[Help] 8 Mates, 1 Ex Boyfriend, 1 Me.. Updates to this post /post/205287-8-mates-1-ex-boyfriend-1-me Wed, 25 Nov 2009 20:24:14 +0100 Reply from Bigg Boss Is Dead /post/205287-8-mates-1-ex-boyfriend-1-me#reply-4400993 dear tell him, why i m saying this thing bec if your b/f came to know abt his frm somebody else in future, he would never trust u….. if he loves u, he will accept u…. dont worry…..

]]> Bigg Boss Is Dead Sun, 26 Oct 2008 18:13:45 +0100 Reply from SlightlyUnique /post/205287-8-mates-1-ex-boyfriend-1-me#reply-4327594 [quote castlekrist]Oh my, you poor thing. THat’s so awful!
First of all you should tell someone. A counsellor, family? Secondly, if he is your boyfriend and possibly future fiance? he should know. It would make things clearer for him to realise why you have been acting differently (if you have) and he will be able to comfort you and make sure you feel safe with him.

I hate to bring it up but it’s probably sensible to get a checkup at a gum clinic if you haven’t already, and get the police involved, make sure your ex and his friends go down for this. It’s awful what they did to you.

the good news is getting counselling is a sign of moving forward, getting engaged that’s so exciting! you have a great new relationship like you say and things can be good for you, you’ve proved you’re a strong girl anyway.

i hope the best for you, i really do[/quote]

theres nothing more i can say than this excellent post…

i really hope you are ok - my heart feels for you - it really does

]]> SlightlyUnique Wed, 08 Oct 2008 15:18:06 +0100 Reply from A.n.y /post/205287-8-mates-1-ex-boyfriend-1-me#reply-4327501 maybe if you tell him you guys can sort it out together

]]> A.n.y Wed, 08 Oct 2008 14:27:32 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/205287-8-mates-1-ex-boyfriend-1-me#reply-4327497 It Happened About 2 Monthss Ago And We Havent Been Happy Since..
He Does Try His Best..
And I Do Love Him Very Much..
But If Only I Couldnt Get My Head Sorted And He Wouldnt Have To Wait..

:(..

]]> Anonymous Wed, 08 Oct 2008 14:26:32 +0100 Reply from A.n.y /post/205287-8-mates-1-ex-boyfriend-1-me#reply-4327483 i think you should tell him.. if he loves you he’ll understand and he’ll take things slow with you until your ready… don’t tihnk if you don’t do somethin with him he’ll leave you… it’s not true if he loved you he’ld wait

]]> A.n.y Wed, 08 Oct 2008 14:19:46 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/205287-8-mates-1-ex-boyfriend-1-me#reply-4327461 Yes i have been to he doctors..
and i was fine just a lil banged up inside..
i dont no weather to tell him because hu knows hu my ex is.. its will all get nasty..
i have a lot to say to i just dont want to start any hassle..

:( but cheers for teh advise..

]]> Anonymous Wed, 08 Oct 2008 14:15:17 +0100 Reply from RapeVictim /post/205287-8-mates-1-ex-boyfriend-1-me#reply-4327446 Lmfao.
Yeah.
Yeah you should.

*insert fake sympathy here*

]]> RapeVictim Wed, 08 Oct 2008 14:10:50 +0100 Reply from castlekrist /post/205287-8-mates-1-ex-boyfriend-1-me#reply-4327407 Oh my, you poor thing. THat’s so awful!
First of all you should tell someone. A counsellor, family? Secondly, if he is your boyfriend and possibly future fiance? he should know. It would make things clearer for him to realise why you have been acting differently (if you have) and he will be able to comfort you and make sure you feel safe with him.

I hate to bring it up but it’s probably sensible to get a checkup at a gum clinic if you haven’t already, and get the police involved, make sure your ex and his friends go down for this. It’s awful what they did to you.

the good news is getting counselling is a sign of moving forward, getting engaged that’s so exciting! you have a great new relationship like you say and things can be good for you, you’ve proved you’re a strong girl anyway.

i hope the best for you, i really do

]]> castlekrist Wed, 08 Oct 2008 13:58:35 +0100