[Help] I just moved to be with my boyfriend who has suddenly decided that he's not in love with ... Updates to this post /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien Tue, 08 Dec 2009 06:23:45 +0100 Reply from h_9 /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4553397 hgaeurhgwhc ew yegruhqwef gefygeujjx

]]> h_9 Mon, 01 Dec 2008 17:01:51 +0100 Reply from Frogger /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4553381 Don’t let the guy have that much control over you.
If he says he doesn’t love you anymore and you still do, then get away from him until you don’t love him anymore.
It won’t make you feel better staying with him.
Your hapiness matters more than his.
Even if you feel miserable leaving him, you know it’s the right thing to do for you!
And it won’t feel as miserable if you stop telling yourself to stay with him because you love him! Love is not always enough!!
He can’t expect you to stay with him after telling you he doesn’t love you anymore.
So get a hold of yourself and leave him. That’s step one.

]]> Frogger Mon, 01 Dec 2008 16:54:03 +0100 Reply from lavinago83 /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552350 It’s so funny because I wanted to complain about my life…… I wanted to complain about wanting to END my life…. But I came across this blog… Life as a woman can be so hard. In the bible it says that we are to desire our husbands and long for them…. so it is distend…. But if you see the signs before hand, take action! Take action my young sister and run…. Think of YOU! I’m not saying to be thoughtless of him…. but…. be thoughtless of him…understand? Men… ugh…men have a back up plan ALWAYS…. You do the same! if you need to go back where you came from to succeed, then do that… Don’t be ashamed! Just do it!

]]> lavinago83 Mon, 01 Dec 2008 06:18:13 +0100 Reply from lavinago83 /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552312 Well, I have been with my “ex fiance` ” for 10 years now…but been in a city he promised that things would be great. I use to live in Northern California and he promised that if he moved me and my kids to Southern California things would be much better….. Well, we have been here for 5 years now. And I have to say it has been very, very hard and stressful. Nothing he has promised has come to be. We have now come to a point in our relationship that we have agreed to part because he is not happy and not in love with me…. he loves me…but “NOT IN LOVE”. So my point is….. we have been contemplating ending the relationship for over 5 years….but…. because we are so stubborn and strong minded/stubborn….we tried working it out. If for some reason you or he already were not happy and thinking about ending it…. you should end it now because you have less material and physical/mental attachment with each other… I wish you the best… & remember…. Think of you first because no one will!
With love….
a WOMEN!

]]> lavinago83 Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:47:04 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552278 thank you G

i dont want to change anymore. im so over change

]]> Anonymous Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:21:45 +0100 Reply from Sasha101 /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552270 You have become set in your ways with him, and are probably scared of the big wide world alone, be self assertive hon, you can make it alone, better that than to stay in a loveless relationship. from his side anyway.

]]> Sasha101 Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:17:39 +0100 Reply from ghvbjyyjv /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552262 Your so negative~

]]> ghvbjyyjv Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:15:00 +0100 Reply from qtdeedee0 /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552256 if you dont know what you want to do in college its ok just find your options n pick out what u would like too do there r so many great things you can get into.n if your boyfriend wont break up with you then maybe he still has hope for the relationship

]]> qtdeedee0 Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:13:10 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552254 then why do i find it impossible to leave him

i see no future for me at all

]]> Anonymous Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:12:58 +0100 Reply from Sasha101 /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552248 He cant keep you in a relationship where he doesn’t love you,he at least owes you the respect to let you move on with your life hon. Decide a career and plan your life. You owe this to yourself, have a bright future. :-)

]]> Sasha101 Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:11:55 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552243 sure

]]> Anonymous Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:10:11 +0100 Reply from Time Traveller /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552230 I have invited some people who are really good helpers. I hope you feel better.

]]> Time Traveller Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:07:20 +0100 3 users were invited to read this post by Time Traveller /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-7421380 Time Traveller Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:06:43 +0100 3 users were invited to read this post by Time Traveller /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-7421379 Time Traveller Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:06:39 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552222 ya you sound like every other person that has said that for the past three years

]]> Anonymous Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:05:29 +0100 Reply from Time Traveller /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552217 Things will start to go your way, don’t give up. You deserve to be happy.

]]> Time Traveller Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:04:09 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552213 i don’t live with him. I live alone. he still lives with mommy an daddy

]]> Anonymous Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:03:05 +0100 Reply from Time Traveller /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552211 I would suggest you try to get your own place when you can because he says he’s “not in love with you”. That doesn’t seem to be a healthy kind of day to day lifestyle if you live with him.

]]> Time Traveller Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:02:27 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552208 i don’t know what i want anymore

]]> Anonymous Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:00:46 +0100 Reply from Time Traveller /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552207 not anymore?

]]> Time Traveller Mon, 01 Dec 2008 05:00:26 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552205 thought i wanted to be an english teacher

]]> Anonymous Mon, 01 Dec 2008 04:59:46 +0100 Reply from Time Traveller /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552202 career wise

]]> Time Traveller Mon, 01 Dec 2008 04:58:37 +0100 Reply from Time Traveller /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552201 Well next question, what do you think you want to be when you grow up?

]]> Time Traveller Mon, 01 Dec 2008 04:57:51 +0100 Reply from Anonymous /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552196 no bc i’m stupidly still hopelessly in love with him

]]> Anonymous Mon, 01 Dec 2008 04:56:33 +0100 Reply from Time Traveller /post/223036-i-just-moved-to-be-with-my-boyfrien#reply-4552179 Do you want to break up?

]]> Time Traveller Mon, 01 Dec 2008 04:51:10 +0100