[Help] My dear old mother seems to dislike me. Updates to this post /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike Sun, 08 Nov 2009 20:37:10 +0100 Reply from =Adam= /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4497906 No! I like my family! D;

This is abduction, this is. I’m calling the cops.

]]> =Adam= Mon, 17 Nov 2008 00:39:58 +0100 Reply from mumstheword /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4497901 Adam.. you just got adopted! :)

]]> mumstheword Mon, 17 Nov 2008 00:37:34 +0100 Reply from =Adam= /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4497896 Oh, and I’d never trust my judgment. I’m way too temperamental.

]]> =Adam= Mon, 17 Nov 2008 00:36:05 +0100 Reply from =Adam= /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4497889 [quote Jen Masterson]Parents now days just need to realise, Their Teenagers are smarter than them.

I mean they learned algebra as a freshman in collage, we learn it as middleschoolers

Its Sad, but true.

They just can keep up, and with the internet on our side, We’ll, Thye dont stand a chance.

As soon as they realise were *generally* smarter they will be ok.

Teenager will rule the world one day…mark my words.[/quote]

Really, no offense at all, but back in their day they also had proper spelling and grammar. The internet at the same time makes us more knowledgeable and more lazy and careless. I scarcely know how to spell, I rely on firefox to check my spelling. Back in their day, they had to spell correctly.

Anyway, I really don’t think that we are smarter than they are. On the new issues: The internet, technology, and maybe even general knowledge, we have the upper hand. However, they have years of experience and general learning on their side, and I think that at the very least this makes us break even.

However, in 10 years? 20 years? We’ll be smarter than they ever were. We just need time.

]]> =Adam= Mon, 17 Nov 2008 00:34:53 +0100 Reply from malori* /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4497276 i’m really happy with my momma… but if y’all need a nice aunt to take you shopping i’m definitely your girl!!

]]> malori* Sun, 16 Nov 2008 21:08:18 +0100 Reply from mumstheword /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4497255 Oh what the heck.. why not. Just need a bigger shoe house is all.

]]> mumstheword Sun, 16 Nov 2008 21:01:48 +0100 Reply from AshleyAnemia. (: /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4497249 [quote mumstheword]Adds bacon to her adoption list…[/quote]

ADD ME!
:D please!

]]> AshleyAnemia. (: Sun, 16 Nov 2008 21:01:00 +0100 Reply from mumstheword /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4497248 Adds bacon to her adoption list…

]]> mumstheword Sun, 16 Nov 2008 21:00:35 +0100 Reply from BaconByAnyOtherName /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4497244 BTW, dont think for one second youre the only one. youre not.

]]> BaconByAnyOtherName Sun, 16 Nov 2008 20:59:48 +0100 Reply from Jen Masterson /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4497226 Parents now days just need to realise, Their Teenagers are smarter than them.

I mean they learned algebra as a freshman in collage, we learn it as middleschoolers

Its Sad, but true.

They just can keep up, and with the internet on our side, We’ll, Thye dont stand a chance.

As soon as they realise were *generally* smarter they will be ok.

Teenager will rule the world one day…mark my words.

]]> Jen Masterson Sun, 16 Nov 2008 20:54:06 +0100 Reply from mumstheword /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4497209 Don’t worry.. I’ll adopt you ;)

]]> mumstheword Sun, 16 Nov 2008 20:48:15 +0100 Reply from agent6009300 /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4497104 I like your attitude Ikari

]]> agent6009300 Sun, 16 Nov 2008 20:11:41 +0100 Reply from malori* /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4496311 are***

sorry!

]]> malori* Sun, 16 Nov 2008 16:31:13 +0100 Reply from malori* /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4496308 my mom and i arfe best friends! but sometimes since we’re so close, when we fight it hurts even more. just take a deep breath when she insults you. let it go. you don’t know everything that is going on in her life. and she doesn’t know what all is going on in yours. don’t sweat the small stuff dude. let it go and try and put it in the past.

