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[Help] I divorced my family. Updates to this post /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family Thu, 04 Dec 2008 08:15:08 +0100 Reply from Silverwings /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3923237 [quote annlovestars]Hey I found this, even if you dont believe in God or so, maybe they can help you
find free/not too expensive counselers anywhere.

They very often offer a good hart and a will to help;

http://www.christian-counseling-onlin…

That looks like it will be a very good link, and it seemed that one could have the first counseltation for no charge.

[quote Anonymous]Yea I totaly want to be helped, I just dont know where to turn.. I would rather live but not in pain everyday…I do thank you for your carring though[/quote]

Hang in there…. I believe that there are always answers to lifes perplexing problems, if we just keep asking questions, sooner or later, we will find the answers we need.

The computer will pull up lots of information on any subject that you type in, and for many situations, there are message boards that deal with each specific subject, like dysfunctional families, bi- polar, loneliness, abuse, verbal abuse, toxic relationships, emotional well being, etc. the links are endless, and you are never alone. There are resources avialble today, for anything that we may face.

The main thing is to never give up, if you do, you don’t progress any further.

Today is the first day of the rest of your life, change can take place.

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Silverwings Thu, 03 Jul 2008 02:35:23 +0100
Reply from Ditzy /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3922714 [quote aeolian mode]Ditzy in all due respects not everones family sucks,, in my case its totaly insane and if the authorities knew what was going on they would be taking my brother to a hospitol.. He is violent and terrorizes them, no exageration.. As for finding someone to help me I tried for years and made all kinds of pleas for help and nobody listens or takes me serious.. I dont know what else I could do..[/quote]

lol yep - sounds familiar. My mother is a crazy psycho ***** who manipulates everything any body says. She is currently self harming - on her 2nd marriage. Married to a drunk only 9 weeks and already is talk about divorce. She drove my Dad to be an alcoholic (who we all hated coz mother made him look like the bad party - yay for manipulation) my sister and I were always fighting, my other sister was stealing and my brother is a weed/pot user. Trust me families are crazy. Nobodies is perfect.

Also if your brother is that bad maybe he would be better off in a hospital. If you wanted to get better you would find the help. Tell your pastor he is wrong - tell them everything. It sounds like the authorities dont know half the story. Hope the Christian dude emails you back. Do what ever you need to do to get help. Scream if needs be. Some times people can be wrong - you need to prove that to them

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Ditzy Wed, 02 Jul 2008 23:58:30 +0100
Reply from annlovestars * /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3922063 [quote miskat]I’m sure you get a reply.

I must admit I had some whiskey here, so not the best searcher now (thanks so much for covering that Ann!)

But we are around here for you, also when you find a spot we’d really appreciate it if you keep us updated.

I have this issue that I easily care about people. =)[/quote]

sure no prob ;)

[quote Anonymous]I wont forget your names and will shout you on another day when it is safe…[/quote]

Yes ill be on here regularly, hope you dicide to sign up, still the only ones who know your email, are the mods on here and they have to keep it secret.
Good luck !

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annlovestars * Wed, 02 Jul 2008 21:37:22 +0100
Reply from Anonymous /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3922043 I wont forget your names and will shout you on another day when it is safe…

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Anonymous Wed, 02 Jul 2008 21:33:53 +0100
Reply from miskat /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3922021 I’m sure you get a reply.

I must admit I had some whiskey here, so not the best searcher now (thanks so much for covering that Ann!)

But we are around here for you, also when you find a spot we’d really appreciate it if you keep us updated.

I have this issue that I easily care about people. =)

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miskat Wed, 02 Jul 2008 21:29:54 +0100
Reply from annlovestars * /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3922010 This is something that might help also :

http://www.befrienders.org/support/in…

[quote Anonymous]ann I just emailed the christian thearapist, maybe this is a start.. we shall see if I get a reply[/quote]

Okay ! Good !! :)

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annlovestars * Wed, 02 Jul 2008 21:27:41 +0100
Reply from Anonymous /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921999 ann I just emailed the christian thearapist, maybe this is a start.. we shall see if I get a reply

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Anonymous Wed, 02 Jul 2008 21:26:08 +0100
Reply from annlovestars * /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921965 Hey I found this, even if you dont believe in God or so, maybe they can help you
find free/not too expensive counselers anywhere.

They very often offer a good hart and a will to help;

http://www.christian-counseling-onlin…

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annlovestars * Wed, 02 Jul 2008 21:17:42 +0100
Reply from Anonymous /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921900 OK

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Anonymous Wed, 02 Jul 2008 21:08:30 +0100
Reply from annlovestars * /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921882 Yes i will friend you too. Just go to login and registration and from there it will show itself

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annlovestars * Wed, 02 Jul 2008 21:05:45 +0100
Reply from miskat /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921878 top of the page there is a login/signup button.

