[Help] I'm sick of everything.

Reply from john.carruthers

john.carruthers — Mon, 18 May 2009 11:22:56 +0100

A relationship is about two people making time for each other so you have to try and get him away from the computer and talk to him. You need support from someone

Reply from topsy-turvy

topsy-turvy — Wed, 13 May 2009 04:04:57 +0100

Hi rain! I understand where you’re coming from. You know what, I have been in this position in the past too. And once in a while I still have trouble with it. but Zenn is right. You need to get away for a while.

Some suggestions if you don’t have the budget to go out of town:

1. Stay in a cheap motel room to read books or watch tv the whole day and if the cheap motel has a pool or a tub or a jacuzzi like some of the ones here where I’m at, then go for it!

2. Gas up and drive around. It doesn’t matter where you’re going.. JUST GO!!

3. If you don’t have a car, then Get on a bus, it doesn’t matter where it’s going as long as it’s a long trip. If not, transfer from one bus to another. If you wan’t to know where it’s going, then look. If not, it’s okay. You don’t really need to see where it’s going– but go ahead anyway.

The point in doing this? Is to move… move and do something that’s really nothing… You know what I’m saying?….. Just laze around, as long as you’re not at your house… just go…. be careless and care free and just do what you want to do.. It can be just for a day…. just for a night… two, tree days… it doesn’t matter…. but get away from your routine and just let go…

One of the things that I’d do is visit my hometown… Because when I do, I’d realize how lucky I am to bere where I’m at now…..

But go ahead and give it a try….. breathe air (or smug! LOL), don’t care, don’t bother, and most importantly— just let go.

You don’t have to trust me and take my word for it. Go ahead and see for yourself if it’d work for you. If not, SO WHAT? at least you’ve done something.

Reply from Rain37

Rain37 — Fri, 28 Nov 2008 03:25:59 +0100

I wish I could, but I don’t have either the time or the finances to be able to take time out.

Reply from Zenn

Zenn — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 15:21:45 +0100

Are you able to take time out, go to the country or even get a room at a local hotel, it seems to that you are surrounded by alot of things that are bringing you down and hindering your train of thought.

Reply from Rain37

Rain37 — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 14:55:19 +0100

[quote Zenn]Forget your boyfriend for the time being, focus on yourself (if you can still how to perform such an act)… Is this an issue about your boyfriend, or is it a “I hate my life” thing?[/quote]

My boyfriend is part of my life, so I don’t see the difference.
There are several things going on currently that are both unpleasant and inescapable, and I’m having trouble dealing with it. I’m sick of being stuck in this position.
And yes, I know I could solve the boyfriend issue by getting rid of him. But that’s not simple either.

Reply from Zenn

Zenn — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 14:49:45 +0100

Forget your boyfriend for the time being, focus on yourself (if you can still how to perform such an act)… Is this an issue about your boyfriend, or is it a “I hate my life” thing?

Reply from Rain37

Rain37 — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 14:46:06 +0100

[quote Zenn]There is something deeper going on here, am I correct?[/quote]

I don’t even know anymore, to be honest.

[quote Gabz]Why is he your boyfriend ? If he’s too busy with his computer games, boot his a$$ and get a real man. You deserve better.[/quote]

Yeah, good question. I’m asking myself that too. Most of my answers so far have been rather pathetic.

Reply from Ξ.Ģäβž.Ξ

Ξ.Ģäβž.Ξ — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 14:43:16 +0100

Why is he your boyfriend ? If he’s too busy with his computer games, boot his a$$ and get a real man. You deserve better.

Reply from Zenn

Zenn — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 14:43:14 +0100

There is something deeper going on here, am I correct?