]]> malori* Sun, 16 Nov 2008 16:30:53 +0100 Reply from iwana /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4496185 Hey there. I’m a mom of a 15 year old. And have lots of friends who have teenagers, and we all compare notes. Also for whatever reason, a lot of my daughter’s friends like to talk to me, so I hear things from their point of view, too. The first thing I want you to know is that parents are not perfect. We make mistakes, we say stupid things - it happens. Sometimes we may have an excuse, but sometimes not. Obviously, there are degrees here, because some of us mess up more than others, but we are ALL going to get some things wrong. I think that’s hard for a teenager, because when you are little, you are more inclined see your parents through rose colored glasses and think they’re perfect. As a teen those glasses come off, and you see your parents for who they really are. It would be normal to be disenchanted and disappointed when people don’t live up your expectations. Second, I believe it’s programmed into parents and teenagers nature to start “getting on each other’s nerves” at that point. From a civilization standpoint, I think the purpose of this is to give the teen incentive to leave and go out on their own. The problem is that in current society, a 14 year old is NOT equipped to be out on their own.

You’ve got to know that it’s OK for teenagers to feel frustrated and not “like” their parents sometimes. But regardless, your parents (with a few, aggregious exceptions) deserve your respect. In other words, think all that stuff in your head about what a pain they are, but avoid being disrespectful, because that just makes the situation worse. And if a parent is really being unreasonable or wrong, don’t be afraid to call them on it. But DON’T do it when either of your are “raw” or emotional. Cool off first, and then calmly bring it up again, and explain the logic behind why you believe they are unreasonable or wrong. This usually means wait a day or two at least before addressing the subject again.

Also, you should know that the way you feel right now about your mom may very well change in time. My dad and I saw eye to eye on NOTHING, while I was a teenager. We understood nothing about each other and I dealt with it by avoiding him as much as possible. But that did change - by the time I was in college, things were better. Just keep those doors open.

Also, I read an article recently that said that teens experience emotions (good and bad) at double the level of a mature adult. And remembering back, I think this is absolutely true. What we adults believe is drama or angst is very real to teenagers. But we have to inhabit each other’s world, so we just have to make the best of it. And having people to go to and vent about it all is really helpful - this is a great site, isn’t it???

]]> iwana Sun, 16 Nov 2008 15:15:30 +0100 Reply from RainDancer /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4495550 Your mom is a (insert insult here). Even if she was in a bad mood she has no reason to be a (insert insult here). You are amazing and she has no reason to dislike you.

]]> RainDancer Sun, 16 Nov 2008 07:41:18 +0100 Reply from BaconByAnyOtherName /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494990 thats the abridged version?

]]> BaconByAnyOtherName Sun, 16 Nov 2008 05:29:52 +0100 Reply from Scriptease /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494980 lol. cute.

]]> Scriptease Sun, 16 Nov 2008 05:27:42 +0100 Reply from BaconByAnyOtherName /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494872 absolutely

]]> BaconByAnyOtherName Sun, 16 Nov 2008 05:07:34 +0100 Reply from Scriptease /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494863 [quote /b/acon, God of Gods]ok, what the hell is this about?[/quote]
you want the abridged version?

]]> Scriptease Sun, 16 Nov 2008 05:06:20 +0100 Reply from BaconByAnyOtherName /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494684 ok, what the hell is this about?

]]> BaconByAnyOtherName Sun, 16 Nov 2008 04:48:56 +0100 Reply from .:Hasta Iguana:. /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494449 a common human trait

]]> .:Hasta Iguana:. Sun, 16 Nov 2008 04:13:14 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494440 [quote .:Hasta Iguana:.^_^]perhaps you should tell her what you don’t like that she’s doing. I did that to my mom via email and it worked…for a few weeks

but they were a WONDERFUL few weeks! ;)[/quote]

[quote .:Hasta Iguana:.^_^]show her how she’s in the wrong[/quote]

She never admits her mistakes. A shame.

]]> Commander Ikari Sun, 16 Nov 2008 04:11:13 +0100 Reply from .:Hasta Iguana:. /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494423 show her how she’s in the wrong

]]> .:Hasta Iguana:. Sun, 16 Nov 2008 04:07:17 +0100 Reply from .:Hasta Iguana:. /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494409 perhaps you should tell her what you don’t like that she’s doing. I did that to my mom via email and it worked…for a few weeks

but they were a WONDERFUL few weeks! ;)

]]> .:Hasta Iguana:. Sun, 16 Nov 2008 04:04:32 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494257 I doubt very much she has.

