[Help] my boyfriend and i have bn dating 4 2 years now n i don't feel attached any more.u no why? Updates to this post /post/219213-my-boyfriend-and-i-have-bn-dating-4 Fri, 04 Dec 2009 13:20:03 +0100 Reply from lucyclou /post/219213-my-boyfriend-and-i-have-bn-dating-4#reply-5373363 Well my boyfriend and me always argue and fight not hittin or anything just its gettin kinda old to me… he tells me that he loves me and cares but he doesnt act like it anymore… so idk we have been together for 2 yrs and almost 3 months…

]]> lucyclou Sat, 28 Nov 2009 01:58:21 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/219213-my-boyfriend-and-i-have-bn-dating-4#reply-4527474 [quote lock90]well its better to tell him how your feeling my ex fell out of love and she never told me untill she found someone new[/quote]

yeah let him know how you feel…because the same thing happened to me…and it really hurts…i wish my ex would have told me the truth than just leaving me for someone new :(

]]> Anonymous Mon, 24 Nov 2008 11:30:03 +0100 Reply from rubygirl9 /post/219213-my-boyfriend-and-i-have-bn-dating-4#reply-4514868 there was a point when i was feelin that in my relationship. I had to actually think if it was love or if i was used to him….imagine your life with out him…if u can than u probobly don’t feel much for him. If u can’t see ur life with him than ur just in a little rut. If anything tell him u need a break and see what u feel knowing he isn’t around….Keep in mind is it love or are u just used to him? that is the question (not tryin to be funny)

]]> rubygirl9 Fri, 21 Nov 2008 13:17:53 +0100 Reply from lock90 /post/219213-my-boyfriend-and-i-have-bn-dating-4#reply-4508655 well its better to tell him how your feeling my ex fell out of love and she never told me untill she found someone new

]]> lock90 Wed, 19 Nov 2008 17:14:19 +0100 Reply from Bogdan (Gone) /post/219213-my-boyfriend-and-i-have-bn-dating-4#reply-4507884 Recognise change as it occurs or else people become different overnight.

]]> Bogdan (Gone) Wed, 19 Nov 2008 10:35:16 +0100 Reply from elusive_creature /post/219213-my-boyfriend-and-i-have-bn-dating-4#reply-4507883 the key to a successfull relationship is falling in love over and over again with the same person.. Bogdan may be right that lust has clouded your mind or maybe the little things are just adding up to were it feels like its not the same and you need a change

]]> elusive_creature Wed, 19 Nov 2008 10:34:20 +0100 Reply from LOGISTIC45 /post/219213-my-boyfriend-and-i-have-bn-dating-4#reply-4507879 TRY ME

]]> LOGISTIC45 Wed, 19 Nov 2008 10:31:42 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/219213-my-boyfriend-and-i-have-bn-dating-4#reply-4507874 sometimes things like this happen…I would talk to him and just tell him how you feel…also just try to go on dates and make it exciting again…and if that doesnt work then maybe you need a break.

]]> Anonymous Wed, 19 Nov 2008 10:28:42 +0100 Reply from Bogdan (Gone) /post/219213-my-boyfriend-and-i-have-bn-dating-4#reply-4507873 Sounds to me like lust. The hormones of lust last up to 2 years, then they fade away into the “cuddle hormones”. It seems you do not have love for him, a strong emotional connection independant of any physical connection.

]]> Bogdan (Gone) Wed, 19 Nov 2008 10:28:07 +0100