But in your case, Fred, your woman sounds … umm… like she has some things to deal with. I don’t think that ability to gain power over people, is the same as wanting to gain that power.[/quote]

Scrip you are right, I kinda got off on a jag. Sorry about that Kyle. I guess I should refocus my reply to be helpful to Kyle. Kyle, if you are young, dont fall into the pattern of trying to compliment her thinking this will put you in her favor. Just speak your mind, and if thats puttin her down, so be it. I am not advocating being dishonestly mean, but on the other hand, honest or not, compliments will get you nowere.

But in your case, Fred, your woman sounds … umm… like she has some things to deal with. I don’t think that ability to gain power over people, is the same as wanting to gain that power.[/quote]

It’s okay….

But in your case, Fred, your woman sounds … umm… like she has some things to deal with. I don’t think that ability to gain power over people, is the same as wanting to gain that power.

maybe the female we are talking about likes power. but power over what? her mind.. no. herself.. redundant.. and no.. you? geesh, I just dont understand that.

my husband just starts talking religion (even though he is atheist, he knows the bible perfectly, and pretty much about all major religions) or physics. Hell talk about gravity (my personal favorite) sometimes, and I laugh and tell him hes seducing me. But it works, cause I appreciate the effort (and the talk!!)

in summary. be specific, not general. and take a second to get to know what the other person likes. If you dont care to do some research, then what do you expect?

that’s how I feel. too many compliements has its own problems. Especially if they are generic. Don’t tell a girl she is pretty, tell her she “has like these totally awesome eyes.. never seen such a color”.

nobody should enjoy getting insulted, but if you bring up a very valid point in a very sincere and intelligent way, you may trigger a respect response. You may be showing how logical, observant, and caring you are.

? I don’t think all women are, i just know for a fact that my only good girl is (pretty much) a ****. But she’s the nicest person in the world. I’ve nothing against hookers LOL.

……Hmm…that makes me depressed to think the girl i’ve been after my whole life is a no go….:( hah, if i take your advice it looks like all the real women around here are hookers :S. Crazy……Lets call this girl i’m after Ashley. She’s a year under me…and she’s extremely skinny, and kinda short (5′6)…but, though she looks like a child, innocence attracts me like a magnet. I’ve never had a girl….but jeesh i want her :( LOl

Meh, rough but not too rough. I got what I wanted… She said she thought I was too timid before I called her a *****. I was like wtf. But whatever.

Man, that’s rough, for u i mean. I called a chick a b***h yesterday…but guess what, she didn’t say a word because she thinks she’s of a higher lvl. Psh, plz. If she could go a day without flirting with a guy i’d give her 100 dollars lol

[quote CrazyBlondie31]Well that may be true for some but I don’t believe it is true for all. I think many girls are turned off by being put down. I know I don’t enjoy being put down and I know many others that are the same way as I am. It is a shame though that some girls are like that. I guess there isn’t much you can do about that situation.[/quote]

Sounds like i should start hitting on u. Got any pictures? LOl, just kdding ;P

Compliments get you a real woman.

Yeah me too. Much rather compliment her, but some girls just don’t want that.

I’ve had a girl start talking to me only after I told a mutual friend that I thought she was a *****.