[Help] Is being here a waste of time?

Reply from lanyloves

lanyloves — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 17:47:40 +0100

well for the 20 minutes that ive been on this website i dont think its a waste of ur time being here cause u already made me laugh after i was feeling like crap

Reply from sasqwatch

sasqwatch — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:07:13 +0100

wow. its certainly not a waste. I’ve had my first post up for about half an hour and i’m amazed at how quickly and helpfully people replied. Just that fact has cheered me up immensely. So if you enjoy being on here then carry on, but as the person before me said, everything in moderation… dont sit on it all the time.

Reply from Anonymous

Anonymous — Sat, 19 Sep 2009 04:31:50 +0100

Everything in moderation. This website, like so many other things, is best taken in moderate quantity.

Reply from HappyToListen

HappyToListen — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 19:02:58 +0100

its not a waste. you are helping others and being helped yourself. ths site is for people that need support and dont have it, and the more people that are on here the better.

Reply from singlegalkansa

singlegalkansa — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 19:56:04 +0100

Its not a waste if u are learning, living your life as you wish!

Reply from okei!

okei! — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 12:24:55 +0100

i try to stay away from help com, idk, maybe not until i disconnect my internet server will i be able to successfully stay away from here. but what the heck! i need help too, and pitiful it may sound, even if it is from here, i will still be needing help

Reply from Jerry

Jerry — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 12:16:32 +0100

Yeah. I’m still getting around too by the way. I feel like a bad smell that settles in the couch and everytime you sit down it comes back to suffocate you. In general I have lost my connection with this place and now very rarely find myself actually helping anyone. I’ll answer maybe 2 posts on the homepage and lost interest then go into the chat until the conversation dies. I feel like leaving, but I know that I’ll just be dragged back here for my next fix. This place is a drug and I’m feeling numb.

Reply from okei!

okei! — Sun, 15 Mar 2009 06:18:04 +0100

if you are able to help insane/ on the verge of insanity peeps (sort of like me) then you are absolutely not wasting your time

Reply from jetmoo

jetmoo — Sat, 14 Mar 2009 19:38:49 +0100

I dont think visiting this place has been a waste of time. There are people to talk to and to help with problems. i’ve met afew very nice people here that Im glad you know.

Reply from jetmoo

jetmoo — Sat, 14 Mar 2009 19:36:33 +0100

it depends how much you get out of it. whether you learn alot from it. if you feel like you are learning when you help other peole and read other people’s opinions and new approaches to different problems. if you dont learn anything or get any enjoymeny from being here then i would say yes. otherwise no.

Reply from hassan_kova

hassan_kova — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 15:05:04 +0100

well’i don’t think that it’s a “waste” for time because helping people who really need a help it’s not waste of time …”hey by the way thx for helping me”

Reply from Jerry

Jerry — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 12:32:43 +0100

Angie taught me to dribble. Schwing!

Reply from gk08hotstuf

gk08hotstuf — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 12:22:40 +0100

i dont think being here is a waste of time.you can really help people out.i like this and also people can help you out.i think it would be kind of fun to help people out by using things that you know.for example if your hobby is basketball,and someone needs help with learning to dribble you can help them out and tell them your tricks

Reply from Barbyman

Barbyman — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 11:18:50 +0100

Im not wasting my time here on help.Help in People gives me inspirations. wrote 6 Songs in six month and all from People with words of healing and problems in there Lifes.Some will not be helped,but if its only one you can help….

Reply from aeolian mode

aeolian mode — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 10:07:10 +0100

I think it is a waste of time.. I havent met one person who listens to advice.. It is just an addiction, one which that we must all wean ourselves from, to start living again.. Typing for endless hours is most certainly a waste of time.. Time is too precious to be wasting..

