[Help] I fell deep for this girl and she broke my heart and now I don't know what to do with myself. Updates to this post /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b Mon, 30 Nov 2009 10:09:24 +0100 Reply from reaperthehacke /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-5249504 i no the pain m8 with this girl her name was amy penny she said she wanted us and she was holdin my hand but wen i ask her out she sayz she does not want 2 why do girls play mind games?

]]> reaperthehacke Tue, 15 Sep 2009 10:26:01 +0100 Reply from malicooli /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-5237339 i’v been in that situation right now and it hurts me soo bad, i simply dont know how to help u but i know your feelings.. i wanna kill myself but im too scared, i tried to call her but she just keep on shouting at me and hanging the phone.. she hates my family cause they dn’t want her and i get all the blame…. most of all she hurt me becoz she knows i love her, and i hate her for that.. she is so mean, i just don’t get it either.

]]> malicooli Tue, 08 Sep 2009 17:00:07 +0100 Reply from akhe /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4548510 To be honest… rare as it may be… I’ve been there. Done that. Thought it was special. Gave all of my heart to her. But it never worked out. Many good and logical reasons as to why that happened may very well have been there, but I denied them. Didn’t want to listen to reason or anything else. I thought I was the only one.

This **** happens all the time, for reasons unknown. But if you keep it too long on the inside, I warn you… don’t end up like me. I’ve given up hope. I don’t give a **** about anything but me anymore.

]]> akhe Sun, 30 Nov 2008 00:01:30 +0100 Reply from S_lalic /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544081 ppl dnt mean 2 be like that or so they say! umm its complicated 2 explain how it happends but it does but all u really need is ppl 2 tlk 2 and express ur feelings 2

]]> S_lalic Fri, 28 Nov 2008 21:08:58 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544076 People can turn on you on a dime! You just don’t know any more!

]]> littlenick Fri, 28 Nov 2008 21:08:02 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544073 Why are people like this? Why are they this mean? How could you do that to someone you say you love? There are so many answers I need. I don’t understand it.

]]> Anonymous Fri, 28 Nov 2008 21:07:26 +0100 Reply from S_lalic /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544070 yea but the feelings r still there thats what i men

[quote Anonymous][quote S_lalic]its not what love is about trust me ull move on! and i kno it sucks when all u want is her?him and they dnt want u![/quote]I don’t want her. How could I when she did this. I don’t believe she really loved me. I did fall and fell hard.[/quote]

]]> S_lalic Fri, 28 Nov 2008 21:06:12 +0100 Reply from thep /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544067 You cant stop the hurt, you have to do the crying, the missing and deep yearning. Something that meant everything to you is missing from your life. It is a grief that doesn’t just go away but has to be lived with.
It takes time for you to adjust to the loss, to accept it.

I think that if your girl was like tumbles40, in her reply, sums it up. They just want fun and dont care to much about a guys feelings. It doesn’t mean anything else to them but having fun, thinking just of themselves and to hell with how the guy feels.

]]> thep Fri, 28 Nov 2008 21:05:03 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544065 [quote S_lalic]its not what love is about trust me ull move on! and i kno it sucks when all u want is her?him and they dnt want u![/quote]

I don’t want her. How could I when she did this. I don’t believe she really loved me. I did fall and fell hard.

]]> Anonymous Fri, 28 Nov 2008 21:05:01 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544064 If she broke your heart, the worst thing you can do is be friends with her. Because, then you have to put up with her seeing somebody else or being with somebody else. I think you are making the right decisiion not being friends with her. That will help you a little better to get over her.

]]> littlenick Fri, 28 Nov 2008 21:04:55 +0100 Reply from S_lalic /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544059 its not what love is about trust me ull move on! and i kno it sucks when all u want is her?him and they dnt want u!

