[Help] Do you think that some people can't be helped? Updates to this post /post/222406-do-you-think-that-some-people-can Thu, 03 Dec 2009 04:00:19 +0100 Reply from GstGrl /post/222406-do-you-think-that-some-people-can#reply-4551173 You sound just like me… I used to feel like I couldn’t go on and there were times that I tried not to but everybody has a place in this world. I don’t believe anybody is beyond help. You just have to believe in yourself, depression does not go away easily… if there’s something that really gets you down and causes you to have constant breakdowns and moments where you don’t feel like you can go on, work as hard as you can to change those things first, believe in yourself!!!!! I never felt like there was anybody that I could talk to because telling people what I feel could get me committed and I always felt like I was being a burden because everybody has their own problems… you know what?! I was wrong… you should always find one person that you can trust with everything you need to say… If you need to talk ever, I will be there for you always… it doesn’t help to keep everything inside, getting it out is the best therapy you can get… like I said, I will be here for you whenever you need to vent or talk or anything… good or bad. I have been through it all and I know it’s a very difficult road but you’re worthy of your future. Keep telling your problems that the future started yesterday and they’re already late!!! Smile because you made it and you have the chance to make your dreams a reality!

]]> GstGrl Sun, 30 Nov 2008 21:51:50 +0100 Reply from martinsg /post/222406-do-you-think-that-some-people-can#reply-4549059 Lose that therapist. Try Dianetics. And If you don’t want to help yourself, try helping others. Just interest yourself in other’s people problems and try to solve it. Your depression will dissapear magickly. But try first interest yourself in Dianetics.

]]> martinsg Sun, 30 Nov 2008 03:52:57 +0100 Reply from IDon'tEverQuit /post/222406-do-you-think-that-some-people-can#reply-4545611 I know exactly how you feel. I’ve been there, I am there. Try to talk to your therapist. I found it really hard at first when I was younger (and had a GOOD therapist) but after a few times I realized that it helped quite a bit. Everyone can be helped. You just need to want it more than anything. You can do it. Don’t ever quit.

]]> IDon'tEverQuit Sat, 29 Nov 2008 04:45:25 +0100 Reply from barely /post/222406-do-you-think-that-some-people-can#reply-4545539 Do you have any family close that you can talk with? It helps to have someone that you can talk to or do things with.

]]> barely Sat, 29 Nov 2008 04:23:38 +0100 Reply from dimmingstar1376 /post/222406-do-you-think-that-some-people-can#reply-4545537 hun talk to your therapist it can be hard but your not helping yourself your not allowing yourself to be helped you put up a wall and your stopping your self from changing talk to your therapist

]]> dimmingstar1376 Sat, 29 Nov 2008 04:23:10 +0100 Reply from SingerInPurple /post/222406-do-you-think-that-some-people-can#reply-4545525 Time heals all IF you let it.

]]> SingerInPurple Sat, 29 Nov 2008 04:19:57 +0100 Reply from sylvianepicho /post/222406-do-you-think-that-some-people-can#reply-4545517 If you can t even talk to your therapist, you my friend are in deep waters…..First and foremost, you must trust this person who you are to confide in. Its like talking to your best friend. So if you can t trust this therapist, choose another own, its your choice!! And for starter, what ever problems you have or think you have. STOP THE DWELLING, cause it like the eye of a hurricane. you keep on swirling and swirling to the pitts of it. Instead wake up in the morning and just say thank you, I had a nice sleep in a nice bed of sofa, but at least you slept!!! You must focus on small things around you that are good. You ate something during your day? THANK YOU. You received mail (good or bad)THANK YOU. If you start slowly like that, you will be making a shift in your brain that will do the opposite of what the eye of the hurricane does. So instead of going down, you ll be going up. You must percevere in your actions. And besides we always think that we are alone and unworthy. SORRY BUT WHERE NOT Just the fact that you are here now is of great importance, maybe not to you, but to others, like me, for example. If nobody ever told you, well YOU ARE SPECIAL.

]]> sylvianepicho Sat, 29 Nov 2008 04:17:25 +0100 Reply from acrochic7 /post/222406-do-you-think-that-some-people-can#reply-4545447 i can so relate…but you have to believe you can change, and get better. having a non positive attitude wont help you get better.

]]> acrochic7 Sat, 29 Nov 2008 03:55:54 +0100 Reply from barely /post/222406-do-you-think-that-some-people-can#reply-4545446 There are only two cures for depression, 1) drugs, 2) positive action on your part. You need to get up and get moving, do something to create that good positive feeling we all crave.

]]> barely Sat, 29 Nov 2008 03:55:31 +0100 Reply from . - : 2511 : - . /post/222406-do-you-think-that-some-people-can#reply-4545434 Answering to the post main question…

Only ppl who don’t believe they can’t change, can’t be changed…

]]> . - : 2511 : - . Sat, 29 Nov 2008 03:53:10 +0100 Reply from tears of rage /post/222406-do-you-think-that-some-people-can#reply-4545431 just do wht PaDLe is tellin u…..know wht u love to do and do it……and try to be honest with ur therapist if u think that she is not helping you at all just find another one that you feel comfertable around …..hope everthing turns alright :)

]]> tears of rage Sat, 29 Nov 2008 03:52:51 +0100 Reply from PaDLe /post/222406-do-you-think-that-some-people-can#reply-4545411 It’s up to you on how you want to live your life. Stop the negative thinking and find something that you love to do.

]]> PaDLe Sat, 29 Nov 2008 03:47:32 +0100