[Help] my friends are suddenly cold and distant. Updates to this post /post/211419-my-friends-are-suddenly-cold-and-di Mon, 23 Nov 2009 13:58:02 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/211419-my-friends-are-suddenly-cold-and-di#reply-4420878 When did you talk to them? You guys saw each other and it was ok or what?

]]> Anonymous Thu, 30 Oct 2008 21:03:47 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/211419-my-friends-are-suddenly-cold-and-di#reply-4414075 before i had the chance to ask them about it, they became “normal” with me again. i was probably thinking too much. thank you all!!

]]> Anonymous Wed, 29 Oct 2008 12:17:23 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/211419-my-friends-are-suddenly-cold-and-di#reply-4413918 How’d it turn out?

]]> Anonymous Wed, 29 Oct 2008 11:21:11 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/211419-my-friends-are-suddenly-cold-and-di#reply-4404990 I agree. Once college life sets in after a couple of months, some people get so serious about it (the same you would when you get your first full time job) that it consumes all of their time and energy. They probably don’t really mean much by it, but there are lots of things on your mind when you start thinking alot about your future. So some people tend to become alot less social and friendly or whatever because they’re so busy trying to figure things out. Don’t worry! :)

And still, if it’s continuing to bother you, ask the closest friend of that group if anything is wrong. They’re probably just very distracted by college stuff.

]]> Anonymous Mon, 27 Oct 2008 16:14:53 +0100 Reply from theresape /post/211419-my-friends-are-suddenly-cold-and-di#reply-4404977 During the first two months of freshman year, you tend to connect with everyone, since you have not yet formed natural groups based on your major, classes, extracurricular interests, etc.

Is it possible that your friends are just so caught up in clubs, fraternities, and school projects that they simply don’t have as much time for you as before?

What about you? Don’t you have a new set of friends evolving around your interests, major, and the activities you’re engaged in?

]]> theresape Mon, 27 Oct 2008 16:03:40 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/211419-my-friends-are-suddenly-cold-and-di#reply-4404852 Talk to them.

]]> Anonymous Mon, 27 Oct 2008 15:22:22 +0100 Reply from BSBMoony /post/211419-my-friends-are-suddenly-cold-and-di#reply-4404842 Talk to them directly - preferably one at a time. If that does not work then send a letter (or an email), to one of them describing how you feel and apologizing for anything that you might have done to hurt their feelings.

Perhaps your friends were told something about you that is not true. See if you (or someone you trust), can find out what is going on.

]]> BSBMoony Mon, 27 Oct 2008 15:20:20 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/211419-my-friends-are-suddenly-cold-and-di#reply-4404829 It’s been almost two months since you made friends with them? Or two months since they started acting weird?

]]> Anonymous Mon, 27 Oct 2008 15:14:24 +0100 Reply from closed /post/211419-my-friends-are-suddenly-cold-and-di#reply-4404813 that’s the best thing to do…take one of them aside and ask if you’ve done anything to offend them.
see if there’s a reason behind it.

have you done anything 2 months ago? anything major? gossip based on misinformation can do this.

]]> closed Mon, 27 Oct 2008 15:11:56 +0100 Reply from lucif /post/211419-my-friends-are-suddenly-cold-and-di#reply-4404803 talk to them about it.

]]> lucif Mon, 27 Oct 2008 15:09:27 +0100