]]> Commander Ikari Sun, 16 Nov 2008 03:38:13 +0100 Reply from AshleyAnemia. (: /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494236 [quote Joy.]Harsh..[/quote]

You haven’t met my mother, have you? xD

]]> AshleyAnemia. (: Sun, 16 Nov 2008 03:35:04 +0100 Reply from Joy. /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494189 Harsh..

]]> Joy. Sun, 16 Nov 2008 03:23:31 +0100 Reply from AshleyAnemia. (: /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494052 [quote Commander Ikari][quote ashleyyy;*tastrophy.][quote Commander Ikari]Simply a tragedy.[/quote]such an ash-tastrophy.Isn’t it?:D[/quote]

lol, perhaps.[/quote]

:D

]]> AshleyAnemia. (: Sun, 16 Nov 2008 02:55:43 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494026 [quote ashleyyy;*tastrophy.][quote Commander Ikari]Simply a tragedy.[/quote]such an ash-tastrophy.Isn’t it?:D[/quote]

lol, perhaps.

]]> Commander Ikari Sun, 16 Nov 2008 02:49:18 +0100 Reply from AshleyAnemia. (: /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494011 [quote Commander Ikari]Simply a tragedy.[/quote]

such an ash-tastrophy.
Isn’t it?
:D

]]> AshleyAnemia. (: Sun, 16 Nov 2008 02:47:13 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4494007 Simply a tragedy.

]]> Commander Ikari Sun, 16 Nov 2008 02:46:37 +0100 Reply from AshleyAnemia. (: /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4493999 [quote Commander Ikari][quote ashleyyy;*tastrophy.][quote Commander Ikari]Yes it is. The quiet after the storm.[/quote]

I wish my mom was like that.
I’LL TRADE YOU! xD[/quote]

Don’t think it works that way. ;)[/quote]

Sadly.
D:

]]> AshleyAnemia. (: Sun, 16 Nov 2008 02:45:42 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4493987 [quote ashleyyy;*tastrophy.][quote Commander Ikari]Yes it is. The quiet after the storm.[/quote]

I wish my mom was like that.
I’LL TRADE YOU! xD[/quote]

Don’t think it works that way. ;)

]]> Commander Ikari Sun, 16 Nov 2008 02:43:39 +0100 Reply from =Adam= /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4493947 [quote Scriptease][quote *=Adam=*]

Don’t take her sh*t. Express your anger, cold shoulder for a while. Hold a visible grudge and tell her exactly what’s up.[/quote]

I cut out the parts I thought went too far. but expressing yourself, standing up for yourself, and letting her know what’s up, would be a real growing experience and she is very likely to respond to you as a man instead of take you for grantide.[/quote]

Wise editing, you did there. I was just being melodramatic. How did I do?

]]> =Adam= Sun, 16 Nov 2008 02:36:17 +0100 Reply from AshleyAnemia. (: /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4493899 [quote Commander Ikari]Yes it is. The quiet after the storm.[/quote]

I wish my mom was like that.
I’LL TRADE YOU! xD

]]> AshleyAnemia. (: Sun, 16 Nov 2008 02:28:39 +0100 Reply from Scriptease /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4493725 [quote *=Adam=*]

Don’t take her sh*t. Express your anger, cold shoulder for a while. Hold a visible grudge and tell her exactly what’s up.[/quote]

I cut out the parts I thought went too far. but expressing yourself, standing up for yourself, and letting her know what’s up, would be a real growing experience and she is very likely to respond to you as a man instead of take you for grantide.

]]> Scriptease Sun, 16 Nov 2008 01:48:25 +0100 Reply from Time Traveller /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4493496 In many countries a fourteen year old is considered grown. I think you should consider yourself to be. Your mom has her own problems.

]]> Time Traveller Sun, 16 Nov 2008 00:58:04 +0100 Reply from =Adam= /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4493326 Bah, you’re right, to hell with her.

Don’t take her sh*t. Express your anger, cold shoulder for a while. Hold a visible grudge and tell her exactly what’s up. This is war.