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miskat Wed, 02 Jul 2008 21:05:27 +0100
Reply from Anonymous /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921869 how do you sign up

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Anonymous Wed, 02 Jul 2008 21:03:42 +0100
Reply from miskat /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921861 you signed up? than leave a comment if you want as robbie here, than i can friend you.

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miskat Wed, 02 Jul 2008 21:02:13 +0100
Reply from Anonymous /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921852 my name is robbie

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Anonymous Wed, 02 Jul 2008 21:01:12 +0100
Reply from miskat /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921827 Do us a favour and sign up here, pick some nickname so we can find you.

now you are just one of the 1000 anon’s.

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miskat Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:57:44 +0100
Reply from Anonymous /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921818 Yea I totaly want to be helped, I just dont know where to turn.. I would rather live but not in pain everyday…I do thank you for your carring though

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Anonymous Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:56:20 +0100
Reply from miskat /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921807 Please do realise that both Ann and I are trying to help you now.

You can count on us if we can count on you.

(which means that you are going to try to better things)

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miskat Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:54:26 +0100
Reply from annlovestars * /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921726 You will ok ?
In the mean time i will look for more counselling sites there.

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annlovestars * Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:38:07 +0100
Reply from Anonymous /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921696 I will try that ann…

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Anonymous Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:32:52 +0100
Reply from annlovestars * /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921682 Maybe you can call the office on the link Ive send you if they know any more
of these kind of counselours ?

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annlovestars * Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:31:20 +0100
Reply from annlovestars * /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921675 Yes you can, Well im on European time also , but I will be here for a while.
And tomorrow also same time.

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annlovestars * Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:29:55 +0100
Reply from miskat /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921655 And if not tonight, than leave me or perhaps Ann (don’t know if you are available…) a shout tomorrow (you have to register than, but all you need is an email address) and I go searching the net with you.

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miskat Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:25:45 +0100
Reply from annlovestars * /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921640 Yes dont give up ! we will find a way :)

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annlovestars * Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:23:38 +0100
Reply from miskat /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921618 There is help. We just have to find it.
Many people got invites now, there will be someone that has a good tip.

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miskat Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:20:43 +0100
Reply from Anonymous /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921581 thanks annlovestars but I am 800 miles north of that service.. I give there really is no help for me…

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Anonymous Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:14:16 +0100
Reply from annlovestars * /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921480 These adjust the rates to your budget :

http://www.cifc1.org/

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annlovestars * Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:54:12 +0100
23 users were invited to read this post by aeolian mode /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-5811329 aeolian mode Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:48:44 +0100 3 users were invited to read this post by miskat /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-5811260 miskat Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:40:51 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921427 Please, last night was sooo0 scarry

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Anonymous Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:40:01 +0100
Reply from miskat /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921425 ok. I am in Europe. Really can’t tell what your options could be overthere.

Let me ask some people for you.

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miskat Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:39:30 +0100
Reply from annlovestars * /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921418 Maybe find another pastor ?

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annlovestars * Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:37:48 +0100
Reply from Anonymous /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921415 USA,, northern calif..

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Anonymous Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:37:24 +0100
Reply from miskat /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921411 Which country/state are you in?

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miskat Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:36:51 +0100
Reply from Anonymous /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921407 Well because I was ill all of my life I couldnt work, and was put on disability.. I could barely eat more then some apples and fruit everyday and am going into debt by the tens of thousands.. So affording a doctor or a thearipist isnt in my future.. So I rely on mental health who flately rejected me despite my plea for help..

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Anonymous Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:36:01 +0100
Reply from miskat /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921387 I take you serious.

I know that there can be a need to break with your family. I had to do it too.
Other reasons, but sometimes it is the only way to continue in life.

It is very hard though. Disconnecting from your roots isn’t easily done.

If you want to read my story: http://help.com/post/169654-support-n…

About your untreated bipolar, can you explain me why you can’t visit your doctor and/or a therapist?

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miskat Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:31:41 +0100
Reply from Anonymous /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921356 Ditzy in all due respects not everones family sucks,, in my case its totaly insane and if the authorities knew what was going on they would be taking my brother to a hospitol.. He is violent and terrorizes them, no exageration.. As for finding someone to help me I tried for years and made all kinds of pleas for help and nobody listens or takes me serious.. I dont know what else I could do..

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Anonymous Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:26:09 +0100
Reply from annlovestars * /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921334 Yes Ditzy is right, find people around you who listen. Try to make friends where you can go to when **** gets rough at your family. Everybody needs a time out from home
omce and a while.

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annlovestars * Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:18:16 +0100
Reply from Ditzy /post/175869-i-divorced-my-family#reply-3921325 suicide is never the right answer. You’ll just end up hurting more people :S and trust me every bodies family sucks :S you’d should hear some of my family horror stories lol. Also there is people out there who can help you - you just need to find them!!! tell them that you do need help and that they are wrong. Tell them exactly how you are feeling etc …

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Ditzy Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:15:31 +0100