12 May 2008 03:11:38 +0100

Shes outgoing she has a good heart, but her bad qualities take over her more..

Reply from foreverfreckled

foreverfreckled — Mon, 12 May 2008 03:07:24 +0100

ba-tampt is right! u sould always have a back-up plan, even if u have more friends. just dont let any friends go until u know 4 certain. what is ur friends character like??? it is ok if u dont wanna tell me

Reply from ba-tampt

ba-tampt — Mon, 12 May 2008 03:05:48 +0100

I am in a similar situation, I think that for the time being you should stick things out with your good friend but if she or he is disappointing you, don’t let yourself get too attached and be on the look out for some new people. Go out somewhere and make some new friends and new connections, give yourself a bit of a fresh start so you don’t have only one close friend to fall back on. And if things end badly with this friend at least then you’ll have some new ones to help you through it. Sorry if this doesn’t help much.

Reply from foreverfreckled

foreverfreckled — Mon, 12 May 2008 03:03:28 +0100

that happened 2 me 2…just be wary of what they say, but still be close. u dont wanna let go of a good friend. when they mature a bit more, they will be able to keep ones trust. dont ever let a good friend go. if they r ur bff, keep them. just dont judge on trust. true, trust is very very important. they will earn it back, and when they do, u should be there 4 them. trust is good, but friendship is better. (in my opinion of course…)

Reply from renante8

renante8 — Mon, 12 May 2008 02:59:06 +0100

why cant you trust them