]]> =Adam= Sat, 15 Nov 2008 23:52:05 +0100 Reply from .:Hasta Iguana:. /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4493137 [quote Commander Ikari][quote .:Hasta Iguana:.^_^]has it always been this way?

when I was little my mom went crazy due to all the shizz that happened to her as a kid. Crazy = not a good mom
she even landed in the phsyc ward a couple times and she regularly ran away
but she got a phsycologist and got better, and (until this year) all has been good since. (she acts like a 13 year old girl, these days…sad when your 3 teenage daughters are the mature ones in arguments..)

in fact, I hardly remember my mom being a part of my childhood.

I don’t know if any of that will help you, but for some reason I felt like I should tell you, so maybe it will.[/quote]

What happened this year to her?[/quote]

I have no idea. I’m baffled. She’s acting like she did when she was pregnant when she had my two baby sisters…but if she was I would be able to tell by now….

refer to my new post if you want more details

]]> .:Hasta Iguana:. Sat, 15 Nov 2008 22:40:56 +0100 Reply from Sherooo /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4493108 :D

]]> Sherooo Sat, 15 Nov 2008 22:32:12 +0100 Reply from Nante /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4493104 Yeah, who needs mothers when you have help.com?

]]> Nante Sat, 15 Nov 2008 22:30:55 +0100 Reply from Sherooo /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4493101 i’m glad my mum isn’t like that.

she used to have her bouts of madness… she was an alcoholic.. still is I suppose. But instead of wine she drinks vodka… apparently it makes her less crazy.
but anyway, the turning point for her was when she twisted my little sisters arm round so much she nearly broke it.

she walked out for like a night, then came back.

i guess it shows people can change once they get the wake up call.. but then again, my mum is my hero, my inpiration to be alive. she’s the one who has helped me through everything.

its a **** shame you can’t view your mum like that Ikari.

but you’ve got us :)

]]> Sherooo Sat, 15 Nov 2008 22:29:37 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4493066 [quote .:Hasta Iguana:.^_^]has it always been this way?

when I was little my mom went crazy due to all the shizz that happened to her as a kid. Crazy = not a good mom
she even landed in the phsyc ward a couple times and she regularly ran away
but she got a phsycologist and got better, and (until this year) all has been good since. (she acts like a 13 year old girl, these days…sad when your 3 teenage daughters are the mature ones in arguments..)

in fact, I hardly remember my mom being a part of my childhood.

I don’t know if any of that will help you, but for some reason I felt like I should tell you, so maybe it will.[/quote]

What happened this year to her?

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 22:16:01 +0100 Reply from .:Hasta Iguana:. /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4493060 you know I think you jsut inspired me to make a post about MY mom…

]]> .:Hasta Iguana:. Sat, 15 Nov 2008 22:12:15 +0100 Reply from .:Hasta Iguana:. /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4493056 has it always been this way?

when I was little my mom went crazy due to all the shizz that happened to her as a kid. Crazy = not a good mom
she even landed in the phsyc ward a couple times and she regularly ran away
but she got a phsycologist and got better, and (until this year) all has been good since. (she acts like a 13 year old girl, these days…sad when your 3 teenage daughters are the mature ones in arguments..)

in fact, I hardly remember my mom being a part of my childhood.

I don’t know if any of that will help you, but for some reason I felt like I should tell you, so maybe it will.

]]> .:Hasta Iguana:. Sat, 15 Nov 2008 22:11:45 +0100 Reply from Jen Masterson /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492478 Its not stupid, just dosnt work for me…Well if I wanted to I could run fast enough to get away but when I got back.. Well, I would be practicly omish, No Tv, Computer, Phone, Internet, Or anything (and im homeschooled so no friends) Most likly for abotu a month or so.

]]> Jen Masterson Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:30:17 +0100 Reply from Hyde /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492473 no eye contact…. lol

]]> Hyde Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:28:23 +0100 Reply from spiritedsoul /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492455 pah parents, I dont always get on with my mum, i even got abused by someone and she said i shudve moved out for not telling her and said I shudve known it was going to happen what they did.

one way that makes me deal with it better is to remember that parents are never perfect and are human like everyone else. they also do and say stupid things and they cant always be the best influence in life in at least some ways. you just have to learn and find ur own way to deal with things at times.

