[Help] i need advice which may be easy for some people to give. Updates to this post /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for Sun, 29 Nov 2009 08:34:58 +0100 Reply from CrazyR8erFa /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4204223 try this out… “Hey, I have a blast hanging out with you and getting to know you, is there anyway I can see you outside of school/work/our group of friends?”

]]> CrazyR8erFa Tue, 09 Sep 2008 20:40:33 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201307 thxx. and yeah thats tru, if you get thru somtin like this youl feel alot more happier, and youl tend to get more out of life

]]> Anonymous Tue, 09 Sep 2008 00:24:06 +0100 Reply from AmandaLynn /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201296 And - if you’ve struggled with your self image and stuff before - and are stepping out on something new - this may be a very good experience for you - whatever the outcome is. Learning how to handle failures and mistakes and rejection just as well as we handle successes and acceptance is a wonderful thing to achieve - and we have to have our fair share of both to get the hange of dealing with them properly. I wish you all the best with this - no matter what she says. Use it. Dont let it use you.

]]> AmandaLynn Tue, 09 Sep 2008 00:20:37 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201281 i did. it was hard, and it was slow but im deff better then b4

]]> Anonymous Tue, 09 Sep 2008 00:17:01 +0100 Reply from AmandaLynn /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201274 Ahh.. well.. hopefully you’ve changed your mind though also about what you think about yourself and adopted a new way of seeing yourself and your life and others - cuz we can leave our old towns and friends and environment - but we still have to take that mind of ours with us. lol.

]]> AmandaLynn Tue, 09 Sep 2008 00:15:23 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201258 like, i used to not be able to let things go, and always have a terrrible view of myself. i had to leave that behind in my old town lol

]]> Anonymous Tue, 09 Sep 2008 00:09:56 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201254 haha tru, iv forced myself through some complexes before, they aint pleasant. il keep that in mind

]]> Anonymous Tue, 09 Sep 2008 00:07:57 +0100 Reply from AmandaLynn /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201248 Of course - some girls arnt really looking for a boyfriend at the moment - due to certain things in her life - this may be th case with her. If it is - dont take the rejection of a relatinoship as a rejections of yourself. Thats where ou start developing complexes and all.. and.. well, you dont want that. lol.

]]> AmandaLynn Tue, 09 Sep 2008 00:06:27 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201247 that has alot of meaning to it, and it makes alot of sence. thankss

]]> Anonymous Tue, 09 Sep 2008 00:06:09 +0100 Reply from AmandaLynn /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201233 [quote Anonymous]i can try lol, but what if it turns out awkward, like what if she thinks im trying to put a move on her or somtin[/quote]

Well -.. arnt you? .lol. Why try and hide your intentions.? If you like her and think that shes the kind of person you want to get to konw better - whats wrong with telling her that? Thats what datings for anyway - to get to know peopel better - to step into their world for a while and let them in yours so you can assess one another and see if yall are a good match or not. Often people go INTO a relationship with high hopes and high expectations thinking that the person is just amazing - which is ok - why else would you date someone unless you thought it could maybe be a great relationship? … but just keep in mind that you still need to evaluate things - because with things like this - first opinions can often be wrong. And if you let your emotions get in the way to much - when things start looking like perhaps yall are not the best match - you may try and debate actions with her or try and change yours to make yall look like a better match so you can keep her and your feelings. Which kinda defeats the purpose. lol.

So yea - i’d not be ashamed or afraid or whatever it is about asking her out. If shes offended that you think shes just “somethin else”… well… do you want to date a girl that is offended by your view of her?? lol. Especially one like that. Let her know your not looking for nothing crazy - but - you just want to give things a try, get to know her better, take things easy and just enjoy it. No “down the road expectations”.. just.. you like being around her. pretty simple.

]]> AmandaLynn Tue, 09 Sep 2008 00:01:57 +0100 Reply from mr_biscui /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201231 sorry it was a response to jinxs comments above. I’m too lazy to add her comment thus giving mine the context it needs.

]]> mr_biscui Tue, 09 Sep 2008 00:01:18 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201217 [quote mr_biscui]Trust me thers always one sat stewing in his own juices cos he cant find a way to let you know how he feels. Read this site, they appear with amazing regularity[/quote]

?

