[Help] Need advice...

Reply from Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 15:55:54 +0100

Talk to the person in charge of financial aid at your college. If you are smart enough to get into medical school, they will want to retain you and help you.

Or offer to live with an older person in exchange for helping them around the house and transportation issues.

Reply from Winter.Rain

Winter.Rain — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 22:19:01 +0100

I can only see two problems. Or one really. You need a loan for school. You have a temp place to live right now. You are not on a time limit to fish school, so take time to get your self together and deal with the breakup. Go out with your friends, let them help cheer you up. When you start feeling a lil better focus on living arrangements, then worry about school. Food and shelter are the priority. You can do this. Remember he left. It doesn’t matter who did what or why. You have all those answers. You have the strength to get through this.

Reply from Winter.Rain

Winter.Rain — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 22:09:12 +0100

First, from your story, It seems you have always relied on other people to help support you. No offense. You needed your BF to help with the bills to stay where you were right?

Reply from happitoday

happitoday — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 22:03:54 +0100

yes thats true… but now i don’t know what to do… I want / NEED my own place to focus on me again, I’m so positive with other people but with me I’m so negative… I have read the secret and other movies about the universes and still nothing… I can’t don;t know what i have done in my passed that keeps kicking me in the butt….

Reply from Winter.Rain

Winter.Rain — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 21:59:16 +0100

History repeats it’s self and it’s always a lil worse than before if you don’t learn the lessons you are suppose too learn in life. First relax, because it is never as bad as it seems. Focus on you not the people causing problems. Don’t give them power over you be letting them upset you. Then start thinking of what to do.

Reply from happitoday

happitoday — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 21:55:54 +0100

I know it hurts more then you know, so i don’t even call him or go out there anymore… there is a BAD BAD history with me and my step dad, but i though i was over it and now its all comming back….

Reply from Winter.Rain

Winter.Rain — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 21:55:09 +0100

Sorry, I know that don’t help

Reply from Winter.Rain

Winter.Rain — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 21:54:36 +0100

Unless they are dating. Stranger things have happened.

Reply from Chameleon

Chameleon — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 21:53:59 +0100

Ok that’s just weird to me that your stepfather would tell you to leave and keep your ex boyfriend there :/

Reply from happitoday

happitoday — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 21:53:08 +0100

No my ex lives with my step-father… they told me to go…

Reply from happitoday

happitoday — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 21:52:21 +0100

I’m working. i love my grandma but it’s HOT and my uncle live there too and i don’t have room so i stay in the living room. i have tried to get other financial aid but no luck yet….

Reply from Chameleon

Chameleon — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 21:50:51 +0100

Your stepfather is living with your ex boyfriend?

Reply from NOLA Lady

NOLA Lady — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 21:48:19 +0100

Canyou just stay at your grandma for right now. This will give you time to regroup and move on. Can you get any other financial aid? Loans or Grants. Are you working now?

Reply from happitoday

happitoday — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 21:45:14 +0100

living between my grandmas and my best friends - while her kids are out of town was living with step-father and ex boy friend but they said better for me to go some where else..

Reply from Chameleon

Chameleon — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 21:42:52 +0100

Where are you living now?