]]> spiritedsoul Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:18:14 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492445 Yes it is. The quiet after the storm.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:14:26 +0100 Reply from AshleyAnemia. (: /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492442 [quote Commander Ikari][quote ashleyyy;*tastrophy.][quote Commander Ikari]I found your advice to go out for a walk good nante, sorry if I seemed sarcastic.[/quote](:Taking one now, then?Enjoy your walk hun. (:[/quote]Nah, not now, the fight is over, she’s not bothering me, all is well once more.[/quote]

That’s wonderful.
;D

]]> AshleyAnemia. (: Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:13:51 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492439 [quote ashleyyy;*tastrophy.][quote Commander Ikari]I found your advice to go out for a walk good nante, sorry if I seemed sarcastic.[/quote](:Taking one now, then?Enjoy your walk hun. (:[/quote]

Nah, not now, the fight is over, she’s not bothering me, all is well once more.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:13:19 +0100 Reply from AshleyAnemia. (: /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492434 [quote Commander Ikari]I found your advice to go out for a walk good nante, sorry if I seemed sarcastic.[/quote]

(:
Taking one now, then?
Enjoy your walk hun. (:

]]> AshleyAnemia. (: Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:12:14 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492433 I found your advice to go out for a walk good nante, sorry if I seemed sarcastic.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:11:30 +0100 Reply from Nante /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492429 [quote Jen Masterson][quote Nante]Yeah, I figured you’d think that, thats what I thought.Just remember, you dont have to let her insult you, if it gets to that point just go for a walk.[/quote]Ha I wish, Id Get Yanked back in that door fast enough to get whiplash.[/quote]

yeah, well good point, I guess thats the diffrence, my mom may be strong, but she isnt fit enough to stop me hehe

\
poor gal…

sorry if you find my advice stupid dude, just throwing it out there…

]]> Nante Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:10:29 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492427 [quote ashleyyy;*tastrophy.][quote Commander Ikari][quote ashleyyy;*tastrophy.]Ahaaa.Woo.Ikari is online.(:To Hell with my mom too!*cheers*[/quote]Suppose this makes makes all the advice I’ve given to you be hypocritical, huh?[/quote]Noo.Coming from a person who has truly helped me.You’re advice will always work.[/quote]

Thanks, that makes me feel better.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:09:09 +0100 Reply from AshleyAnemia. (: /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492426 [quote Commander Ikari][quote ashleyyy;*tastrophy.]Ahaaa.Woo.Ikari is online.(:To Hell with my mom too!*cheers*[/quote]

Suppose this makes makes all the advice I’ve given to you be hypocritical, huh?[/quote]

Noo.
Coming from a person who has truly helped me.
You’re advice will always work.

]]> AshleyAnemia. (: Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:08:00 +0100 Reply from Jen Masterson /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492424 [quote Nante]Yeah, I figured you’d think that, thats what I thought.

Just remember, you dont have to let her insult you, if it gets to that point just go for a walk.[/quote]

Ha I wish, Id Get Yanked back in that door fast enough to get whiplash.

]]> Jen Masterson Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:07:30 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492423 [quote ashleyyy;*tastrophy.]Ahaaa.Woo.Ikari is online.(:To Hell with my mom too!*cheers*[/quote]

Suppose this makes makes all the advice I’ve given to you be hypocritical, huh?

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:07:14 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492422 [quote Nante]Yeah, I figured you’d think that, thats what I thought.Just remember, you dont have to let her insult you, if it gets to that point just go for a walk.[/quote]

Brilliant idea Nante.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:06:45 +0100 Reply from Nante /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492417 Yeah, I figured you’d think that, thats what I thought.

Just remember, you dont have to let her insult you, if it gets to that point just go for a walk.