]]> Anonymous Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:55:56 +0100 Reply from mr_biscui /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201215 Trust me thers always one sat stewing in his own juices cos he cant find a way to let you know how he feels. Read this site, they appear with amazing regularity

]]> mr_biscui Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:54:56 +0100 Reply from . - : 2511 : - . /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201210 [quote Jinx]Not really, I hang out with a lot of guys and from what I know, none of them are into me that way[/quote]

Believe me…I know a lot who work in an other way…

]]> . - : 2511 : - . Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:53:45 +0100 Reply from nurse_rose /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201209 ask her if she’d like to hang out with you sometime…be casual and confident. see what u have in common and do something u both like. :) x

]]> nurse_rose Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:53:39 +0100 Reply from Jinx /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201204 Not really, I hang out with a lot of guys and from what I know, none of them are into me that way

]]> Jinx Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:52:25 +0100 Reply from . - : 2511 : - . /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201194 [quote Jinx][quote mr_biscui]Every male who speaks to a woman is potentially trying it on so don’t worry its only at the point you admit your feelings that it comes into play. And you plainly are trying it on!!!!!!![/quote]That’s not true. you can be friends with a girl and not trying it on..[/quote]

*Potentially*

Besides…it happens most of the times…

]]> . - : 2511 : - . Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:50:37 +0100 Reply from mr_biscui /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201189 *potentially trying it on*

]]> mr_biscui Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:50:01 +0100 Reply from AshleyAnemia. (: /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201185 [quote 2511][quote .ashleyyy =]]Like today at school.There was a silence in my group friends and I blurted out “I smell like Axe! ;DD I’m cool like that.”*Because I wear guy deo. ;) i like to smell like that. I hate girly smells like lavendar and stuff. Ehhh.[/quote]Axe smells better on men though…[/quote]

Haha.
Well if you met me, I’m more of a tom-boy punk person. ;DD I hang out with guys alot.

[quote Anonymous]haha alright, i guess i can try to call her, or txt her lol. i dont really have much to lose at this point[/quote]

(y)
Keep me updated.
:) I have to go.

]]> AshleyAnemia. (: Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:49:22 +0100 Reply from Jinx /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201184 [quote mr_biscui]Every male who speaks to a woman is potentially trying it on so don’t worry its only at the point you admit your feelings that it comes into play. And you plainly are trying it on!!!!!!![/quote]

That’s not true. you can be friends with a girl and not trying it on..

]]> Jinx Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:49:09 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201182 haha alright, i guess i can try to call her, or txt her lol. i dont really have much to lose at this point

]]> Anonymous Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:48:34 +0100 Reply from . - : 2511 : - . /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201179 [quote .ashleyyy =]]Like today at school.There was a silence in my group friends and I blurted out “I smell like Axe! ;DD I’m cool like that.”*Because I wear guy deo. ;) i like to smell like that. I hate girly smells like lavendar and stuff. Ehhh.[/quote]

Axe smells better on men though…

]]> . - : 2511 : - . Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:48:14 +0100 Reply from AshleyAnemia. (: /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201174 Like today at school.
There was a silence in my group friends and I blurted out “I smell like Axe! ;DD I’m cool like that.”

*Because I wear guy deo. ;) i like to smell like that. I hate girly smells like lavendar and stuff. Ehhh.

]]> AshleyAnemia. (: Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:47:14 +0100 Reply from mr_biscui /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201173 Every male who speaks to a woman is potentially trying it on so don’t worry its only at the point you admit your feelings that it comes into play. And you plainly are trying it on!!!!!!!

]]> mr_biscui Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:47:07 +0100 Reply from Jinx /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201171 just keep getting know her, be friends to start with. then later on it’ll get easier

]]> Jinx Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:46:31 +0100 Reply from . - : 2511 : - . /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201170 [quote Anonymous]i can try lol, but what if it turns out awkward, like what if she thinks im trying to put a move on her or somtin[/quote]

So?
Maybe she’ll like it….

If you’re afraid of that, then try to go slooooowly..

]]> . - : 2511 : - . Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:46:10 +0100 Reply from AshleyAnemia. (: /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201169 [quote Anonymous]i can try lol, but what if it turns out awkward, like what if she thinks im trying to put a move on her or somtin[/quote]

:) I blurt out random things during awkward silences.
Never fails to put a smile on my boyfriend’s face.
;) And We’ve been going out for 7 months… we still have to awkward moments.
Haha.

Try that?

]]> AshleyAnemia. (: Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:45:50 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201167 even if im not

]]> Anonymous Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:45:34 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201163 i can try lol, but what if it turns out awkward, like what if she thinks im trying to put a move on her or somtin

]]> Anonymous Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:44:31 +0100 Reply from Jinx /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201161 Get to know her first, give her a reason for trusting you.
She probably just doesn’t know you very well. you have to give it time

]]> Jinx Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:44:20 +0100 Reply from . - : 2511 : - . /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201158 Talk to her, try to hang out with her…

It’s always the same…

]]> . - : 2511 : - . Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:44:02 +0100 Reply from AshleyAnemia. (: /post/195922-i-need-advice-which-may-be-easy-for#reply-4201153 :) Hmm.
Call her up and ask to hang out.
Plain and simple.

]]> AshleyAnemia. (: Mon, 08 Sep 2008 23:42:43 +0100