Updates to this post /post/196992-recently-my-boyfriend-of-just-about Fri, 04 Dec 2009 19:45:20 +0100 /post/196992-recently-my-boyfriend-of-just-about#reply-4215363 As brutally blunt as this may sound, it seems like he still may have a bit of growing up to do.

]]> shad Fri, 12 Sep 2008 02:54:21 +0100 /post/196992-recently-my-boyfriend-of-just-about#reply-4215326 I cant let him go, im afraid that if I do it will send him over the edge and his behavior will just increase. I dont think that he lies about drinking, and when hes with me he doesnt drink, its just when hes around his immature college buddies, or some co-workers who are living through him (hes 26 they are all in their 40’s_

]]> Olivieria6 Fri, 12 Sep 2008 02:47:07 +0100 /post/196992-recently-my-boyfriend-of-just-about#reply-4215067 Unfortunately Olivieria, if you truly want to help him, AA would be the place to start. Even that would only help if he’s willing to admit he has a problem and wants to fix it.. Otherwise, I’d have to agree with cherry.

]]> shad Fri, 12 Sep 2008 02:01:41 +0100 /post/196992-recently-my-boyfriend-of-just-about#reply-4215058 You need to let him go, unless he gets help. If you don’t you will enable him. If you love him, you need to practice this tough love. Realize he may not change even if you leave him, but you’ll save yourself a lot of pain. If he didn’t learn from the accident, and he lies about his drinking then he is headed down a bad road. I’ve been in a similar situation and finally had to let go. She still drinks heavily to this day.

]]> cherryjlu Fri, 12 Sep 2008 02:00:10 +0100 /post/196992-recently-my-boyfriend-of-just-about#reply-6603049 Olivieria6 Fri, 12 Sep 2008 01:52:25 +0100