]]> Nante Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:05:58 +0100 Reply from AshleyAnemia. (: /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492416 Ahaaa.
Woo.
Ikari is online.
(:
To Hell with my mom too!
*cheers*

]]> AshleyAnemia. (: Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:05:42 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492403 [quote Nante]Okay, maybe you and your dad should go out more together, if your not there for her to take her anger out on you, and your dads not there to agree with her, maybe she will finally deal with whatever it is she needs to deal with, and realize how important family is(sorry if thats corny)but seriously, my mom really turned around after I left.[/quote]

Don’t believe that will work. But thanks for the thought.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 19:01:59 +0100 Reply from Nante /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492393 Okay, maybe you and your dad should go out more together, if your not there for her to take her anger out on you, and your dads not there to agree with her, maybe she will finally deal with whatever it is she needs to deal with, and realize how important family is

(sorry if thats corny)

but seriously, my mom really turned around after I left.

]]> Nante Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:59:21 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492385 With my dad much better, doesn’t insult me out of the blue, fun to talk to. Always takes my moms side blindly though, won’t listen to anything I say on that. But much better in general.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:54:41 +0100 Reply from Nante /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492381 Well this might not work for you, but my mom would always kick me out, and I would always just come back when she went to work, but after the whole hug thing, IO was finally done with her, so I went to live with my dad, in about a week she felt bad and told me to come home, but I didnt, in about a month she cried and apologized and I went back home.

[quote Commander Ikari][quote ☼₦ḭṤă☼]I was going to say maybe she’s going through a tough time. Some people can’t deal, and take it out on others. I’d give her the benefit of the doubt, like Nante does with his mom. Appreciate her now, you’ll miss her when she’s gone -_-.[/quote]Well my god, I should just talk it all! she’s going through a hard time! Bless her heart, she doesn’t mean it, she can’t help it!*Wipes away tears*[/quote]

?

You think thats what I did?

Look, I love my mom for who she is, she has alot of good qualities, but in all honesty she is a tyrant, she will take her anger out on whoever is there, untill she is on her own.

When she is on her own, I guess she realizes the only person she can blame is herself.

Hows things with your dad?

how do you all get along together?

]]> Nante Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:52:44 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492379 [quote ☼₦ḭṤă☼]I just was trying to say that she might not be trying to hurt you intentionally but lashing out because she can’t deal with her own feelings.You’re a ******* **** sometimes. Forget this ****.[/quote]

Well, I think out of the blue I’ll just insult all my friends and teachers, and all of my friends on here, repeatedly. But you’ll all take it just fine, won’t you?

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:51:36 +0100 Reply from Jen Masterson /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492378 [quote libragirl12]well your age has lots to due with your feelings. At 13/14 you are in an emotional stage. I am willing to bet she is not mean, but just reacting o your up and down moods.[/quote]

Mmm, Yes Yes Yes Teenagers are demonic monster from planet Angst.

But Has Anyone here ever took into concedertation what you have said?

Like none of you have said You Couldnt stand your mother, Or You this shes bad.

It seems like a room full o’ hypocrits to me. Maybe His Mom Just Needs Some Kotex? It is possible for the MOM to the be the Angsty Mean one, its not ALWAYS the childs fault. To Heck with her was a bit harsh, But you all act like you treat your mother like a queen.

]]> Jen Masterson Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:50:59 +0100 Reply from MortallyWounded /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492377 [quote Commander Ikari][quote ☼₦ḭṤă☼]I was going to say maybe she’s going through a tough time. Some people can’t deal, and take it out on others. I’d give her the benefit of the doubt, like Nante does with his mom. Appreciate her now, you’ll miss her when she’s gone -_-.[/quote]Well my god, I should just talk it all! she’s going through a hard time! Bless her heart, she doesn’t mean it, she can’t help it!*Wipes away tears*[/quote]

Come on, guy! Relationships are a two way street. You actually owe your mom more than she owes you. You gotta put SOMETHING into it to make it work!

]]> MortallyWounded Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:50:16 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492376 [quote libragirl12]Be nice to the person that supports you, and love you[/quote]

Well, guess I don’t have to bother to be nice to my mother then, thanks for the advice.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:50:03 +0100 Reply from ____________________ /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492375 I just was trying to say that she might not be trying to hurt you intentionally but lashing out because she can’t deal with her own feelings.

You’re a ******* **** sometimes. Forget this ****.

