[Help] So, my boyfriend and I finally call it quits after a tumultuous & unhealthy 4 months. Updates to this post /post/216358-so-my-boyfriend-and-i-finally-call Sun, 06 Dec 2009 04:18:17 +0100 The post was closed by WillaTree /post/216358-so-my-boyfriend-and-i-finally-call#reply-7261224 WillaTree Thu, 13 Nov 2008 17:26:38 +0100 Reply from Vjj /post/216358-so-my-boyfriend-and-i-finally-call#reply-4475785 Then I kinda think for your own safety it would be best to keep some distance. If he really needed you he’d appreciate you. Well, I hope he would.

]]> Vjj Tue, 11 Nov 2008 22:50:34 +0100 Reply from WillaTree /post/216358-so-my-boyfriend-and-i-finally-call#reply-4475033 Thanks Lizzievj. I think it’s best to stay away although I’d like to be there but the temptation is too great. I definitely see no future in us b/c he’s verbally abusive and his words do not follow his actions and we fought daily and the fact that he’s not interested in the world around us. He’s one of those bad boys that I never got to ‘experience’.

]]> WillaTree Tue, 11 Nov 2008 18:08:13 +0100 Reply from Vjj /post/216358-so-my-boyfriend-and-i-finally-call#reply-4474947 You do make it sound like he needs you for support, but it could be confusing and more hurtful in the end too. You should probably stay back until you know that you definitely do or don’t want him as your boyfriend so don’t fall back into the breaking up / getting back together cycle.

]]> Vjj Tue, 11 Nov 2008 17:11:19 +0100 Reply from kitt e /post/216358-so-my-boyfriend-and-i-finally-call#reply-4474583 I think that if you feel like you should be there for him for his surgery, then go for it. I’m sure surgery is a pretty scary thing, no matter what kind..and it’d be nice to have some support and someone to be there afterwards.

I want to ask something! How come you said there’s no future or marriage with you? Are you just not into the idea of marriage, or do you see him as just temporary?

]]> kitt e Tue, 11 Nov 2008 14:54:25 +0100 Reply from :::XxTrustxX::: /post/216358-so-my-boyfriend-and-i-finally-call#reply-4473187 Yes u shuld but do u like him?

]]> :::XxTrustxX::: Tue, 11 Nov 2008 04:13:40 +0100 Reply from WillaTree /post/216358-so-my-boyfriend-and-i-finally-call#reply-4472973 (He left in a rage the day after I told him the no marriage portion.)

]]> WillaTree Tue, 11 Nov 2008 03:06:39 +0100 Reply from WillaTree /post/216358-so-my-boyfriend-and-i-finally-call#reply-4472970 I suppose I initiated but we had a discussion the previous night that there was no future or marriage down the line for me with him. He left in a rage, threw the book I was reading across the room, and took a present that he bought me just a few hours beforehand. We’ve had about 20 break ups in a 4 month period-it’s been hell, but on the other hand I do care for him. There’s no way we would remain ‘friends’.

]]> WillaTree Tue, 11 Nov 2008 03:05:50 +0100 Reply from iwana /post/216358-so-my-boyfriend-and-i-finally-call#reply-4472956 If he really doesn’t have anyone else, it would be good of you to help him out. I know it might be hard, but it would be a kind thing to do. Who initiated the breakup this time?

]]> iwana Tue, 11 Nov 2008 03:01:33 +0100