Reply from gmemdl

gmemdl — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 20:07:44 +0100

do you guys over there have a lot of spare time in australia cause we dont

Reply from Silverwings

Silverwings — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 16:38:32 +0100

I started this post with the intention of sharing success posts, if you would like to read thru them here is the link, also, for anyone reading this, if you know of a success post, or a quote from one that you can share, please feel free to add it to the post, as that is what it was intended for. Thanks & God bless…

http://help.com/post/223850-success-p…

Reply from Silverwings

Silverwings — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 16:35:38 +0100

[quote Jerry][quote Barbyman]either way you like it or not .I love it here and i think i can help some one.But that could be just my imagination…[/quote]

That’s what I think. I like to think that I am helping people, but not even I would want my help. It seems foolish to think that I am experienced enough to help these people. And I don’t have problems I need help with, at least not ones that I express on this website.[/quote]

Many times just knowing that someone is out there that cares is enough to lift someones spirits, and you may never know just how many you have actually touched.

We live in a very cold and impersonal world for the most part, and anytime we can find someone who cares, the sunrays begin to come thru the dark clouds that have surrounded us. Any offer of kindness is greatly needed, Please don’t stop, even though you may sometimes feel you are spining your wheels, you aren’t.

[quote Jerry]I’m really desensitised by people’s problems at the moment. Maybe I’m just overtired, but everyone’s problems seem to be just one big wall that is experiencing no reprieve. I feel like I’m repeating myself constantly, mostly about women deserving more than what they settle for.
What is it in society that is producing women who don’t care about what they deserve in a man or in life?

Thankyou to all of you who talk to me while I’m here, you reassure me that I’m not alone and that helping people isn’t my burden but my pleasure.

Invite me or shout me, I’m here, I’m listening.

J.[/quote]

It is a pleasure to help others, and anytime you or anyone else can, the world becomes just a bit more bearable for both sides, as it is just as big of blessing to give as it is to receive.

However, it can be draining, and we all have to take time to get grounded again, with time away from here, doing other things, allowing ourselves to build back up, so that we have more to give.

Sounds like it may be time for you to do something just for you.
Can you think of something that would be altogether good for you at the moment?

If you were a girl, I would suggest a hot tub bath, with bubble bath and candles… but, since you are a guy, maybe a walk in the woods? Nature has a lot of very wonderful healing and invigorating properties, and will infuse you.

Reply from Ang747

Ang747 — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 01:47:02 +0100

Well I am glad you are on here…I am new, and I already like some of your comments! :)

Reply from Jerry

Jerry — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 16:28:57 +0100

I’m really desensitised by people’s problems at the moment. Maybe I’m just overtired, but everyone’s problems seem to be just one big wall that is experiencing no reprieve. I feel like I’m repeating myself constantly, mostly about women deserving more than what they settle for.
What is it in society that is producing women who don’t care about what they deserve in a man or in life?

Thankyou to all of you who talk to me while I’m here, you reassure me that I’m not alone and that helping people isn’t my burden but my pleasure.

Invite me or shout me, I’m here, I’m listening.

Reply from laras

laras — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 15:08:30 +0100

some times because help others i forgotten n hurt myself but i wont cry as long i see smiling face of person i help.

Reply from kforhel

kforhel — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 14:26:17 +0100

Actually to start with no one join this web site to help other…. anyone who seek for her come her….. but after joining it you feel like helping others…
and you know what helping other make you forget you own pains and agony.. may be for sometime….

Reply from lazy

lazy — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 18:42:55 +0100

i hav no rl, this site is my social life, as creepy as that sounds it is dangerous too because the moment someone here doesn’t seem to quite like me and i happen to have a problem with it (which i need to work on atm), i’m out of social life.

Reply from Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 15:48:59 +0100

no this is not wastage of time…as it helps many people..who r in gr8 need of help…you are getting wishes from them.you are doing gr8 work..so be dere…nd help people..

Reply from c-eek

c-eek — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 19:39:40 +0100

Jerry, others certainly value your help here, but your friends want you to have a healthy life. This website provides a way to do volunteer work, without the expense and trouble of living home. I think it is healthy to give a little and live a lot. If you are spending too much time here, maybe you need help in order to strike a balance.
Addiction is a strong word, but if you feel addicted, you need to pay attention to your inner voice. Now, breathe!

Reply from aslmille

aslmille — Sat, 24 Jan 2009 05:47:32 +0100

If you are doing something you enjoy, it’s never a waste.

Reply from Jerry

Jerry — Sat, 24 Jan 2009 01:29:46 +0100

This website is an addiction, you can only go so long with holding your breath before you turn purple and your vision goes blurry. In conclusion, I’m still kicking around the place.