]]> S_lalic Fri, 28 Nov 2008 21:03:28 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544058 I think that with time your wounds will heal. But you have to give yourself a chance. The reason why I asked how old you were, is because sometimes I see 13 or 15 year olds saying they don’t want to live anymore because someobody broke up with them and my heart aches for them as it does for you know. However I realize that 13 or 15 years are resilient and can bounce back from that but their psyche is more fragile. I would hope yours is a little tougher and that you can move on from this heartache. It must be a pretty tough situation where you actually gave this person your heart and she just stomped all over it.

]]> littlenick Fri, 28 Nov 2008 21:03:11 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544057 [quote S_lalic]well i kno exactly how u feel ive been hurt more times than i can count! first off u need 2 tlk 2 sumone u trust sum one u dnt feel stupid crying in front of and vent! what u feel what u think went wrong or what u think didnt go wrong! then slowly but steadly try 2 move on and at the same time still tlk 2 her! u guys can still b friends im a gurl and i hate it when u break up and just cause of u breakin up ur not frindz! keep it friendly but not clingy! just have fun with ur life! and dnt wrry ull find love again! :) i hope this helps![/quote]

I don’t want to be friends with her.

]]> Anonymous Fri, 28 Nov 2008 21:03:05 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544053 [quote WillaTree][quote littlenick]First of all, how old are you?[/quote]Littlenick, you always want to know how old people are (lol)! And your reply is always the same, You’re too young to feel that way! Give the person some help already!Me: Had a divorce after 9 yrs. Just broke up with someone (we had a shaky r’ship of just 5 months) and the break up is 100 times worse than my divorce ever was. You just don’t know how the situation will affect you. My only advice is to lean into the pain; make friends with it. Feel. You will eventually feel better days, weeks down the road. It will get better![/quote]

How do I deal with the anger? I have punched holes all over my house. It hurts so bad. If this is what love is about I don’t want it.

]]> Anonymous Fri, 28 Nov 2008 21:02:11 +0100 Reply from S_lalic /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544050 well i kno exactly how u feel ive been hurt more times than i can count! first off u need 2 tlk 2 sumone u trust sum one u dnt feel stupid crying in front of and vent! what u feel what u think went wrong or what u think didnt go wrong! then slowly but steadly try 2 move on and at the same time still tlk 2 her! u guys can still b friends im a gurl and i hate it when u break up and just cause of u breakin up ur not frindz! keep it friendly but not clingy! just have fun with ur life! and dnt wrry ull find love again! :) i hope this helps!

]]> S_lalic Fri, 28 Nov 2008 21:01:22 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544048 I’m not a super clingy person. I just gave this girl my heart and I’ve never done that before.

]]> Anonymous Fri, 28 Nov 2008 21:00:13 +0100 Reply from WillaTree /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544046 [quote littlenick]First of all, how old are you?[/quote]

Littlenick, you always want to know how old people are (lol)! And your reply is always the same, You’re too young to feel that way! Give the person some help already!

Me: Had a divorce after 9 yrs. Just broke up with someone (we had a shaky r’ship of just 5 months) and the break up is 100 times worse than my divorce ever was. You just don’t know how the situation will affect you.

My only advice is to lean into the pain; make friends with it. Feel. You will eventually feel better days, weeks down the road. It will get better!

]]> WillaTree Fri, 28 Nov 2008 20:59:48 +0100 Reply from tumbles40 /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544041 truth is you dont “stop the hurt” you move on , I know its really hard to do…but seriously its the only thing that helps…idk how old you r bt it doesnt matter your never too old or too young to love but if you are young you have allllllllllot of different chances in life with love and you shouldnt let one girl stop you…im a girl and i dont want a super clingy guy…so move on! have fun!

]]> tumbles40 Fri, 28 Nov 2008 20:58:12 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544031 25 on Tuesday.

]]> Anonymous Fri, 28 Nov 2008 20:54:13 +0100 Reply from littlenick /post/222275-i-fell-deep-for-this-girl-and-she-b#reply-4544019 First of all, how old are you?

]]> littlenick Fri, 28 Nov 2008 20:50:44 +0100