[Help] I have two super hot, really sweet best friends. Updates to this post /post/224412-i-have-two-super-hot-really-sweet Sun, 29 Nov 2009 23:05:33 +0100 The post was closed by ohlordy /post/224412-i-have-two-super-hot-really-sweet#reply-7457986 ohlordy Fri, 05 Dec 2008 08:26:08 +0100 1 user were invited to read this post by Hybrid Theory /post/224412-i-have-two-super-hot-really-sweet#reply-7457320 Hybrid Theory Fri, 05 Dec 2008 05:47:19 +0100 Reply from *Dougie* /post/224412-i-have-two-super-hot-really-sweet#reply-4565591 My point is about if they change their interest from you to your friends after meeting them! That is shallow.

I wasn’t suggesting there’s anything wrong with guys that for other reasons are interested in your friends and not you to begin with.

Because that would be like saying your friends don’t deserve to have guys interested in them. And you do more.

Nah!

But I think if a guy shows a lot of interest in you, and then suddenly doesn’t because of one of your friends. He’s probably not worth going out with.

]]> *Dougie* Fri, 05 Dec 2008 05:25:34 +0100 Reply from ohlordy /post/224412-i-have-two-super-hot-really-sweet#reply-4565575 Thanks for your advice Dougie, but the friends AREN’T just hot. They are also really sweet so it’s not just shallow guys that like them. Nice guys go for them too :/

]]> ohlordy Fri, 05 Dec 2008 05:21:58 +0100 Reply from thistorontogu /post/224412-i-have-two-super-hot-really-sweet#reply-4565566 I think veg_head’s advice is correct. Enlist their cooperation. Maybe if they meet your new guy, they can act like total jerks (a big act) and “abandon” the two of you so you can spend some time together. IF they are your friends, they will help you. If not, hmmmm, maybe they ain’t the best friends you thought they were.
Good luck

]]> thistorontogu Fri, 05 Dec 2008 05:18:31 +0100 Reply from *Dougie* /post/224412-i-have-two-super-hot-really-sweet#reply-4565563 Its actually a good thing.
Because any guys that will go for ‘the hot’ girls, are probably too shallow and need not be bothered with in the first place.

Think of your ‘hotter’ friends as a ‘genuine-ometer’!
They are really helping you to sort out the shallow guys from the nicer ones.

Any guy that will automatically go for the ‘hotter’ girls, is clearly only interested in physical appearance, and getting into a girls pants!

A decent guy if he meets you, and has already taken a liking to you, is unlikely to suddenly lose all interest and go for someone else, if he is genuine.

there is a positive in all this!

Your friends are doing you a favour.
And as long as you don’t hold a grudge against them for something they can’t help, then really I don’t see the problem!

Although I feel sorry for your friends if they are being pursued by shallow as*holes!

]]> *Dougie* Fri, 05 Dec 2008 05:18:12 +0100 Reply from veg_head /post/224412-i-have-two-super-hot-really-sweet#reply-4565540 that sucks :( Maybe you should try telling your friends if a guy is off limits; they may be flirting with them without getting that you like the guy. if you trust your friends are real friends you can trust them not to betray you.

]]> veg_head Fri, 05 Dec 2008 05:12:23 +0100 Reply from angel♥ /post/224412-i-have-two-super-hot-really-sweet#reply-4565518 AHH! i have the exact same problem! they’ll like me but then they meet my friends and then slowly start to ignore me and like my friends. soooo annoying!

i share your pain and frustration! sorry i couldnt help though! =/

]]> angel♥ Fri, 05 Dec 2008 05:08:58 +0100