Reply from GoddessOfTheNight

GoddessOfTheNight — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 12:42:25 +0100

Don’t gooooooo.
*tries to drag back*
I liked what you write in my post.
Stay? x x x

Reply from Jerry

Jerry — Wed, 31 Dec 2008 17:51:20 +0100

Well, the current conclusion to this ongoing dilemma is that the lack of new notices and the general difficulty in finding the posts that I want to be helping on is more frustration than I want, so for the moment I have been pushed away from the website for irritation. What a shame.

Reply from crznpch

crznpch — Mon, 29 Dec 2008 02:23:05 +0100

Hey…… All I have to say is that your reply to one of my posts gave me hope. And I can’t even begin to thank you enough for taking the time to reply to me with your words of encouragement.

David

Reply from appleheart

appleheart — Sun, 21 Dec 2008 15:24:57 +0100

I don’t think being on here is a waste of time. But balance is important so if you’re spending all your time on here its maybr not the best thing.

Reply from Jerry

Jerry — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 16:15:36 +0100

It would be more helpful for those of us that aren’t as intent if the tags were working. I am finding it hard to get into the posts that I want to be helping people with because I have to search them out now and I don’t have that much time.

Reply from Cell

Cell — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 15:44:58 +0100

Well, it is a huge waste of time. Just think of all you could accomplish in your real life during the time you waste here!

Yet, on the other hand, if this site helps you and revives you to face the world again instead of calling it quits or if you help someone who is suicidal to reconsider, what is that worth? Infinite value…

Reply from Jerry

Jerry — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 15:37:39 +0100

intriguing…

Reply from Cell

Cell — Thu, 18 Dec 2008 15:36:21 +0100

Yes. And no…

Reply from Katiebug637

Katiebug637 — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 15:50:14 +0100

Definitely not a waste of time for me.. you really helped me alot just by talking to me..so i am very grateful for your existence here on this website.

Reply from Sigurrós

Sigurrós — Sat, 08 Nov 2008 06:39:37 +0100

I’d like to think I may be able to help others, but mostly I just try to save myself.

Reply from Victoria Sponge

Victoria Sponge — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 10:40:59 +0100

I do think a lot of people do know when they are out of their depth and know when to suggest professional help, I only help if I think I can, people are also happy to take that advice, this place helped me heaps and I couldn’t be happier right now, I also know I can ask for help if I need it again

Reply from Guesswhat

Guesswhat — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 09:32:48 +0100

[quote Jerry][quote Barbyman]either way you like it or not .I love it here and i think i can help some one.But that could be just my imagination…[/quote]

thats a good point, the people who post on this site who really need help often RAELLY need professional help, and often, novice help from the peanut gallery can only cause more damage.
add that to the fact that old and jaded users often heckle people who add “non-serious posts” and you may have the perfect storm. That type of interference will cause an increase in serious posts, thus, an incraese in potential harm.

id like to also note that this is a very pessimistic view, a “worst case scenario”.
the reality seems to be much different, as many people from this site have touted it with such comments as “the best thing that ever happened to me”.

my honest belief is that this site does more good than harm, and that seems to often occur in spite of longtime reg and mod interference.

Reply from most-wanted-websites

most-wanted-websites — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 20:37:05 +0100

yes :)

Reply from zoo_baw

zoo_baw — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 16:57:14 +0100

well, for me, at least, the very concept of time-wasting is pretty much subjective, isn’t it? like, what else would i rather do at work? actually working?!

Reply from thepartyguestlis

thepartyguestlis — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 06:20:44 +0100

I thinking sharing with others gives us the most fufilment, there is nothing better then being there for someone else.. as long as you do it with out agenda, and you still keep a proper life for yourself!

Reply from Doctor Hu :)

Doctor Hu :) — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 06:07:38 +0100

Alot of people who use help (myself included) found the site by googling “help” when they were at the end of their rope and about to fall. When someone is at this stage in their life, anything that brings them comfort is worth every ounce of effort put into it.
Southern Comfort, it’s ok. I know the real world is a scary, scary place, but we have to be strong! *opens door, puts one toe out, screams and shuts the door* Forget bravery. Save yourself any way you know how.

