[Help] I want a "bff" again... Updates to this post /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8 Thu, 03 Dec 2009 21:57:44 +0100 Reply from XXashXX /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4259417 Your eyes are really pretty!! As for the bestfriend thing you are right. They do hurt you the most. It’s hard to have a bestfriend especially when you whine and complain a little to much sometimes. Just keep looking I know there is someone out there for you. I’m not happy to say this but me and my bff are on the rocker at the moment and I don’t think it’s gonna turn out to well. Good luck and hang in there!

]]> XXashXX Mon, 22 Sep 2008 03:43:59 +0100 Reply from ♥ tiffany. /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4259209 Ha, thanks. :]

]]> ♥ tiffany. Mon, 22 Sep 2008 02:57:53 +0100 Reply from TriumphAlice /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4259192 I’ll be friends with you too sharpie!

]]> TriumphAlice Mon, 22 Sep 2008 02:55:01 +0100 Reply from ♥ tiffany. /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4259180 I’m in the same boat.
My “best friend” and I recently stopped hanging out. She went to a local college, got new friends and got interested in other things. (Drinking, frat parties, ect) I dunno but that’s just not my type of thing.
I don’t think I’ve seen her now for about 2 months. We used to hang out every weekend, talk daily and at one point we used to work together. My fiance and I got engaged in July and I don’t know if that sort of pissed her off? She was sort of jealous of our relationship .. or what.. but yeah. I have nobody except family to talk to, unless I talk to my fiance.. but if I have problems with him or concerns I need a girls advice on, I have nobody. It’s extremely depressing.

]]> ♥ tiffany. Mon, 22 Sep 2008 02:53:33 +0100 Reply from TriumphAlice /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4259142 I am the same way. My BFF is 600 miles away and I talk to her about once every two months, it’s horrible! I just hang out with all of my boyfriend and I’s mutual guy friends. I like sports, poker, video games, etc, but sometimes I need girl time. So, basically, I’ll be your new BFF. If you’ll have me.

]]> TriumphAlice Mon, 22 Sep 2008 02:46:26 +0100 Reply from spiratec9 /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4259104 you said:
“they only wanted to be friends with me in hopes of me looseing my values…”

First may I say I am glad you wish to keep those values.

But in some twisted way it does isolate you as one of “them” or one of “those”.
I am one of “them” and your one of “them” but we are therefor boring?

]]> spiratec9 Mon, 22 Sep 2008 02:37:18 +0100 Reply from southern_comfort /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258520 That’s pretty lousy alright. I commend you for staying clean. That wasn’t easy but you did it. I hope you feel proud.
So enough about them. What about you? Anything at all you want to unload off your mind to a new bff?

]]> southern_comfort Mon, 22 Sep 2008 00:07:13 +0100 Reply from Joy. /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258505 They mostly do alot of drugs, and drink..I dont drink and have never done drugs..It used to seem so normal for all my friends to do drugs but once they all had children I figured they would wise up and stop doing drugs but they still do drugs.. their parents take care of their children..

[quote southern_comfort][quote Joy.]I should prolly have added that all of my x bffs now have children. I cant relate to that..their also not great parents because they want to be teenagers still even tho they are mothers..thats what I ment when I said things they do are silly.[/quote]

What makes them lousy mothers? What silly things do they do that you find peticular[/quote]

]]> Joy. Mon, 22 Sep 2008 00:04:27 +0100 Reply from southern_comfort /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258477 And now I’m hungry for chocolate. Thanks loads!

]]> southern_comfort Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:59:09 +0100 Reply from southern_comfort /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258446 [quote zoo_baw]best fudge on fridays huh… why on earth haven’t i thought of that?i also just found out a few months ago one of my friends had a baby, i was really surprised, then she said it was her second[/quote]

Well, consider that good news. She could have handed you court papers naming you in her paternity suit.
lol

]]> southern_comfort Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:52:36 +0100 Reply from zoo_baw /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258439 best fudge on fridays huh… why on earth haven’t i thought of that?
i also just found out a few months ago one of my friends had a baby, i was really surprised, then she said it was her second

]]> zoo_baw Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:51:02 +0100 Reply from southern_comfort /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258438 So much for gir. He can’t get past your eyes!

They are very pretty, I must admit. But I’m more interested in your mind.

]]> southern_comfort Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:50:41 +0100 Reply from southern_comfort /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258424 [quote Joy.]I should prolly have added that all of my x bffs now have children. I cant relate to that..their also not great parents because they want to be teenagers still even tho they are mothers..thats what I ment when I said things they do are silly.[/quote]

What makes them lousy mothers? What silly things do they do that you find peculiar?

