[Help] I am kinda confused about somthing...

Reply from cristian/rodrige

cristian/rodrige — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 00:50:10 +0100

you a little ***** by a man not a hoi(*****)

Reply from zimbobwa

zimbobwa — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 18:41:05 +0100

any other ideas ppl?

Reply from zimbobwa

zimbobwa — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 13:25:02 +0100

[quote spiratec9]when you see her in one of her moods just walk right up to her and give her a big long hug and while your hugging her whisper into her ear”I don’t like
to see you feeling this way”.hug the longer the better.pay attention as to how
she huggs you back.thats important.[/quote]

well shes not really the type of person who gives hugs out so i think doing that would kinda freak her out lol.

[quote ~lilies~]This girl needs you more than she knows. So there is nothing else you can do other than not stopping being her friend. But limit the attention you give her. You don’t want to make her confuse on her feelings towards the guy and her feelings towards you later on if in case she would begin to notice you liker her more than a friend.

Your gentleness would win her heart. If that won’t happen, at least you have become a nicer person.[/quote]

hmmmm that does make a lot of sense. you always know the right thing to say :)

Reply from ☆

Tue, 23 Sep 2008 04:44:18 +0100

This girl needs you more than she knows. So there is nothing else you can do other than not stopping being her friend. But limit the attention you give her. You don’t want to make her confuse on her feelings towards the guy and her feelings towards you later on if in case she would begin to notice you liker her more than a friend.

Your gentleness would win her heart. If that won’t happen, at least you have become a nicer person.

Reply from spiratec9

spiratec9 — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 03:03:45 +0100

when you see her in one of her moods just walk right up to her and give her
a big long hug and while your hugging her whisper into her ear”I don’t like
to see you feeling this way”.hug the longer the better.pay attention as to how
she huggs you back.thats important.

Reply from zimbobwa

zimbobwa — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 01:37:27 +0100

yea i actually got her to start teaching me to play the drums, but that kinda stopped when school started, but i will try more often

****NOTE to everyone invite ppl who you think could help me i want to talk to alot of ppl about this***

Reply from JAG10

JAG10 — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 01:28:34 +0100

thats good you talk to her alot then. hopefuly shed be able to go to your school. try to spend a good amount of time with her if she does come, and do something youd both enjoy doing.

Reply from zimbobwa

zimbobwa — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 01:05:56 +0100

[quote JAG10]what you should is wait untill she is in your school so you can doo more together. you two would have more of those moments, the same as she had with your friend, and she will like you more, and then you should ask her out[/quote]

hmmm thats if she even gets into my school (i think she will, but you never know).

[quote JAG10]i had this happenen to me too. someone whoi lived in a diff town i didnt only like, but i loved alot, and i helped her family chose a house there, cause she wanted to move there really bad. exept i introduced her to my best friend. i told her about my feelings, and my best friends that i loved her, but i didnt spend enough time with her i guess. and she ended up falling for my best friend and not me at all, cause my friend (despite knowing i liked her alot) was hitting on her, and had sex with her and stuff (half of the time he was in a relationship). so yeah. i guess time spent with someone is important. i know i made that mistake (im sure there were a few others) i dont want you to make the same one, cause im still kinda trying to get over it, and it happened like 2 years ago. sorry for making you read alot lol[/quote]

dont worry about the long post especially after i made you read my rant. but yea i can see y your still a little upset. um but as for hanging out with her as of right now i see her usually every weekend and i talk to her alot on AIM. it seems that she comes to me with her problems too (like with the application thing to school and with this problem)

Reply from JAG10

JAG10 — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 01:00:53 +0100

so take advantage of time spent with her, but dont over do it. thats the best advice i can come up with right now. im sure alot of other ppl can give better ones but yeah

Reply from JAG10

JAG10 — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 00:59:01 +0100

i had this happenen to me too. someone whoi lived in a diff town i didnt only like, but i loved alot, and i helped her family chose a house there, cause she wanted to move there really bad. exept i introduced her to my best friend. i told her about my feelings, and my best friends that i loved her, but i didnt spend enough time with her i guess. and she ended up falling for my best friend and not me at all, cause my friend (despite knowing i liked her alot) was hitting on her, and had sex with her and stuff (half of the time he was in a relationship). so yeah. i guess time spent with someone is important. i know i made that mistake (im sure there were a few others) i dont want you to make the same one, cause im still kinda trying to get over it, and it happened like 2 years ago. sorry for making you read alot lol

Reply from JAG10

JAG10 — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 00:54:32 +0100

what you should is wait untill she is in your school so you can doo more together. you two would have more of those moments, the same as she had with your friend, and she will like you more, and then you should ask her out

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