Reply from trinitymegha

trinitymegha — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 05:23:04 +0100

it is not a waste of time, if you post someting that helps someone, or just plain entertain yourself

Reply from Victoria Sponge

Victoria Sponge — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 15:43:23 +0100

Jerry I have seen you helping people and it’s not a waste of time. Some people need the jokes to lift their spirits I’m sure you know when to joke and when a joke would be completly inappropriate

Reply from Jerry

Jerry — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 15:25:09 +0100

This is me though, there is no time for seriousness! haha

Reply from tricky

tricky — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 15:22:38 +0100

[quote southern_comfort][quote tricky][quote Jerry]don’t read into it too much tricky. But I do think about the things that are going on here when I’m out doing things. Its kind of the uni holidays at the moment so I am spending alot of time on here when I should be finishing assignments. But I guess from time to time I’ve been able to throw some advice to someone amidst the elaborate replies.[/quote]if you are managing ur real life with help.com than you i think you dont have any problem , but once it starts to affect your real life , i think you need to do some thinking[/quote]Some people DO manage their real lives on here. I know of 3 people that are ALIVE because of the help given by others they each received on here. And all 3 laugh at my attempts of humor; something you could learn from them I suppose. [quote Cakes;-)][quote southern_comfort][quote Cakes;-)][quote southern_comfort][quote Cakes;-)]When my life was a trainwreak people on this site really helped me through it, I left Help.com for about a year and now I am back on track and I come here everyday hoping to support people the way I was supported, sometimes that helps just as much as the advise people give, just give your opinions and let people know how you would deal with the situations and let them know you are here to talk if they need it[/quote]This is proof that Help.ocm works the way the original starters of this site intended it to do. Big shout of Thanks to C.M. and Jeff.[/quote]Do they still visit Help I havn’t heard from CM since i came back[/quote]Sometimes I’ll see C.M. logged on but he doesn’t say much. Just wants to pop in and check on things. Like a proud grandpa checking on his sleeping grandchildren.Thanks to you too Mas. You make this place special and safe for all of us.[/quote]He was the 1st person to help me on my 1st ever post and I still remember that :) you could be making that kind of impact on people Jerry and wow you give some amazing advice[/quote]Thanks Cakes. I really appreciate that. =8^}[/quote]

there are times to laugh and times to be serious

Reply from southern_comfort

southern_comfort — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 15:20:16 +0100

[quote tricky][quote Jerry]don’t read into it too much tricky. But I do think about the things that are going on here when I’m out doing things. Its kind of the uni holidays at the moment so I am spending alot of time on here when I should be finishing assignments. But I guess from time to time I’ve been able to throw some advice to someone amidst the elaborate replies.[/quote]

if you are managing ur real life with help.com than you i think you dont have any problem , but once it starts to affect your real life , i think you need to do some thinking[/quote]

Some people DO manage their real lives on here. I know of 3 people that are ALIVE because of the help given by others they each received on here.

And all 3 laugh at my attempts of humor; something you could learn from them I suppose.

[quote Cakes;-)][quote southern_comfort][quote Cakes;-)][quote southern_comfort][quote Cakes;-)]When my life was a trainwreak people on this site really helped me through it, I left Help.com for about a year and now I am back on track and I come here everyday hoping to support people the way I was supported, sometimes that helps just as much as the advise people give, just give your opinions and let people know how you would deal with the situations and let them know you are here to talk if they need it[/quote]This is proof that Help.ocm works the way the original starters of this site intended it to do. Big shout of Thanks to C.M. and Jeff.[/quote]Do they still visit Help I havn’t heard from CM since i came back[/quote]Sometimes I’ll see C.M. logged on but he doesn’t say much. Just wants to pop in and check on things. Like a proud grandpa checking on his sleeping grandchildren.Thanks to you too Mas. You make this place special and safe for all of us.[/quote]He was the 1st person to help me on my 1st ever post and I still remember that :) you could be making that kind of impact on people Jerry and wow you give some amazing advice[/quote]