]]> ____________________ Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:49:59 +0100 Reply from I want out /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492374 Be nice to the person that supports you, and love you

]]> I want out Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:49:20 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492373 [quote ☼₦ḭṤă☼]I was going to say maybe she’s going through a tough time. Some people can’t deal, and take it out on others. I’d give her the benefit of the doubt, like Nante does with his mom. Appreciate her now, you’ll miss her when she’s gone -_-.[/quote]

Well my god, I should just talk it all! she’s going through a hard time! Bless her heart, she doesn’t mean it, she can’t help it!

*Wipes away tears*

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:48:25 +0100 Reply from MortallyWounded /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492372 Hey, Ikari. Guess who brought you into this world! She could have thrown you out right then. It’s because of all she’s done for you that you are here right now and can enjoy this wonderful planet!

]]> MortallyWounded Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:48:14 +0100 Reply from jenny_lighthoo /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492371 exactly my point talk to her ask questions

]]> jenny_lighthoo Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:48:12 +0100 Reply from Penguin B☺y Brian /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492370 well i heard he was 14, i guess u lean somthing new every day

]]> Penguin B☺y Brian Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:48:11 +0100 Reply from I want out /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492369 well your age has lots to due with your feelings. At 13/14 you are in an emotional stage. I am willing to bet she is not mean, but just reacting o your up and down moods.

]]> I want out Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:48:02 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492366 [quote Penguin Boy]i meant ikari and nante are 14[/quote]

Nante is 15 though.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:47:23 +0100 Reply from ____________________ /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492365 I was going to say maybe she’s going through a tough time. Some people can’t deal, and take it out on others. I’d give her the benefit of the doubt, like Nante does with his mom.

Appreciate her now, you’ll miss her when she’s gone -_-.

]]> ____________________ Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:47:12 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492364 [quote jenny_lighthoo]Or unless shes a druggy?[/quote]

Not at all.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:46:53 +0100 Reply from Penguin B☺y Brian /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492363 i meant ikari and nante are 14

]]> Penguin B☺y Brian Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:46:47 +0100 Reply from jenny_lighthoo /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492362 Or unless shes a druggy?

]]> jenny_lighthoo Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:46:09 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492361 [quote jenny_lighthoo]because mums dont be mean 2 u unless u have done someting wrong or they are going through a pretty bad phase[/quote]

Really.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:45:52 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492359 [quote Nante][quote jenny_lighthoo]im 13 and if I were u apologize 2 ur mum bout what ever u did and sit next 2 her and give her a hug :)[/quote]Haha, I tried that with my mom once and she called my dad and said I attacked her.[quote Commander Ikari][quote jenny_lighthoo]im 13 and if I were u apologize 2 ur mum bout what ever u did and sit next 2 her and give her a hug :)[/quote]Why should I apologize again?[/quote]YOU DONTwanna know what I did?[/quote]

Wow.

What?

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:45:30 +0100 Reply from Nante /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492358 [quote Penguin Boy]14*[/quote]

Not me, I’m 15

]]> Nante Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:45:29 +0100 Reply from jenny_lighthoo /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492357 because mums dont be mean 2 u unless u have done someting wrong or they are going through a pretty bad phase

]]> jenny_lighthoo Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:44:59 +0100 Reply from Penguin B☺y Brian /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492356 14*

]]> Penguin B☺y Brian Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:44:49 +0100 Reply from Nante /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492355 [quote jenny_lighthoo]im 13 and if I were u apologize 2 ur mum bout what ever u did and sit next 2 her and give her a hug :)[/quote]

Haha, I tried that with my mom once and she called my dad and said I attacked her.

[quote Commander Ikari][quote jenny_lighthoo]im 13 and if I were u apologize 2 ur mum bout what ever u did and sit next 2 her and give her a hug :)[/quote]Why should I apologize again?[/quote]

YOU DONT

wanna know what I did?

]]> Nante Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:44:43 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492354 [quote ☼₦ḭṤă☼]Sorry she’s being mean, Ikari. Is she always like that?[/quote]

Often, sometimes she is quite nice.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:44:41 +0100 Reply from ____________________ /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492353 Sorry she’s being mean, Ikari. Is she always like that?

]]> ____________________ Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:44:10 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492352 [quote jenny_lighthoo]im 13 and if I were u apologize 2 ur mum bout what ever u did and sit next 2 her and give her a hug :)[/quote]

Why should I apologize again?