[quote gir]YOUR EYE COLOR IS SO BRIGHT man[/quote]

Joy is 100% female. Man!

]]> southern_comfort Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:47:57 +0100 Reply from gir /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258419 Your eye color is so bright man

]]> gir Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:47:06 +0100 Reply from gir /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258415 HI

]]> gir Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:46:17 +0100 Reply from Joy. /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258413 [quote southern_comfort]Sorry for the language. Probably drops me back down a notch, huh?[/quote]

naaaah

]]> Joy. Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:45:44 +0100 Reply from southern_comfort /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258410 Sorry for the language. Probably drops me back down a notch, huh?

]]> southern_comfort Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:45:13 +0100 Reply from Joy. /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258408 I should prolly have added that all of my x bffs now have children. I cant relate to that..their also not great parents because they want to be teenagers still even tho they are mothers..thats what I ment when I said things they do are silly.

]]> Joy. Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:45:09 +0100 Reply from Joy. /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258401 [quote zoo_baw]don’t laugh, promise?
i thought it was something along the line of ‘boy friend’s friends’…[/quote]

lol thats cute.

[quote southern_comfort]Not best **** on fridays…?[/quote]

and thats very origional!!

]]> Joy. Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:43:49 +0100 Reply from southern_comfort /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258399 Not best **** on fridays…?

]]> southern_comfort Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:43:08 +0100 Reply from zoo_baw /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258393 don’t laugh, promise?
i thought it was something along the line of ‘boy friend’s friends’…

]]> zoo_baw Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:42:17 +0100 Reply from southern_comfort /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258385 Apology accepted. Just curious… what did you think bff stood for?

]]> southern_comfort Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:40:57 +0100 Reply from zoo_baw /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258369 ooh… so that’s what ‘bff’ means! i was always wondering what it stands for whenever i read it…
well, sometimes we just don’t have the ‘privilege’ to have any i guess.
and yeah, i’ll have admit that the bit about ‘being friends but just hoping for girls to loosen up their values’ is very true sometimes… my sincere apologies on the behalf of all those guys.

]]> zoo_baw Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:37:06 +0100 Reply from southern_comfort /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258356 [quote Joy.][quote southern_comfort]Hi Joy. If you are satisfied with your boyfriend, why do you want a male best friend? And (should have asked this first) where do I apply??[/quote]I dont want a male best friend. I just get along with guys better. I love video games and im not very girly..[/quote]

I’m not very girly either. Hope that doesn’t hurt my chances.

]]> southern_comfort Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:34:27 +0100 Reply from Joy. /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258349 no.

]]> Joy. Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:33:36 +0100 Reply from southern_comfort /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258339 So you’re looking for a stalker then??

]]> southern_comfort Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:32:18 +0100 Reply from Joy. /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258337 [quote southern_comfort]Hi Joy. If you are satisfied with your boyfriend, why do you want a male best friend? And (should have asked this first) where do I apply??[/quote]

I dont want a male best friend. I just get along with guys better. I love video games and im not very girly..

]]> Joy. Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:32:16 +0100 Reply from Joy. /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258333 yeah my boyfriend is my best friend. but when he ***** up I have no one to talk about it to but him..I suppose it helps our relationship but we live together so were together ALL the time…I people to hang out with outside of my home.

]]> Joy. Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:31:24 +0100 Reply from southern_comfort /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258318 Hi Joy. If you are satisfied with your boyfriend, why do you want a male best friend? And (should have asked this first) where do I apply??

]]> southern_comfort Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:29:24 +0100 Reply from Miss Minnie /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258280 Me too, I don’t have bff any more. They all seem to forget about you when they have a boyfriend and that makes me loose trust in them because if they were really a good friend they would make time. Then other’s just aren’t very dependable. Gahh girls for friends are rubbish :(

]]> Miss Minnie Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:21:41 +0100 Reply from Joy. /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258236 [quote gir]oh and your eyes are huge no affence[/quote]

I was opening them as wide as I could :) they are actually rather skwnty when I dont have my glasses on :D

]]> Joy. Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:12:32 +0100 Reply from gir /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258225 oh and your eyes are huge no affence

]]> gir Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:10:52 +0100 Reply from gir /post/199941-i-want-a-bff-again8#reply-4258221 hi
i can be your friend

]]> gir Sun, 21 Sep 2008 23:10:06 +0100