Thanks Cakes. I really appreciate that. =8^}

Reply from Victoria Sponge

Victoria Sponge — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 15:17:03 +0100

[quote southern_comfort][quote Cakes;-)][quote southern_comfort][quote Cakes;-)]When my life was a trainwreak people on this site really helped me through it, I left Help.com for about a year and now I am back on track and I come here everyday hoping to support people the way I was supported, sometimes that helps just as much as the advise people give, just give your opinions and let people know how you would deal with the situations and let them know you are here to talk if they need it[/quote]

This is proof that Help.ocm works the way the original starters of this site intended it to do. Big shout of Thanks to C.M. and Jeff.[/quote]Do they still visit Help I havn’t heard from CM since i came back[/quote]

Sometimes I’ll see C.M. logged on but he doesn’t say much. Just wants to pop in and check on things. Like a proud grandpa checking on his sleeping grandchildren.

Thanks to you too Mas. You make this place special and safe for all of us.[/quote]He was the 1st person to help me on my 1st ever post and I still remember that :) you could be making that kind of impact on people Jerry and wow you give some amazing advice

Reply from tricky

tricky — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 15:00:44 +0100

[quote Jerry]don’t read into it too much tricky. But I do think about the things that are going on here when I’m out doing things. Its kind of the uni holidays at the moment so I am spending alot of time on here when I should be finishing assignments. But I guess from time to time I’ve been able to throw some advice to someone amidst the elaborate replies.[/quote]

if you are managing ur real life with help.com than you i think you dont have any problem , but once it starts to affect your real life , i think you need to do some thinking

Reply from Jerry

Jerry — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 14:54:41 +0100

don’t read into it too much tricky. But I do think about the things that are going on here when I’m out doing things. Its kind of the uni holidays at the moment so I am spending alot of time on here when I should be finishing assignments. But I guess from time to time I’ve been able to throw some advice to someone amidst the elaborate replies.

Reply from tricky

tricky — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 14:51:34 +0100

[quote southern_comfort][quote tricky]nothing is a waste of time but coming here instead of going somewhere and doing some stuff aint that good… you have to try to balance the real world with help.com[/quote]There’s a REAL world?? No. Really?? Wait. I can’t take that. Somebody stop me. I can’t go out there. Noooooooo……..[/quote]

should i be laughing O_o

you know that ppl get sometimes too involved into the internet and stuff that they leave behind the real word and just want to go home and sit alone with there pc , that cant be that good once they really get tiered somehow from the web and look and wana go to the real world but they have missed so much… or you just are an idiot making idiotic comment ?

Reply from southern_comfort

southern_comfort — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 14:48:01 +0100

[quote tricky]nothing is a waste of time but coming here instead of going somewhere and doing some stuff aint that good… you have to try to balance the real world with help.com[/quote]

There’s a REAL world?? No. Really?? Wait. I can’t take that. Somebody stop me. I can’t go out there. Noooooooo……..

Reply from tricky

tricky — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 14:46:03 +0100

nothing is a waste of time but coming here instead of going somewhere and doing some stuff aint that good… you have to try to balance the real world with help.com

Reply from rlt7

rlt7 — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 14:44:07 +0100

The only time that is wasted,is time not growing in mind and spirit. Helping others
and at the same time helping yourself is not a waste of time.

Reply from southern_comfort

southern_comfort — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 14:41:15 +0100

[quote Cakes;-)][quote southern_comfort][quote Cakes;-)]When my life was a trainwreak people on this site really helped me through it, I left Help.com for about a year and now I am back on track and I come here everyday hoping to support people the way I was supported, sometimes that helps just as much as the advise people give, just give your opinions and let people know how you would deal with the situations and let them know you are here to talk if they need it[/quote]

Sometimes I’ll see C.M. logged on but he doesn’t say much. Just wants to pop in and check on things. Like a proud grandpa checking on his sleeping grandchildren.

Thanks to you too Mas. You make this place special and safe for all of us.

Reply from tiny dancer

tiny dancer — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 14:35:38 +0100

I came here 4 or 5 months ago in a total mental spinout. Really I was done. typed “help” into the search line… “god”(AKA the laws/ways of the universe) not only got me right here, but I saw the BRILLIANT AMUSING totally delicious writings of a member who is smarter and funnier than should be legal. It soothed my turmoil by occupying my thoughts. and slowly (albeit awkwardly) I crawled out of the black hole.