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:44:03 +0100 Reply from jenny_lighthoo /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492351 im 13 and if I were u apologize 2 ur mum bout what ever u did and sit next 2 her and give her a hug :)

]]> jenny_lighthoo Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:43:22 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492350 [quote Penguin Boy]nante and ikari are both 13[/quote]

Wrong.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:43:06 +0100 Reply from Penguin B☺y Brian /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492349 nante and ikari are both 13

]]> Penguin B☺y Brian Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:42:30 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492348 [quote libragirl12]How old are you?[/quote]

14.

*Waits to be patronized and told it’s about teen rebelliousness*

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:42:21 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492346 [quote Nante]Yeah, but my mom was going through something prettyy bad.but still Ikari, I dont know what you deal with, so is she always this way?[/quote]

Often in a bad mood, never admits she’s wrong, nags a lot.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:41:51 +0100 Reply from I want out /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492345 How old are you?

]]> I want out Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:41:28 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492344 [quote libragirl12][quote Commander Ikari]Does your mother say your worthless, and only ruin things?[/quote]I am a mother, What do you think brought this on?How do you treat your mother on a regular basis?[/quote]

She was in a bad mood, as often is the case, about something else, started pissing me off and being rude, led to that exchange.

When she isn’t starting anything, well.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:40:56 +0100 Reply from Nante /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492343 Yeah, but my mom was going through something prettyy bad.

but still Ikari, I dont know what you deal with, so is she always this way?

]]> Nante Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:40:46 +0100 Reply from jenny_lighthoo /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492341 well how old r u

]]> jenny_lighthoo Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:39:50 +0100 Reply from I want out /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492340 [quote Commander Ikari]Does your mother say your worthless, and only ruin things?[/quote]

I am a mother,
What do you think brought this on?
How do you treat your mother on a regular basis?

]]> I want out Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:39:36 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492339 [quote Nante][quote Commander Ikari]Does your mother say your worthless, and only ruin things?[/quote]My mother calls me names on a regulaur basis, she once told me that she gave up her life for her kids,and we were all useless, she threw me out before she’s hit me and tried to beat me up once… and she once gorged my arm with a spoon because I used her rice pot.And for some odd reason, I still love my mom and would do anything for her.[/quote]

You are an odd man Nante.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:39:15 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492336 [quote jenny_lighthoo]well, if you make her nice it would work. if you are lyk 20, u could pack a suit case and get the cheapest flight outta britain.[/quote]

Not in Britain. Not 20.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:38:48 +0100 Reply from gimli /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492335 Just what you need, Will! A cheap flight out of Britain!

]]> gimli Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:38:44 +0100 Reply from Nante /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492334 [quote Commander Ikari]Does your mother say your worthless, and only ruin things?[/quote]

My mother calls me names on a regulaur basis, she once told me that she gave up her life for her kids,and we were all useless, she threw me out before she’s hit me and tried to beat me up once… and she once gorged my arm with a spoon because I used her rice pot.

And for some odd reason,

I still love my mom and would do anything for her.

]]> Nante Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:38:39 +0100 Reply from jenny_lighthoo /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492331 well, if you make her nice it would work. if you are lyk 20, u could pack a suit case and get the cheapest flight outta britain.

]]> jenny_lighthoo Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:37:52 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492326 Ah, I should make her day after having her insult me. Brilliant.

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:35:23 +0100 Reply from jenny_lighthoo /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492324 give her a box of ferrero roche. They always work. Or buy her a ticket to a ladies evening. They work too. Or you could take her to dinner at a nice hotel…They all work for me!

]]> jenny_lighthoo Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:34:51 +0100 Reply from Commander Ikari /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492323 Does your mother say your worthless, and only ruin things?

]]> Commander Ikari Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:32:05 +0100 Reply from Penguin B☺y Brian /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492322 were all a little mad but you went to far

]]> Penguin B☺y Brian Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:31:43 +0100 Reply from Nante /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492314 Hey man dont talk about your mom like that, my mom has made me feel the same way.

]]> Nante Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:29:37 +0100 Reply from Jen Masterson /post/217912-my-dear-old-mother-seems-to-dislike#reply-4492310 Aww, Thats harsh, Whats her problem? haha.

And be carfull it could be TOTM

]]> Jen Masterson Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:28:14 +0100