[Help] please help me help myself.

Reply from c-eek

c-eek — Sat, 29 Nov 2008 05:56:23 +0100

Check around to see if there is anyone in your grandparents’ neighborhood who needs household help. Childcare work is almost always available. If there are elderly people living nearby, they may need help with daily chores so they can stay in their homes. Often, they are afraid to advertise for helpers, but will gladly pay someone who offers. Your children may even be able to help with pet care, under your supervision, of course.
I know you may feel desperate, but there is always a way to pull yourself out of a bad situation if you are young and capable of working hard.

Reply from PaDLe

PaDLe — Sat, 29 Nov 2008 01:52:57 +0100

Pray. That’s all I can say. I’m so sorry for what happened to you.

Reply from spaceangel

spaceangel — Fri, 28 Nov 2008 23:19:59 +0100

im on a neighbors comp. my landlord dont know yet, im too scared to tell him but he dont seem very interested about anyones life though. i dont have any friends i found out who my true friends are when noone showed or offered any help. i just dont know how to sort things out anymore

Reply from Packman

Packman — Fri, 28 Nov 2008 22:14:11 +0100

is thier anything like a hostle? or anything? is your landlord showing any sympathy? and maybe your true friends could lend a hand? like, untill you can maybe sort somthing out with your employers, sorry to hear about your mum being homeless ,
best of luck, how are you useing the internet? didnt they take your computer? or are u using somoneo elses?

Reply from spaceangel

spaceangel — Fri, 28 Nov 2008 22:11:45 +0100

my mom is homeless too my dad has never been around, my moms at my grandmas too. i have tried a lot of churches, but with no help. dont really have a ride to get anywhere or bus money ar anything really. i just have a couple churches close and one said no already

Reply from Packman

Packman — Fri, 28 Nov 2008 22:06:34 +0100

thanks, that problem is actaully very old and has been sold :D , thanks alot for the thought though. if your religious or not, churches can be really generous, have you checked thier for advice and help? couldnt you move in with your parents (if thats possible, my apologies if they have passed on)

Reply from spaceangel

spaceangel — Fri, 28 Nov 2008 22:00:25 +0100

i have a job if i could get there, but no i found out who my friends are recently, unfortunately. ive called every charity in kc, but noone can help. anyways i can probably help you with your networking problem though.

Reply from Packman

Packman — Fri, 28 Nov 2008 21:44:09 +0100

im so, so sorry, thiers probably not words to express how much i feel for you, thiers nothing i can phisically do :/, maybe go to a charity? or somthing like that, have you many friends? and do you have a stable job?