As my profile line says, I like to hide in the crowd. So I am back to that.

Oh and thankyou Help.com… oh yeah, and “God” that got me here.. oh oh and smart person for giving so much of yourself.

Reply from Adrenaline!

Adrenaline! — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 14:16:25 +0100

U can’t waste time….

Reply from chunkymove

chunkymove — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 14:15:19 +0100

hahahhaahahhaa, if you call helping humanity with solid and timly advice a waste, then yes it is.

Reply from Victoria Sponge

Victoria Sponge — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 14:14:07 +0100

[quote southern_comfort][quote Cakes;-)]When my life was a trainwreak people on this site really helped me through it, I left Help.com for about a year and now I am back on track and I come here everyday hoping to support people the way I was supported, sometimes that helps just as much as the advise people give, just give your opinions and let people know how you would deal with the situations and let them know you are here to talk if they need it[/quote]

Reply from southern_comfort

southern_comfort — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 13:55:56 +0100

[quote Cakes;-)]When my life was a trainwreak people on this site really helped me through it, I left Help.com for about a year and now I am back on track and I come here everyday hoping to support people the way I was supported, sometimes that helps just as much as the advise people give, just give your opinions and let people know how you would deal with the situations and let them know you are here to talk if they need it[/quote]

This is proof that Help.ocm works the way the original starters of this site intended it to do. Big shout of Thanks to C.M. and Jeff.

Reply from Lucey

Lucey — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 13:51:51 +0100

its not a waste of time, but you need to make sure it doesn’t start to replace real life,

Reply from chunkymove

chunkymove — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 13:48:50 +0100

better ( and cheaper ) than WOW, which was my other choice for addiction for these three months.

Reply from Victoria Sponge

Victoria Sponge — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 13:42:53 +0100

When my life was a trainwreak people on this site really helped me through it, I left Help.com for about a year and now I am back on track and I come here everyday hoping to support people the way I was supported, sometimes that helps just as much as the advise people give, just give your opinions and let people know how you would deal with the situations and let them know you are here to talk if they need it

Reply from Good ole boy

Good ole boy — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 13:25:08 +0100

[quote Jerry][quote Barbyman]either way you like it or not .I love it here and i think i can help some one.But that could be just my imagination…[/quote]That’s what I think. I like to think that I am helping people, but not even I would want my help. It seems foolish to think that I am experienced enough to help these people. And I don’t have problems I need help with, at least not ones that I express on this website.[/quote]

don’t dismiss yourself for not being experienced with problems. it’s not always essential to be experienced with a problem to offer advise. if you have a common understanding and feel like your advice is important then you are not wasting time. everyone is here for a reason and can be classified as being unique when it comes to lifting a spirit or giving genuine advice.

Reply from blackcat

blackcat — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 13:20:31 +0100

no way is this a waste of time: you get to meet new people, and lots of us want to help you. it depends on the person

Reply from Barbyman

Barbyman — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 13:20:03 +0100

well jerry even the slightest suggestion may help that Person.You dont know if you realy helped but that is the way i think it works..

Reply from southern_comfort

southern_comfort — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 13:18:31 +0100

I guess it depends on who you ask… I am almost addicted to this place. But who’s to say that is a bad thing or not. Some have found it helpful. Others have found their soul mate. I’m forever hopeful…. =8^}

Reply from Jerry

Jerry — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 13:17:11 +0100

[quote Barbyman]either way you like it or not .I love it here and i think i can help some one.But that could be just my imagination…[/quote]

Reply from Barbyman

Barbyman — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 13:15:13 +0100

either way you like it or not .I love it here and i think i can help some one.But that could be just my imagination…

Reply from I want out

I want out — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 13:14:39 +0100

I spend to much time on here, but I like it so, not a waste

Reply from Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 13:13:59 +0100

no i dont think so it may help u in ur problems…

Reply from Laina1312

Laina1312 — Mon, 03 Nov 2008 13:10:42 +0100

Nope. It’s not a waste of time.